why do trans girls ALWAYS ghost me on dating apps? It always starts out this way, we have a good back and forth for a couple of days, I send pictures, she sends pictures backs. It's always "UwU you're so strong daddy"an hour passes byinstantly ghosted by her and most of the time, blocked.I'm so sick of this shit, it makes me want to stop chasing completely
>>41702516post nut clarity
>>41702516show us ur pics and maybe ull get a bite
>>41702516because you're that bald ugly dude from chasergen and you're very repper coded
>>41702516Because you're young and they're young probs25 year olds are retardedI'm an oldfuck
they realize theyre slightly uglier than their pictures give off and scared youll be repulsed irl despite taking those nice pics for attention in the first place but due to a history of harassment and insults have high sensitivity and neuroticism developing whats akin to avoidant behavior despite having anxious attachment
>>41702516Dating apps are scary. Constant fear will get attacked somehow. But is the only way in small countries.
>>41702578op is old and a known schizo lolcow from chasergen
>>41702558this was a recent pic I posted, without the bar obviously. she really liked the muscles and said "oooo im very interested now" blocked today, idk why.>>41702571>>41702628leave me alone and leave it in your own dramagen.>>41702586aw that sucks, I know trans girls look a bit different from photos but I seriously won't judge. I just wanted to take her out to a movie tonight and get snacks with her. sounded like fun.
>>41702703i dont get it. even if you were like this: >>41702628 most would love what youre offering
>>41702740I'm not actually schizo but I am old and bald. Around 3-4 chasers/tranners have been harassing me in there so I try to not post there anymore.Thank you though, the thing is, they show interest at first and it actually stays consistent but when I go to message them at the end of the day or at night, I see that they blocked me
>>41702703date women above 30 if you want consistency, that's my only advice. they are more likely to know what they want. those women probably have a lot of orbiters. they are not desperate for your love specifically.
>>41702760I didnt do this to you, but I have done that before when I realized I would not be able to refuse sex if met up and it was heading that way too fast. doesn't sound like that here. so what do you have hiv or smth, are they super young?
>>41702781I probably should focus on that anyways since I'm 30 myself. thanks for saying that, maybe I shouldn't take it so personally since they do have SO MANY options of men to choose from>>41702791I was only talking about cuddling. I DON'T want to have sex when first meeting with someone. I don't have HIV or any STD's I prefer to keep it that way in a monogamous relationship
>>41702740it's very simple. op has a meltdown every now and then and admits to being trans. if he's giving repper then the mtfs he's chasing are going to pick up on that.
>>41702853please stop spreading lies about me. I never said I was trans, you and other trolls probably said that about me but I never said that.
>>41702847>old>30you're still young. >>41702853i know guys like that. theyre really nice, but leads to depressing conversations often.
>>41702888thanks I feel like I'm young and old at the same time. Probably what 30's usually are likeI did have a meltdown about fumbling a discord relationship. he might be referring to that but I never said I was trans.
>>41702905Is this what dating is like now? Fuck up a conversation and now entire world knows about it forever.Probably is just flaky 20 year olds from sounds of things for this threads topic tho.
>>41702847Thanks for acknowledging the advice, I appreciate the appreciation. You seem sooo nice and I feel bad you're getting bullied by chasergen. I wouldn't ghost you, personally, if we were talking on a dating app. I never really ghost someone if there is something established, the respectful thing to do is give them closure. I think zoomers prioritize themselves more which is good, but they lack social graces based on my sensibilities. You're a pretty cute and nice guy I feel so bad for you getting abused by these trannies.
>>41702516as a bi bottom boymoder I like masc boys toobut unless I see someone with some anime pics or drawings or any image of a character or something I just dont care at all about themis weird to explainis like, im chronically online, so unless I see something that shows me you are also online and not a fuckin normie I dont have really an incentive to talk :c
I have found that when I insinuate having a better than average financial position or non-trivial net worth, they keep the convo open indefinitely. You need to do this early in the conversation. Trans women are extremely resource oriented owing to their need for expensive surgeries and stuff like that.If you don't want gold diggers of course, you can just stick to cis women.
