>Be me, 19m>Long time childhood friends with trans girl (18)>Like, really long time friends>Like we've known eachother since elementary school and talk on the phone for ~1 hour every single day type friends>I had feelings for her when we were younger, we talked about it but it didn't really go anywhere>Fast forward like 5 years, I've worked on myself a lot and realize that I still like her>And that she's probably the reason I haven't actually tried to date anyone before>In the past I tried asking her on a date but it didn't really go anywhere>Recently I decided to buckle down and ask flat out if she would date me>I call her up and ask, and get told "Idk">She says it's not really anything with me just that she has to work on herself more>I say okay, figure it's like a self esteem thing and move on>A few days later I'm up at 4 am from reading a VN all night and figure I should try again>Maybe she'd be more receptive if I proved I really liked her?>Offer to prepare and deliver an 8 minute speech about it>Get told it's about her bodyIs there anything I can do other than just wait? I'm gonna see her in person in a week (I moved away for college but I'm seeing her for thanksgiving vacation)
>>41703242shes just like me fr
ppl like u are kinda terrifying
>>41703376Do you want an 8 minute speech about how cool you are? I can record one for you if you want, I just need your twitter acc or something so I can know what to talk about.
>>41703242say youre gonna pay for her surgeriesshe's has the classic case of not dating for being extremely brain wormed
>>41703466when you get the chance
>>41703242i'm a firm believer in the maxim "don't let anyone tell you they don't want you twice"
>>41703242offering to write a monologue about your unrequited romance is cringe. stick to traditional art. you've already botched it
>>41703501dont listen to this advice, its probably the brainworms
>>41703548opposite of the brainworm, it's about advocating for yourself. this is literally embarrassing urself for ur oneitis tranny edition. even if she did want to be in a relationship, her body brainworms aren't gonna disappear, and i doubt u'll be the one to cure her dysphoria
>>41703451>>41703542I would fall absolutely head over heels for a dude that orated a love monologue to me, but I’m weird as all sin.
>>41703667you are a fag
>>41703667a man who orrates a loveletter to me is adorablea man who i've rejected three times now since elementary school who is still obsessed with me but such a pathetic dickless sperg that he asks permission to write and orrate a loveletter to me is getting sent to the shadow realm
>>41703772The thing it wasn't ever a rejection, like if she was gonna reject me she'd just say no and both on the phone and in the message she seems receptive, just not right now :/
>>41703772it's partially her fault for not being clear with her rejection
>>41703831maybe you're into autistic women who say what they mean and mean what they say but most of the time when women say "not right now" for something major like a relationship they mean "fuck off and die but don't have a meltdown on me"
>>41703858True, but this is 100% an autistic woman and I'm 89% sure she would just say no.I probably should just drop it regardless though because seeing the responses is making me see how pathetic I've been. Like DAMN
>>41703858maybe for strangers but if someone's been in your life for that long and can't send him clear signs of rejection, she's leading him on.
>>41703902to be fair there's nothing too wrong with being madly in love with someone and stronger men than you have been consumed by lesser women so whatever
>>41703943I'm lowkey just desperate and figured this was the path of least resistance since she seemed receptive at first (and because of deathly afraid of making connections). I'm still not convinced that it isn't the path of least resistance, but I don't want to just sit around for 5 years waiting. That's lame as hell.
>>41704010the best relationships are built on desperation and a lack of options
>>41703772Yeah>>41703855Also yeah
