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why do trans girls ALWAYS ghost me on dating apps? It always starts out this way, we have a good back and forth for a couple of days, I send pictures, she sends pictures backs. It's always "UwU you're so strong daddy"
an hour passes by
instantly ghosted by her and most of the time, blocked.

I'm so sick of this shit, it makes me want to stop chasing completely
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>>41702516
post nut clarity
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>>41702516
show us ur pics and maybe ull get a bite
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>>41702516
because you're that bald ugly dude from chasergen and you're very repper coded
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>>41702516
Because you're young and they're young probs

25 year olds are retarded

I'm an oldfuck
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they realize theyre slightly uglier than their pictures give off and scared youll be repulsed irl despite taking those nice pics for attention in the first place but due to a history of harassment and insults have high sensitivity and neuroticism developing whats akin to avoidant behavior despite having anxious attachment
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>>41702516
Dating apps are scary. Constant fear will get attacked somehow. But is the only way in small countries.
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>>41702578
op is old and a known schizo lolcow from chasergen
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>>41702558
this was a recent pic I posted, without the bar obviously. she really liked the muscles and said "oooo im very interested now" blocked today, idk why.
>>41702571
>>41702628
leave me alone and leave it in your own dramagen.
>>41702586
aw that sucks, I know trans girls look a bit different from photos but I seriously won't judge. I just wanted to take her out to a movie tonight and get snacks with her. sounded like fun.
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>>41702703
i dont get it. even if you were like this: >>41702628 most would love what youre offering
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>>41702740
I'm not actually schizo but I am old and bald. Around 3-4 chasers/tranners have been harassing me in there so I try to not post there anymore.

Thank you though, the thing is, they show interest at first and it actually stays consistent but when I go to message them at the end of the day or at night, I see that they blocked me
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>>41702703
date women above 30 if you want consistency, that's my only advice. they are more likely to know what they want.

those women probably have a lot of orbiters. they are not desperate for your love specifically.
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>>41702760
I didnt do this to you, but I have done that before when I realized I would not be able to refuse sex if met up and it was heading that way too fast. doesn't sound like that here. so what do you have hiv or smth, are they super young?
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>>41702781
I probably should focus on that anyways since I'm 30 myself. thanks for saying that, maybe I shouldn't take it so personally since they do have SO MANY options of men to choose from
>>41702791
I was only talking about cuddling. I DON'T want to have sex when first meeting with someone. I don't have HIV or any STD's I prefer to keep it that way in a monogamous relationship
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>>41702740
it's very simple. op has a meltdown every now and then and admits to being trans. if he's giving repper then the mtfs he's chasing are going to pick up on that.
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>>41702853
please stop spreading lies about me. I never said I was trans, you and other trolls probably said that about me but I never said that.
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>>41702847
>old
>30
you're still young.
>>41702853
i know guys like that. theyre really nice, but leads to depressing conversations often.
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>>41702888
thanks I feel like I'm young and old at the same time. Probably what 30's usually are like
I did have a meltdown about fumbling a discord relationship. he might be referring to that but I never said I was trans.
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>>41702905
Is this what dating is like now? Fuck up a conversation and now entire world knows about it forever.
Probably is just flaky 20 year olds from sounds of things for this threads topic tho.
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>>41702847
Thanks for acknowledging the advice, I appreciate the appreciation. You seem sooo nice and I feel bad you're getting bullied by chasergen.

I wouldn't ghost you, personally, if we were talking on a dating app. I never really ghost someone if there is something established, the respectful thing to do is give them closure. I think zoomers prioritize themselves more which is good, but they lack social graces based on my sensibilities.

You're a pretty cute and nice guy I feel so bad for you getting abused by these trannies.
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>>41702516
as a bi bottom boymoder I like masc boys too
but unless I see someone with some anime pics or drawings or any image of a character or something I just dont care at all about them
is weird to explain
is like, im chronically online, so unless I see something that shows me you are also online and not a fuckin normie I dont have really an incentive to talk :c
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I have found that when I insinuate having a better than average financial position or non-trivial net worth, they keep the convo open indefinitely. You need to do this early in the conversation. Trans women are extremely resource oriented owing to their need for expensive surgeries and stuff like that.

