>be me, mtf>finally work up courage to make tinder account>match with the cutest guy ever>feels like finally my life is turning around>we hangout>he says he loves talking to me, i’m so cute etc.>we do sex stuff, he cums twice>he says more nice stuff>we get ready for bed and i get all comfy in his arms, we say goodnight, it’s so nice>few minutes later he gets up and says he forgot he has to wake up early tomorrow and leaves>check my phone and see that im blocked>cry myself to sleepwhy did he do that :( my soul hurts.
>>41706817yea this is why Im just gonna stay forever alone
>>41706817if its any consolation they do this to cis women too. just go slower and wait longer to see who's actually interested
>>41706817i would actuallyt kill myself if anyone did this to me sor ry to hear nona
>>41706817Deserved for being a passoid
>>41706817feels bad man when did this happen
>>41706817don't fucking do hookups
>>41707484yesterday :(
>>41707490it wasn’t supposed to be a hookup
>>41706817Treated like a cis woman, in many cases.You'll get more matches. Certainly more than that guy would get.It's tough starting dating, and it's hard keeping yourself away from sex. You'll learn to navigate it. Sex isn't love, attention isn't love.
>>41707608Also it's so exciting to get to have that attention and sex that hookups can happen by accident or you can start to cling to having them on purpose for feeling but you need to put in that effort to introspect about how you're treating yourself and feeling, and about what kind of relationships you're facilitating.While any guy who is interested in you emotionally will also want to fuck you, dodging sex on first meeting and trying to meet somewhere like for a proper date invites you more opportunity to ward off losers who just want to fuck you if it's not meant to be a hookup. And if you give even a few dates as a buffer, the biggest losers will also lose interest. On top of you genuinely getting to have an opportunity to get to know someone or sniff them out.But you can also navigate things your own way - just negotiating what truly makes you most comfortable and happy will take a lot of introspection and may require gaining resilience in certain areas to manage your expectations.
How many dates was it before he ditched you? It’s helpful to weed these men out by waiting atleast a handful of dates, even if it’s less intense :/ there’s so many men with nefarious intents.
>>41706817this is why traditionally you make him wait a couple dates, or until marriage
>>41706817I'm so sorry :(
And this is exactly why I don't want to date again, I'm scared of getting my heart broken even further, fuck my tranny life
>>41706817>go on hook up app>get a hook up >act surprisedI mean it sucks, but what did you expect
