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Specifically straight femreppers, pre-hrt gaydens, straight women, etc:
Why do you prefer looking for guys to date on grindr over straight apps? Why do you prefer gay clubs over straight clubs? Is it that gay guys are hotter or?
Maybe it's like a more socially acceptable version of straight guys going to a very horny lesbian club and just gooning in the corner?
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>>41896696
>Maybe it's like a more socially acceptable version of straight guys going to a very horny lesbian club and just gooning in the corner?
Always was
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>>41896696
they do all of this instead of dating some unmanly guy they actually could feel manly next to
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>>41896702
Wow foids are truly blessed in all areas of life to be able to enjoy such things in such ways
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>>41896696
>Why do you prefer looking for guys to date on grindr over straight apps?
I don't use apps in general
>Why do you prefer gay clubs over straight clubs?
That doesn't exist were I live and even if it did I wouldn't go there
>Is it that gay guys are hotter or?
No

>T. straight woman (repper)
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>>41896772
Huh interesting. Usually it's socially acceptable and common for straight women to go to gay clubs
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>>41896843
Wouldnt know, nothing like that exists here. The closest thing I can think of are small lgbt meetups, but they were gender specific, and I only know about them because my lesbian friend invited me.
Maybe what youre talking about is exclusively a western thing?
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>>41897258
Is this in Russia or Africa or something?
And in general do you think gay guys are hotter than straight guys?
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>>41896696
>straight femreppers
>straight women
Why say the same thing twice?
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>>41897440
I'm not totally convinced all straight women are reppers
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>>41896696
>going to bars and clubs
I never talked to anyone outside of my pod at those functions. I seriously didn't know I was supposed to meet people there...
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>>41897395
Not in africa thank god, closer to russia, but a little bit better actually. I still wouldnt consider this country "first world" because its nothing like america, canada and other parts of western world.
>And in general do you think gay guys are hotter than straight guys?
I told u, no. I find het men more attractive and heterosexual relationships way more appealing
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>>41897747
Oh is that why you rep? What do you find not attractive about gay men?
Why do you think western and asian women prefer gay men?
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>>41896696
irl gay men dont interest me shrimple as. bisexual men are hot tho esp the musclesubs
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>>41896696
not pre-hrt but for gaydens it's because the straight guys who want to date ftms are annoying about it and try to convince you to never go on t/depoon. better off going on grindr or to a gay club to find a bi chaser instead.
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>>41898217
Well that's fine for actual poons but I was more getting at nontransitioning types where that's an issue idk
>>41898047
Interesting thoughts foids hate bi men
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>>41897842
Its definitely one of the main reasons, but not the only one.
>What do you find not attractive about gay men?
Im just not a fan of gay male culture. Ive never seen anything special in it. I feel like the reason fujos and some het women are so hyperfocused on gay male culture and gay men in general is because they treat it like some sort of fantasyland. And they definitely see gay men as "more safe" than het men.
They probably imagine gay relationships as something out of a fairy tale. "No worrying about pregnancy, no arguments, no whatever" + yaoi. It created illusion in their heads
And I didn’t know asian women were doing that too wtf
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>>41898264
Yea in China it's called danmei and the CCP is doing an active campaign to ban it because it's gotten too popular
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Danmei
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>>41898264
>And they definitely see gay men as "more safe"
I guess I wonder if this is cope and it's really about gooining to mlm stuff.
That or they're dysphoric and using this to mean that.
Like idk it doesn't make sense, they prefer gay guys because they're more safe but also want to date them? idk
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>>41896696
My gayden friend once told me he loved men so much he wanted to become one
He said it feels more pure to love men as a man
But he's not pre t, 3.5 years on hrt
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>>41898292
I forgot that yaoi comes from japan for a sec.
>>41898310
Maybe its two completely different types of people? Maybe the ones who find gay men safer than het men don’t actually want to date them, they just feel more comfortable around them? Because plenty of lesbians are saying that
