>ftm>strangers are complimenting my appearance every day when I go out>at the same time they address me as sir 100% of the timeam I doing something wrong? did everyone collectively clock me? this isn't the male experience and I am very very far from being a gigachad or something
>>41688435That's the typical male experience when you bother with personal hygiene. Not even lying. It's insane what a shower can do for your sex life
>>41688516lol I never shower though I don't want my hair dye to fade
>>41688435If by strangers you mean other men and older/black women then this is a normal young thin/fit white male experience.
>>41688564>Hair dye
>>41688564Dunno, probably fashionable or something. Maybe a good looking face. Normies are weird but if they were clocking you, you'd know from the tone of their "sir"
>>41688592I'm literally fat>>41688596Noir fatal - Darkest indigo
>>41688435what type of compliments lol id only be suspicious if they were trying to hype you up like a little boy but you might just be hot and don't know it, I dunno.
>>41688516>That's the typical male experience when you bother with personal hygiene. Not even lying. It's insane what a shower can do for your sex lifeNot true, I'm mtf and, as a guy, always showered and wore decent clothing and never got complimented on my appearance for it. I was never fat either. Not that I care so much, as I honestly don't care about being complimented, I just don't think you're right.
>>41689000>I love your boots>I love your style>I love your eyes (referring to the eye colour)>I love your hair>it's usually women who do it, but occasionally men>"this guy has nicer makeup than me!" (said by an older woman)>"- mom why is that guy dressed like that - because it looks very cool">"oh my... you are handsome, very handsome" (old woman stopped me on the street to say this)>/lgbt/ saying I have a gigahon jaw or strongfat build (lol)>children approaching me, saying hi and smiling and pointing me out to their parents
>>41688435They're complimenting you because they clock you anon.>>41689067This is proof of it. You're being clocked and nobody wants to sound rude about it.If you passed everybody would be in different to you. The only exception is drunk people and old people.
>>41689067If kids and old people are doing it you probably just genuinely look cool
>>41689094I don't know about this, even people who are otherwise transphobic are willingly humouring my gender? Jordan B Peterson himself addressed me as "sir"
>>41689094If those kids were clocking him they'd just say it, they wouldn't be polite by asking "why is that guy dressed like that - because it looks very cool."No, I think OP is genuinely probably just a hot guy.Hot guys do get complimented.
>>41689123idk, I think my appearance must be very polarizing, 4chan has said I'm ugly and it's over
>>41689115There's also the chance they think you're boymode mtf and think sir is an insult to you.>>41689123They do, they don't get them from strangers like that. Maybe it's different wherever OP lives but in Northern Europe nobody is complimenting strangers.
>>41688435Its because you have beautiful female androgyny. Cis males are ugly and die alone
>>41689146Hm... /lgbt/ did think I was a gigahon when I posted my pic on passgen
>>41689146>They do, they don't get them from strangers like that. Maybe it's different wherever OP lives but in Northern Europe nobody is complimenting strangers.In America, people do compliment you like that. I'm a boymoding MTF and have gotten very occasional compliments on my appearance, like "Wow, your glasses look so great. Where did you get them? I'd like to get them for my son." from an old lady recently.
>>41689146Yeah I'm America its different and a bunch of people including young children all collectively passive aggressively bullying op thinking he's a boymoder is unlikely
>>41689199At the same time, you still hear cishet American men talking about compliments they got decades go and how they have never gotten flowers.It's the same for you, how could you possibly know people aren't complimenting you to be polite? They've clocked you but still want to encourage you?>>41689233Not children but I'd bet children would be more likely to default to assuming you're a male if you're odd looking or have any kind of facial hair.We can try and make it out that OP mogs men despite admitting he got called a gigahon. What are the chances that it's people just being nice?At the end of the day OP isn't getting the cis male experience, instead of trying to lie to OP why don't we try and help them bh telling the truth?
