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My friend wants to transition and he is too old for that, what should I do?
He said since he starting dating his girlfriend he had so much envy for her clothes, then he asked her to paint his nails and let him use her make up. He dyed his hair, tried to grow but he can't because his job is an extreme cishet blue-collar shit. He also have ADHD and severe depression and wants to kill himself everyday, told me that he is extremely insecure with his body not being manly enough (he's a fat fuck) so transitioning would help him accept his body and look more like his girlfriend.
I also don't get why he flirts with a lot of trans women on X, he is dating a cis woman for +10 years and they say they are monogamous. He also calls himself bissexual, but only dated his actual girlfriend, this makes me wonder if he would dump her. He also likes to joke about sucking our buddies dicks because they know he is bisexual, but I don't think his girlfriend likes this kind of joke.
He also talks how much he wants to have big breasts but don't have any money to do surgery but hopes that HRT would give him B cups in one year.
We are both from a third world shithole, so our minimum wage is not enough to survive. I feel that a full transition would make things worse because he is also scared to be beaten to death because he lives in a very conservative city, he's scared of his old parents finding out and hating him forever.
I'm worried because if he wants to kill himself and is already too emotionally unstable with a fucked up life, how starting HRT with high expectations couldn't make him kill himself?
I don't want to be transphobic or make things worse, I'm very worried about this fat fuck, but he don't want to seek help, he only can say how much he wants to kill himself and nothing more besides talking about himself only. I worried to hurt him, I think I don't want to watch someone I like die and feel that I supported the things that made it worse.
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>>41698933
>We are both from a third world shithole
stopped reading
don't care
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>>41698956
If you don't care, why did you replied then? If you don't want to help just don't reply because you bumped this thread like an idiot.
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>>41698975
>If you don't want to help just don't reply because you bumped this thread like an idiot.
and i'll fucking bump it again fuck you third worlder
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>>41698933
Im saying this as somebody born in the united states way before tranny acceptance here.

You weigh the social costs (extreme) and in 999/1000 cases that is going to mean repping.



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