Help this third-world hikikomori make a decision. To make it short, I'm a NEET hikikomori with a wealthy family. I'm in my mid-20s and studying for two degrees online. I've had several job offers but turned them down because I refuse to work in person. My parents support me and pay for everything, and they'll pay for my FFS. Here's the dilemma: should I get my FFS now? Or wait until I have a job? My parents pay all my basic expenses, but I don't have any luxuries. I don't live with them; I live alone in an apartment in the middle of nowhere. It's my own property, not paying rent. My plan is to finish my degrees, move to the city, pay rent, find an in-person job near where I would live, and get my FFS. That way, I'll live in a decent and better place, have access to clothing stores, laser studios, and other things, and earn money I can spend on luxuries that right now I cannot. That way, I can take better care of my face and enjoy my FFS more. If I get my FFS now, I wouldn't change anything about my life and would still be a hikikomori NEET studying online.
>>41899891now now now now nnow now now now now now now now now now nwo nwo now now do it now as soon as possible always itll take a year to fully heal anyways you dont know how long waitlists will be or if anything might end up getting in the way down the line. do it now so starting everything in your life back up like laser finding employment moving shopping etcetc will at least be a bit more tolerable
>>41899891get ffs before you have a job unless the job pays for part of the ffs somehow
seems like it would make things easier to do it now and keep hikineeting while you heal up? also what are you studying, just out of curiosity? my circumstances are similar to yours and i'd like to return to uni
>NEET>studying for two degreesFUCK OFF and KILL YOURSELF
>>41901269I'm from the third world. In my culture, not working is considered being a NEET, and studying is like a hobby for me; it's not really something that requires much effort.>>41899939>>41899989>>41900038Thank you so much for your wisdom. I hadn't thought of it that way, like after having an FFS, even if I'm still a hikikomori who does nothing but study, "things might be easier." You know, to be honest, one of the reasons I don't want to work in person is because I can't deal with my appearance. One day is one thing, but having to go through that stress every day, right now I’m very insecure about my face, my hair, my clothes, and other things. Maybe after having an FFS and feeling a little less dysphoria, it could help me stop being a hikikomori... I don't know, but anyway, thanks for the advice. <3