>>41702516>I send pictures, she sends pictures backWhat app are you using where you don't already have picture posted?
a lot of women use apps to window shop and get validation without actually wanting to go through with meeting someone
>>41702957I mean, only if you date girls from here within the community, they all talk and spread gossip. some of it's good to warn people about bad men, some of the time it's made up for their own entertainment. I'm part of the entertainmanet category, hence why they called me a "lolcow". I did have a public meltdown about fumbling the relationship though so I will take responsibility for that.yeah, she's 27 so yeah just kinda flaky, shit sucks>>41702965>You seem sooo nice and I feel bad you're getting bullied by chasergenthank you so much for saying that. its like 3-4 tranners or chasers just bullying me calling me schizo, old, bald, ugly, etc.It feels really nice to be validated like that. I'm not 100% innocent, I did have a meltdown about losing a girl but that was pretty much it.I really appreciate you making that comment. you sound super nice too, I wish we lived close enough and could chat more <3
>>41703006oh shit is it grindrNo wonder lol
>>41702516i'm gonna second/third dating older trannies, the younger ones are veeeeery floozy
>>41703010>27the absolute state. did i just age through to like 70 by zoomer standards when i was 22. lmfao wtf
>>41703021this lol>>41702516grindr is for hookups, not dating, retard
>>41702999huh, well I have the picture of the grim reaper as my profile picture and then I send my photos on through in chat. With my job, I don't like showing my photos on dating apps, that goes for tinder, hinge and taimi>>41703006lol yeah for this case, it was the grindr cess pit app>>41703009this tracks, it was after she sent me nudes, that's when she blocked me. I tell girls not to send me nudes because as soon as they do, it's always a block from them like 30 min after sendingthis might help, I make average money though>>41703037yeah, I'm only dating 30 and up now>>41703038how old are you now? but yeah people just don't want a relationship so it's kinda weird people go on these apps
>>41703021>>41703047If it's grindr, then:>>41702847>I was only talking about cuddling. I DON'T want to have sex when first meeting with someonewon't work for obvious reasons, people want to fuck.>>41703010>I mean, only if you date girls from here within the community, they all talk and spread gossip. some of it's good to warn people about bad men, some of the time it's made up for their own entertainment. I'm part of the entertainmanet category, hence why they called me a "lolcow". I did have a public meltdown about fumbling the relationship though so I will take responsibility for that.If you're trying to date people from 4chan you're just setting yourself up for failure, this isn't a dating app.
>>41703081>If you're trying to date people from 4chan you're just setting yourself up for failure, this isn't a dating app.i dont think you understand how desperate and truly pathetic some of the tranners and chasers that hang out here are
>>4170307935. Was expected to be actual full adult by 18. I was behind my peers in social development too.
>>41702703looks a bit like a skinhead type iunnowhat else do u have going for u? what is ur degree? industry? plans? goals? travel?most ppl I keep talking to have interesting careers we never talk about, but they have them, and we talk about art and travel and stuffppl with no motion or no game just say 'ayo u pretty pls send pics' but have like nothing to say, like I might respond to them except they have nothing to talk about, and I'm already skipping past the attention seeking phase tbqhif I was young and desperate for attention I might respond to a shallow convo mostly flirting and then stop when I come to my senses hope that makes sense
>>41703184A mutual exchange of each others HPV strains will suffice.
>>41703174well, I draw hentai now mostly for a living. I got to a point where I can draw furry hentai and live off the funds via subscribestar and patreon.before that, I was in sales.I'd like to travel but I don't talk much about that. maybe I'm a boring conversational partner?
>>41703010>thank you so much for saying that. its like 3-4 tranners or chasers just bullying me calling me schizo, old, bald, ugly, etc.It feels really nice to be validated like that. I'm not 100% innocent, I did have a meltdown about losing a girl but that was pretty much it.I really appreciate you making that comment. you sound super nice too, I wish we lived close enough and could chat more <3Aw, it's okay. That happens to all of us, bullying you over it is incredibly callous. Everyone has meltdowns sometimes, their server was just the outlet you chose. There wasn't any malicious intent, it was just an accident and you needed to vent to someone. I live in California, and I'm 31, been on HRT since I was 18. If you happen to be around the area.
>>41703220okay ... I mean that's a bit niche shall we say...like it starts to make a lil more sense why ppl don't keep talking to the professional furry, right?not like there aren't ppl into that but it sort of narrows things down, and makes u seem less long-term interesting to a broader group