>Fixing hair in public bathroom>Random guy walks in>"Woah sorry I thought this was the mens">He goes to walk back out>Tell him "no haha this is the men's, I'm a man.">He looks at me like I'm retarded and goes to check the sign anywayWhy do I do this to myself
>>41909333Photo or it didn't happen
>>41909333this board is getting boring desu. all bait. also in this larp how tall are you?
>>41909346if I passed I wouldn't be posting when small occurrences like this happened, and I would be in the women's restroom.>>41909347I'm 5'7, but I'm a mexican in the southwest so I may as well be 6 foot.
>>41909333post face boymoder
>>41909333we want to see you boymoder
>>41909333let us worship you boymoder
>>41909372ur like 5'8.5 if u were in the us
>>41909382I look feminine enough to pass to a random guy at a glance while doing something associated with femininity, not much more than that.
>>41909480passoids are really fucking annoying
>>41909480please stop disturbing men in the mens restroom
oh my days
>>41909480stop boymoding boymoder. no girls in the mens bathroom boymoder
>>41909500>>41909509>>41909516I cannot tell if you are saying this because you think it's funny and want me to do something stupid with inflated confidence, but I get gendered male near exclusively. I do not pass, and if I did I wouldn't be on here posting small incidents where I passed to random strangers who saw me for 5 seconds. I don't put in effort and choose to repress myself and this post is kind of me hating myself for that. The backhanded compliments are nice, though.
>>41909594stop baiting boymoder
>>41909662on fucking god
>>41909500im going to save this image for when i cry to 4chan passoids while jorking so i can also get bottom dysphoria too
>>41909594I believe you, I'm a boymoder with a similar level of passability/androgyny and usually get read as male but have stories like this
>>41909669reppers are so scary
>>41909594i'm being completely 100% real with you when i say that you facepass and probably will pass if you stop boymoding, though it's hard to know for sure without knowing your build. you're being gendered male specifically because you don't put in effort. if you dressed and behaved femininely and voicepassed you probably wouldn't even need to wear makeup. you should definitely shape your eyebrows, though.
>>41909729im not a repper im just a sad babytrans boymoder
>>41909594
>>41909673That's it for me, really. I really was not expecting to have any luck transitioning and did so during like the lowest point in my life and since then I've been going through trying to remain unnoticed. Now I'm at a point where looking at myself doesn't make me want to blow my shit smoove off but I still have the guilt and shame of being forced to hide and repress forever and I just don't have the energy to learn makeup or voice train or really take care of myself beyond basic essentials. I get gendered male as a result.>>41909738My build I think is fine, or atleast not great or terrible, I legitamently cannot tell how okay exactly because I was fat pretransition and still am, so I have a lot of visceral fat in my waist preventing me from seeing its proper shape. I have broad shoulders and I guess I'm hoping my torso isn't too big for my legs to balance it out. And yea eyebrows, that's something I've been meaning to get done for a while, I am just a lazy motherfucker and I've fucked them up carelessly shaving before work with a face razor instead of plucking them, I unfortunately have a natural unibrow.
>>41909766well keeping your pretransition fat isn't gonna help but that's just remedied just by losing weight. i was in a very similar position. i also live in the american southwest and i'm a little taller than you (5'8") and i used to have a bmi of 34. i'm 2 years on hrt and i dropped down to a bmi of 23 and now i almost never get misgendered even with a clocky voice. i wear makeup consistently now but i think your face passes more than mine without makeup. i understand that energy levels play a big role and it's not an easy thing to fix but i just want you to know that it's truly just a matter of effort at this point. much love, nona.
>>41909824being 5'8 in america is like being her height in mexico icl