If you don't want gold diggers of course, you can just stick to cis women.
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>>41702516
>I send pictures, she sends pictures back
What app are you using where you don't already have picture posted?
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a lot of women use apps to window shop and get validation without actually wanting to go through with meeting someone
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>>41702957
I mean, only if you date girls from here within the community, they all talk and spread gossip. some of it's good to warn people about bad men, some of the time it's made up for their own entertainment. I'm part of the entertainmanet category, hence why they called me a "lolcow". I did have a public meltdown about fumbling the relationship though so I will take responsibility for that.
yeah, she's 27 so yeah just kinda flaky, shit sucks
>>41702965
>You seem sooo nice and I feel bad you're getting bullied by chasergen
thank you so much for saying that. its like 3-4 tranners or chasers just bullying me calling me schizo, old, bald, ugly, etc.
It feels really nice to be validated like that. I'm not 100% innocent, I did have a meltdown about losing a girl but that was pretty much it.
I really appreciate you making that comment. you sound super nice too, I wish we lived close enough and could chat more <3
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>>41703006
oh shit is it grindr

No wonder lol
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>>41702516
i'm gonna second/third dating older trannies, the younger ones are veeeeery floozy
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>>41703010
>27
the absolute state.
did i just age through to like 70 by zoomer standards when i was 22. lmfao wtf
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>>41703021
this lol
>>41702516
grindr is for hookups, not dating, retard
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>>41702999
huh, well I have the picture of the grim reaper as my profile picture and then I send my photos on through in chat. With my job, I don't like showing my photos on dating apps, that goes for tinder, hinge and taimi
>>41703006

lol yeah for this case, it was the grindr cess pit app
>>41703009
this tracks, it was after she sent me nudes, that's when she blocked me. I tell girls not to send me nudes because as soon as they do, it's always a block from them like 30 min after sending

this might help, I make average money though
>>41703037
yeah, I'm only dating 30 and up now
>>41703038
how old are you now? but yeah people just don't want a relationship so it's kinda weird people go on these apps
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>>41703021
>>41703047
If it's grindr, then:

>>41702847
>I was only talking about cuddling. I DON'T want to have sex when first meeting with someone
won't work for obvious reasons, people want to fuck.


>>41703010
>I mean, only if you date girls from here within the community, they all talk and spread gossip. some of it's good to warn people about bad men, some of the time it's made up for their own entertainment. I'm part of the entertainmanet category, hence why they called me a "lolcow". I did have a public meltdown about fumbling the relationship though so I will take responsibility for that.
If you're trying to date people from 4chan you're just setting yourself up for failure, this isn't a dating app.
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>>41703081
>If you're trying to date people from 4chan you're just setting yourself up for failure, this isn't a dating app.
i dont think you understand how desperate and truly pathetic some of the tranners and chasers that hang out here are
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>>41703079
35. Was expected to be actual full adult by 18. I was behind my peers in social development too.
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>>41702703
looks a bit like a skinhead type iunno
what else do u have going for u? what is ur degree? industry? plans? goals? travel?
most ppl I keep talking to have interesting careers we never talk about, but they have them, and we talk about art and travel and stuff
ppl with no motion or no game just say 'ayo u pretty pls send pics' but have like nothing to say, like I might respond to them except they have nothing to talk about, and I'm already skipping past the attention seeking phase tbqh
if I was young and desperate for attention I might respond to a shallow convo mostly flirting and then stop when I come to my senses
hope that makes sense
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>>41703184
A mutual exchange of each others HPV strains will suffice.
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>>41703174
well, I draw hentai now mostly for a living. I got to a point where I can draw furry hentai and live off the funds via subscribestar and patreon.
before that, I was in sales.
I'd like to travel but I don't talk much about that. maybe I'm a boring conversational partner?
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>>41703010
>thank you so much for saying that. its like 3-4 tranners or chasers just bullying me calling me schizo, old, bald, ugly, etc.
It feels really nice to be validated like that. I'm not 100% innocent, I did have a meltdown about losing a girl but that was pretty much it.
I really appreciate you making that comment. you sound super nice too, I wish we lived close enough and could chat more <3

Aw, it's okay. That happens to all of us, bullying you over it is incredibly callous. Everyone has meltdowns sometimes, their server was just the outlet you chose. There wasn't any malicious intent, it was just an accident and you needed to vent to someone.

I live in California, and I'm 31, been on HRT since I was 18. If you happen to be around the area.
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>>41703220
okay ... I mean that's a bit niche shall we say...
like it starts to make a lil more sense why ppl don't keep talking to the professional furry, right?
not like there aren't ppl into that but it sort of narrows things down, and makes u seem less long-term interesting to a broader group



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