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>>41898454
Lesbians wouldn't explain straight women at gay clubs or going on grindr. Part of me also thinks we may be dealing with extremely stupid(or drunk) women who think something like gay = asexual or gay = playing hard to get
>>41898316
I can understand that angle but I think there's more to it for the average foid.
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>>41898488
>gay = playing hard to get
Its probably this one, maybe they think it's part of the game or something
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>>41897519
Other way around, all straight femreppers are straight women
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>>41896696
I hate that being a fujoshi has irl connotations as opposed to just being a fandom shipping thing. I don't bother gay guys on grinder. I don't go to gay clubs. I don't harass gay men. I just am not into male/female shipping and porn. I look at pictures of cute guys or cute girls making out and obsess over my anime slop and that's it. I'm not a gay man, I'm a straight foid who doesn't want to poon out. Like yeah I'm an autist but not enough to think it's acceptable to hit on gay guys on grindr??? Fml.
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>>41899602
You seem fine.
But I mean this is an old problem that predates Yaoi. Fag-hags at gay clubs, etc.
Common media trope of the 2000s. Pooners and apps give it a new flavor tho
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>>41899623
Idk I've heard online from some other women that women go to gay clubs because they want to avoid straight guys, women on grindr just sounds like they severely lack self awareness similar to the op picrel which is just embarrassing.
It's just the average fujo I've interacted with is either way more into other women and just likes shipping dudes or borderline asexual. The idea of people associating it with women trying to fuck gay guys makes complaints about fujoshi make more sense to me (considering the average complaining about fujos is just disguised homophobia for turning characters they like gay or calling us misogynists which is whatever)
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What do fujos think of this astatic?
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>>41896696
As a bi guy dating a fujo I met on a normal dating app, back when I was single and fucking around everywhere, if I'd seen a woman on grindr I absolutely would've gone for it and seen if she was a fujo. But I've never actually seen one there lol
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>>41896696
Femrepper fujo speaking.
>Why do you prefer looking for guys to date on grindr over straight apps?
I don't date because of my crippling dysphoria. If I did, why the fuck would I use a gay app?
>Why do you prefer gay clubs over straight clubs?
I prefer a good English pub. Clubbing is boring.
>Is it that gay guys are hotter or?
I'm not into flamers. Other than that, I decide whether a guy is hot based on visuals and unless you're wearing a pride flag over your leather gear, how the fuck would orientation affect that?
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>>41903000
>Other than that, I decide whether a guy is hot based on visuals and unless you're wearing a pride flag over your leather gear,
That's my question. Maybe you're too male brained to understand it
>>41901841
Yea that just means its effective which encourages more to try. As for it happening and where it's probably regional.
>>41899764
lack of awareness explains why they'd think it's okay but not why they want to do it in the first place
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>>41903037
>That's my question
Then the answer is not really.
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>>41898217
Lots of guys are into normal twink looking ftms without any detrans fetish. If a man wants to detrans you, you just ain't really pulling the whole boy thing and he is doing you a favor
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>>41898292
Chinese women are going around the bans by making boyloves have omega love interest (omega have female reproductive system and they are females who look like males so its not technically gay)
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>>41896696
>looking for guys to date on grindr over straight apps? Why do you prefer gay clubs over straight clubs?
some people cant handle reality so they give in to this delusion. unfortunately, some of them at one point will give up and realize it is much easier to just get straight guys who are actually attracted to them in cases where they present nearly identical to op pic, and will resign themselves that thats all theyll ever get (kind of like i did). either that, or theyll take the t4t gayden pill but its much harder if youre a cocksexual

>it's like a more socially acceptable version of straight guys going to a very horny lesbian club and just gooning in the corner?
kind of. except in this scenario the straight guy would actively try to hit on the lesbians, believing he is one as well (oh no... this is sounding too familiar... retreat! retreat!)
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>>41904255
>and will resign themselves that thats all theyll ever get (kind of like i did)
That's the question tho, why is it resignation? What's so attractive about gay guys?



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