Im a mtf, 28 years old, bi. Today i hope i can give you some insight into the mind of a cheater. I remember when i was 18 to 27 i thought that cheating was the most scumbagy thing you could do and said I'd never do it. But somewhere between 27 and 28 the concept stopped bothering me all together. It doesnt seem like a big deal at all anymore. Much worse things happen. I dont owe anyone anything unless its legal tender.So far i think the cause is a mix of these elements:>became jaded and serious from work>stopped placing value in personal relationships >became self reliant>learned more about people and how anyone is an asshole given the right circumstances So ironically, me becoming a healthier more well rounded "normie" person led me to becoming more morally reprehensible in the eyes of society lol. The downside of this freedom btw, is that whilst i am able to have fun with people and am fun to hang out with, im essentially inable to connect with anyone which does make for a lonely sad existence. So the trade off for happiness and independence in this context is sort of existential sadness. Some would say its a bad deal but honestly iv seen far worse deals. For now im having a blast, burning through relationships like forest fire out of control. People have been hurt emotionally.. but.. i don't care that much anymore. There are way worse things that can happen to a person, cheating really isnt that big of a deal. If you think me a bad person remember im actually the victim, an autist competing in a hyper individualist society will eventually reach my conclusion
>>41698284least egoistic person
>>41698284Just be my cheating gf
>>41698284Damn you suck ass it's too bad you're incapable of feeling shame you could really use it
>>41698330Well if you tell me to cheat i don't want to cheat anymore. >>41698332What's the point in shame?
>>41698374Then it's bound to work out either way
I know this is bait but it's also how my ex thought lmao
>>41698408Why would you want a morally questionable gf?Also this thread is just a larp iv never actually cheated. I have also never really changed, iv just become more myself over the years. I have the decency to not cheat but its more a matter of principle. From a ethical stand point i don't care. If im bored of someone ill just break up and move on to the next entertainment.
>>41698437>Why would you want a morally questionable gf?To do morally questionable things with
>>41698284>>learned more about people and how anyone is an asshole given the right circumstancesPeople are nice and kind given the right circumstances too. This is a poor excuse to void your morals
>>41698489H-huh....i got scaded there for a moment. uhh anon i said it was just a larp thread calm down.What things though?
>>41698536Scared*
>>41698536Scandalous things that would solely remain between us
>>41698284cheating isnt that badmy ex abused me a lot so i eventually just started cheating with random twinks from grindr and she never noticef for all her insane delusional crashouts she never noticed when I ACTUALLY cheated. dumb bitch.i think if i had done it before her bpd got bad id have felt awful. as it is, i dont enjoy the feeling of having betrayed her trust, but it didnt destroy me - if anything it jist felt boring. really cheatinfs a sign you ahould just break up, desu.
>>41698561Explain..
>>41698599Not until we're intertwined
>>41698627Sus just say it we're both anons lol zzzzzzzz
>>41698561Now im curious too
>>41698857Only for me and my ride or die
>>41698937Probably cringe then
>>41698284If you treat relationships as purely entertainment, you'll end up being unable to feel anything for anyone at all. You have no idea how much you'll regret the path you're on. I'm gonna be there with popcorn though, nigger.
>>41700616>If you treat relationships as purely entertainment, you'll end up being unable to feel anything for anyone at all.I think im already there? Iv always been like that to some degree. It sucks yea. Eat your popcorn
>>41698284>">learned more about people and how anyone is an asshole given the right circumstances"People who say this ,or stuff like "everyone is purely motivated by self interest" ,are just exposing to the world that theyre too selfish to even konseive of people who arent purely motivated by their own greedHowever sadly that is true for the vast majority of the population ,as most people are fairly selfish ,and in praktise pretty evil>>41698437>"Also this thread is just a larp iv never actually cheated"LalPoints still stand tho
>>41698284>So ironically, me becoming a healthier more well rounded "normie" person led me to becoming more morally reprehensible in the eyes of society lol.being a normie and morally reprehensible are mutually inclusive, people will do anything they think they can get away with>if a tree falls in a forest and nobody's around to hear it, does it make a sound?
>>41698284>The downside of this freedom btw, is that whilst i am able to have fun with people and am fun to hang out with, im essentially inable to connect with anyone which does make for a lonely sad existence.you know you can just be honest with people, and find either other polyfags or someone who willingly lets you hurt them so itll be either less or more morally reprehensible>t. cheater
>>41698576>cheatinfs a sign you ahould just break up, desu.this
