Is it weird that I (bisexual, cis female) want to sexually experiment with transgirls? I'm an ally but there seems to be a frown-upon attitude against people who "chase". But I don't really chase or single out transfolks, it's just an arousing thought. Is that okay? I don't see them as men or anything, just kind awkward girls. They would probably have an interesting reaction in bed and I would be very interested in studying it up close. But is that the kind of chasing thing that you all hate?
>>41744359Bitter hons who run the trans "community" made everyone think that chasing is bad because they were jelly that no one wanted them.
>>41744386But there are people who chase the hon types too, aren't there? I've seen it in person.
>>41744359No, I don't think so, and frankly I think the term chaser is overused to mean anyone who shows interest in being with trans people. I mean people here just talk about "chasers" and not even super negatively.>And why is that even a thing?Because actual chasers just fetishize and objectify trans people. Maybe they're "down low" men who don't want to seem gay. Maybe they get off on the idea of feminizing trans men. It's usually just reducing us to our genitals, which is especially hurtful for those of us with genital dysphoria and aren't comfortable just having pentrative sex with our natal genitals or anything.
>>41744386Those same hons are perfectly fine with "female chasers" though
>>41744359Yawn, they have double standards and are hypocrites and don't frown at cis and trans women doing the same exact thing, they would throw themselves feet first in a wood chipper with a smile on their face just for the privilege of a cis woman farting in their general direction
>>41744359>Is it weird that I (bisexual, cis female) want to sexually experiment with transgirls?no>I'm an allycool>but there seems to be a frown-upon attitude against people who "chase".only by retards. i have never understood chaser hate. i chase chasers to be honest cause i find it hot when cissoids find tranners hot>But I don't really chase or single out transfolksno, please do, thats okay>it's just an arousing thought.i know right>Is that okay?yes>I don't see them as men or anything, just kind awkward girls.im not awkward tho>They would probably have an interesting reaction in bed and I would be very interested in studying it up close.if by interesting you mean would eat and plap you better than any man ever has>But is that the kind of chasing thing that you all hate?were not a monolith, only retards hate chasers as a monolith. i obviously dislike nasty people too, but some people think all chasers are predatory creeps because some of them are but it makes no sense. not allowed to not like trainknees because then youre transphobic, but also not allowed to like us because then youre a chaser? just like what you like and dont like what you dont like, its that easy. you dont need permission from anyone
>>41744404Yeah I don't want to hurt anyone. So if I happen to hit it off with a tgirl next week I don't wanna seem chasy.>>41744447>>41744451I see, I only seem to ever see threads complaining about chasers in general so I thought it included female chasers too. I guess it makes sense given how many men act when chasing tail...>>41744464>just like what you like and dont like what you dont like, its that easy. you dont need permission from anyoneThanks for that, it's a good reminder. I guess I'm worrying about being patronizing if that's the word.
>>41744627Yeah they excuse it with misandry as well, they'll love you
>>41744464Need a boyfriend?
>>41744703i wouldnt mind tho im still heartbroken from my previous one and youre unlikely to be my type and almost certainly far away
>>41744778What's your type
>>41744627>I see, I only seem to ever see threads complaining about chasers in general so I thought it included female chasers too. I guess it makes sense given how many men act when chasing tail...It's the same thing when a lot of straight women say I hate men blabla, they don't mean it in the literal sense. Just that most chasers are kind of creepy and weird, doesn't mean my knees wouldn't go weak for the right one.
I legitimately don't know what it would mean to be attracted to a trans girl.How do you want me to be attracted to you? Pure 100% girl? Girl that used to be a guy? Girl that is kinda a guy still? Guy who is a girl?What am I supposed to think during sexo? What's the deal with the gock? Ignore it? Treat it like it belongs to a lady? Enthusiastically fiddle with it?What is your role in the relationship? Wife? Lady cohabitor? Gender unspecified "Partner"?Like, I know what life looks like when I wake up next to a Guy. I know what life looks like when I wake up next to a Lady. I have zero fucking clue what it looks like when I wake up next to a Girl(Trans) and I have never been given any remotely cohesive or semi-universal peek into what it would or should.Some of you are very pretty but I would not touch with a 10ft pole just because I haven't been told by you people what the deal is.
>>41744837Even within het sex it takes some experimenting, so that part isn't really what I'm worried about...
>>41744794girls, and boys that look like girls>>41744837this is weird. why do you need to be told how to be in or think in the relationship? the truth is no one can give you the answer you seek because the answer is going to be different for every relationship. every person and every relationship is unique and have unique chemistry and dynamics and tranners can have very different attitudes towards their own gender
>>41744962>why do you need to be told how to be in or think in the relationship?everything in the world is based on norms and strandards and then you deviate from them according to your needs or desires. nobody builds a relationship entirely from scratch
nobody gives a shit. trannies are desperate and you will always have at least one wanting degrading sex. who cares what people online think?
>>41744359cos fetishizing ppl as objects of desire means u don't really see them as ppl let alone as just another woman that u happen to be attracted to that just happens to be trans
>>41744973Those norms and standards are based on people's first instincts, basically.If you're turned on by and get crushes on trans women then go ask us out. IDK how you see us.>How do you want me to be attracted to you? Pure 100% girl? Girl that used to be a guy? Girl that is kinda a guy still? Guy who is a girl?Some people might be fine with being seen as any of these things. Some would WANT you to be repulsed by their penis and be glad that they plan on getting SRS.
>>41744962>girls, and boys that look like girls>in the cis female chaser threadsaw that one coming
>>41744993it sounds hard to tell the difference except in very obvious cases thoughthe term is thrown around a lot more than it should be if not truly just the obvious ones
>>41745008>Some people might be fine with being seen as any of these things. Some would WANT you to be repulsed by their penis and be glad that they plan on getting SRS.why can't there just be like, a standardi want someone to tell me what to think. social dynamics are complicated.
>>41744359no. personally i only have an issue if i feel like someone isn’t interested in me and only the idea of having sex with a transsexual body. i don’t really mind if it’s your first time with a tranny just treat me like a human woman lol
>>41745013I mean yeh, nobody said it was an exact science, right???but like u said, there are obvious cases, and it's not exactly like they're rare, and they make themselves overwhelmingly known on this boardlike it's different if u actually want to commit to building a life together and will stay even after srs, at that point maybe it matters less, but then I doubt u start off acting like a total creep, so... how to not be a chaser ig...
>>41745012shocking huh>>41745050noq youre just trolling. obviously there can be no standard on how yourr supposed to handle her having a penis when trans girls own opinion of their penises ranges from "im glad im trans so i can fuck people with it" to "i want to kill my self every time i remember i have it". are you autistic or something?sounds like you dont even want to date a person but rather you want to date a fictional character or smth. newsflash people are unique and so are your relationships with them
>>41745115you're being kinda mean
