>be me, middle school teacher>spend years boymoding, eventually can't take it anymore>come out because it's either that or suicide>reception isn't great>coworkers are woke (it's a blue state) but still he/him me constantly>kids are even crueler>get wadded up paper thrown at me with "faggot" and "tranny" written on it thrown at me when I'm not looking>one day, a boy stays after class>says he wants to talk to me>get ready to be called horrible things>"Mr.-I mean-Ms. Anon, ummm... why did you do it?">"It?">"Like, start wearing lady clothes.">"Well, I felt uncomfortable being male since I was a kid, and I really wanted to be a woman, and eventually it just got so bad that I couldn't live as a man anymore.">"I don't want to be a boy, I want to be a girl... am I going to end up a freak like you too?">the kid starts crying>don't know what to say, just stand there watching the kid bawl their eyes out>they get up and leaveThis happened today and now I can't sleep. What the fuck do I do?
>>41685853is this real?
>>41685853pay the hon toll
>>41685853why are you living
>>41685853is this what americans mean when they say they are trooning their children?
>>41685864I wish I was larping.>>41685865what's the hon toll?>>41685895at this point, for the hope that ffs makes things better.>>41685907I think it's the opposite and I made the kid rep.
>>41685853This is not real but it would be fucked up if it was
>>41685976if you're not larping you should talk to that kid and see about contacting his parents. I did that to one of my teachers (albeit without the rude comment) and they did nothing, and I ended up having to wait years to troon
>>41685976>I think it's the opposite and I made the kid rep.now you know what you have to do
>>41685983idk how the kid's family would react, and I don't want to out them into a potentially hostile situation. Besides, I don't know if they even want to transition.>>41685991I think killing myself would probably make the kid even more scared of transition though.
>>41685853>What the fuck do I do?Why do troons ask this when they already know the answer? Kill yourself, freak. You are not a person.
>>41685983SELL THE KID OUT TO THEIR PARENTS AND THE COPS NOWWWWWWW
>>41686029you could try talking to the kid about asking their parents about talking to a psychologist and offering help if needed. instruct them to avoid involving parents initially in gender/sexuality related stuff, instruct to ask to change psychologists if they are not being helpful, and reassure the kid that they can count on you for anything. all that making sure to stress how it is an important thing while still not making them scared of it. something like that, no idea how it works in the burgerland tho>I think killing myself would probably make the kid even more scared of transition though.uh, not that...
>>41686139>no idea how it works in burgerlandif op did any of that and it got out, both the kid’s and op’s lives would be ruined
>>41686151good to know
>>41686151yeah it's risky as fuck.
>>41685853tell her to DIY asap
it's not your kid why do you care?
>>41685853I'm so sorry that happened to youThings will get betterYou can always get FFS in the futureIt takes a long time for HRT to work for some people, also.
>>41685853almost believable but i doubt the kid would call you a freak like that, not bad though since i can imagine an equivalent of this happening but not with your story
>>41685853Yeah that's why I'm stealth at work (high school). Instead of getting paper with slurs on it thrown at me I get hit on. Which sucks in a qualitatively different but less soul-crushing way. My honest recommendations are1. Swap to teaching high school, preferably 11th grade (Juniors are just there to grind for grades, if you're a competent teacher they won't care even if you're clocky as fuck)2. Tell the kid that he'll only end up like you if he represses like you did, and that if he goes and talks to the school psychologist and gets help he'll wind up a perfectly normal looking girl.>>41686151Nah, that's completely untrue. You can get away with murder as a teacher these days, post-covid parents are too checked out to get uppity.
>>41687586Yesterday a 14 year old who has an obvious and increasingly concerning crush on me said I should work at (unspecified job) so that I would have to pee in a bottle, which she said might be difficult for me. I wish I was LARPing. Kids these days are something else. Too much internet too young. (I politely told her that that was an inappropriate thing to say to a teacher)t. >>41687586
>>41685853Look. There is what you want to wear and what you look appropriate wearing. Playing the wearing what you want to wear game at work is a recipe for disaster.
>>41685853I'm struggling to believe you frogposter but if it's not larp then that's brutal af I'm sorry. if it happens again I'd say probably comfort the kid and say if it's something serious they need to talk to their parents. I know that's less than ideal because the parents probably aren't accepting but trying to do anything on your own is morally dubious at best and risks yourself and your job.
