> be 23yo tranner> a bit of a loser> never had a bf> still living at home> still in undergrad etc > only had my first kiss a few months ago but istg it rewired my brain > Ever since all i can think about is how much i want a bf. I want the type of love you only see in hallmark movies. I want to meet him and slowly fall in love. I want to have cute dates together. I want to kiss him and feel his hands all over my body. I want to meet his parents. I want to sew clothes for him. I want him to ask me to be his girlfriend. I want him to tell me he loves me, and then and only then do I want to finally make love with him. It’s all I think about and it’s driving me fucking crazy but I’m afraid guys wouldn’t want me because I really want to take things slow and I fear men my age won’t be willing to wait. I want to be able to look the man who takes my virginity in his eyes and tell him I love him and for it to not feel too soon or too awkward. It’s all I want, but I know it takes a minute to get to the stage where you are officially a couple and often even longer for you to say “I love you”, Does slow burn love exist for tranners in 2025? Am I asking for too much? How long are men willing to wait? It’s not that I don’t want it, I want it really fucking bad, but I don’t want it unless it’s with a man who I know I love. I have no experience so I have no idea if this is a ridiculous thing to ask for.
>>41702866you have to find a naive or kind man, which exists yes. I hope you pass
>>41702866I literally have this with my bf, who I met when I was 23. We met right here on 4chan so yeah I can happen. Just hope you get good luck meeting someone
>>41702866I need a girl like you so bad
>>41702901I pass fine thankfully. Idk how attractive I am, guys give me attention sometimes but not too often. People on this board thought I was pretty when I posted a few weeks ago but chasers on this site would fuck a rock of it looked slightly feminine >>41702956How unlikely would you say your situation is? I know I could find a chaser on here but in my experience so far they’ve all been weirdos or racist. Also I’m not crazy about the idea of E dating desu
>>41703107>How unlikely would you say your situation is? I know I could find a chaser on here but in my experience so far they’ve all been weirdos or racist. Also I’m not crazy about the idea of E dating desuidk my boyfriend is probably who a lot of people think would be a 'weirdo' 4chan type. But he's a good, sweet boy. I think people could stand to be less judgemental. There are a lot of guys who can seem a bit autismo but are not bad people and when given the opportunity to love are perfectly good boys
>>41703438> a lot of guys who can seem a bit autismo but are not bad people and when given the opportunity to love are perfectly good boysI don’t mind if he’s an autist, Im an autist myself (allegedly (according to my doctor)). When I say “weird” I mean more that men I talk to from here usually are “chuds” with weird right wing beliefs who jump super fast to sex stuff, don’t respect trans women as full human beings and are generally misogynists. I’d be happy to date a man who’s a bit of an autist, like me, I’m more worried about him being right wing and liking to say slurs and stuff.
>>41702866I hope you can find him annonette, I met my bf here and we just talked for the first 3 months and played wow together, eventually he met me irl and asked me to be his gf, we've now been living happily together for 2 years, we play gamws together, go on nature adventures and to the movies every week or two, the feeling of having someone genuinely love you and push you to feel good is amazing, sleeping cuddled or back to back is amazing too, I hope every girl here finds love, we said we loved each other like 2 months in I'd say
>>41703107Also met my boyfriend off of here (technically /vg/) and we were friends for a year before we started dating
>>41703595Is 2 months normal for saying “I love you”? I really don’t have much perspective on this. I’m scared I’ll say it too soon if I really like the guy
>>41703822Is this board a bad idea for meeting guys. I’d assume it is. I don’t use the other boards desu but I’m not opposed to meeting a guy online as long as we live not crazy far away
>>41703869I'd say thats pretty quick but its really unique to each relationship. My ex and I were good friends for like 6 or so months before we got together and I told her like 2 months in to dating properly. I'm a mostly straight cis dude for context
>>41703878not the person you're asking but it's a coin flipyou can get very lucky but you can also find some really shitty guysit probably also depends on your location
>>41703523I was on the other side of the fence, I met her here and it was about 4 months before we got into bf/gf territory.>>41703878There's risks. I wouldn't be surprised if in retrospect she wished we didn't meet.
>>41702866I don't know about now, but 6 years ago my gf and I were 24 and got together just like you described
>>41703869i say it as soon as i mean it and not a moment before or aftersometimes its /never/ sometimes its the first time we fuck. it just depends on how much love there is
>>41705446Is it weird to say it during the first time you make love with someone? Like if we hadn’t said it to each other yet but we were an official couple would it be a weird time? I’m scared he’d feel too pressured to say it back if I say it then because he wouldn’t want to ruin the moment. I don’t want him to say it if he doesn’t mean it. Is that an irrational fear? Or do I just hope and pray he says it first in that context?
>>41702866If I were happily single, I'd give you the world and make sure that every little thing that dwells on it knows of your divinity. However, I'm dealing with getting dumped and being sad and single so, good luck on finding the right guy for you!