>>41689406>We can try and make it out that OP mogs men despite admitting he got called a gigahon.he said he was wearing makeup, if he looks like a gigahon that means he looks like a man wearing makeup
>>41689425No, he said an older woman complimented his makeup. We don't know if he was called a gigahon here because he was wearing makeup.An older woman, who I've already mentioned alongside drunks are more likely to compliment men, complimented OP on something that isn't cishet normative.I'm reading what OP claims has been said to him and to be they either come off as insincere or an older woman trying to be nice to the young folk.
>>41689406>I'd bet children would be more likely to default to assuming you're a male if you're odd looking or have any kind of facial hair.I mean sure but I was specifically talking about the "they may think you're a boymoder" thing. Kids are honest and I think op would be getting questions on "why does that girl have a beard" or "why does that boy look like a girl" or even just "are you a girl or a boy/what are you??" If he was clocky. Op getting called a gigahon means he looks masculine not specifically ugly (very subjective and seemingly most people think he looks nice), plus people can be assholes for no reason here lol.I'm not trying to lie to op because I don't know what he looks like or how these people said their compliments or anything about his life besides what he's said. I think it is possible that out of 8 billion people some guys get compliments. If op posted a picture it would be more certain but to me it doesn't immediately sound like he's being clocked so I'm not gonna say that.
nobody ever compliments me
>>41689406>At the same time, you still hear cishet American men talking about compliments they got decades go and how they have never gotten flowers.This is BS that neckbearded redditors say. Compliments can happen to men, and no I know they're not clocking me because I have not gotten more compliments since starting estrogen, fewer if anything, probably because I look more like a weird looking male than the masculine, more conventionally attractive one from before, maybe
>>41689449i think its the goth pooner who regularly wears makeup
>>41689453>who does that girl have a beard>why does that boy look like a girlThe words OP specified is asking why a boy is dressed like that, I'd put that very clearly into the second option.But I said that it's probably likely kids assume anyone not feminine looking, similar to their mother, is default assumed as a male. Not that they'd question it.>out of 8 billion people so e guys get complimentsSure, but why are we pretending that that is the most likely case? How on earth is it more likely OP is mugging men so much that everybody just wants to compliment him, than he's being clocked and people are politely complimenting his efforts?>>41689470>This is BS men sayWeird. Maybe we should listen to men stating what happens?Hell even Chris Rock has mentioned this shit.
>>41689513i think men with an alt style just get compliments, women love that shit, and he's probably more approachable/non-intimidating if he's short
>>41689531Which is possible, much more possible than mogging everyone.However it's also possible his style doesn't pass, lol at being short making him more approachable. I'd say it's probably the opposite, granted I'm not short but I always assume short men have a stick up their ass.
>>41689513>Weird. Maybe we should listen to men stating what happens?Okay but even if I'm MTF, I feel like I should be able to comment on what living as a male is like. I mean I haven't even girlmoded yet.I'm not saying men don't get fewer compliments than women, but I think the "decades since my last compliment" thing is overblown.
>>41689513>The words OP specified is asking why a boy is dressed like that, I'd put that very clearly into the second option.Idk he sounds like he dresses alternative in some way hence that comment.>But I said that it's probably likely kids assume anyone not feminine looking, similar to their mother, is default assumed as a male. Not that they'd question it.Depends on the kid. If anyone looked slightly weird younger me would've commented on it instantly. The comments seem to be directed more to how he dresses than his gender>Sure, but why are we pretending that that is the most likely case? Because based on what he's said it makes the most sense to me. Again unless he posts a picture and looks like a gigapooner idk.
>>41689554i saw his picture on passgen if it's who im thinking about and imo he does pass
>>41689555>I think a meme that occasionally props up where hundreds of men who's never interacted with each other recount the last compliment they got and all relate to the meme is overblown
>>41689555Men who don't get compliments are just ugly. Women always admire sexy, handsome or pretty men
>>41689574Right, that's what I'm saying. You don't even have to be that handsome to get complimented sometimes.>>41689572Yes. Do you think if it's a meme it's got to be true? It's only the least attractive men, probably.
>>41689593No but I think a meme that has no political or ideological agenda behind it which is just lamenting their life has merit behind it being true. There's no incentives for hundreds of men to come out and announce how attention starved they are and how they're still sadly holding onto a compliment from somebody that forgot they exist.