I just don’t understand how telling men they have to look feminine to date other men isn’t homophobia.
>>41704178Because it is
>>41704178Nobody told me I had to look feminine. The problem was that I couldn't be masculine enough despite my efforts.
nobody says you have to look feminine to date other men
>>41705722hsts do
>>41706823HSTS is a category first proposed by a straight cis man at a time when homophobia was much more prominent than it was today. It's an outsider's guess at why someone would even want to transition.
>>41706961Blanchard is gay you idiot. Homophobia is just as prominent as it ever was, and of course people doing and saying homophobic things themselves would deny it still exists.
>>41706823Nobody says, believes, or thinks this, including hussies. Stop lying dude.
>>41707175it's implicitly inherent to their rhetoric, if not explicitly stated often (though rarely, they are honest and admit what's really going on)
i think what they say is > you need to be feminine to date straight men otherwise they wont be into youwhich is not > you need to be feminine to date meni wanna watch some bara men go at it tbhon and that cant happen if they all look like dolls
>>41707219straight men aren't a real thing, most men are bisexual, and a few are gay
