Posting this one more time bc I didn't get many answers last time and I was at work so I couldn't keep the thread aliveI want to go on HRT as soon as possible. The problem is that I live with my parents and I don't know how approving they'll be of me (my mom definitely not, don't know about my dad)I have the money for HRT right now (mtf). I can probably stealth it, but would that be practical? Ethical? I feel that if I don't tell them they're going to be even more mad once they find out.I'm not sure if they'll kick me out, but it would definitely cause some tension between me and my mother.What would you do in my situation? Is it right? Is it doable?
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>>41912981im pretty sure theres a good amount of people who diy and boymodemake sure they dont see your tits or anything tho
>>41912981Do what you gotta do, you don't owe them shit. They sound like they're shitty people anyways
>>41913282They're not shitty people that's the thing. They've done everything for me and I really appreciate them, and that's why I'd feel guilty doing it in stealth. I feel like I'd be lyingI guess at the end of the day I need to do what's best for me, but I still feel like this is really selfish of me.
>>41912981it's certainly ethical, whether it's practical depends on whether you think you'll be able to hide it effectively
>>41913374They would try to prevent you from accessing something you need to feel okay. They have put you in a situation where the only way to meet your needs safely is by lying to them. That deception is a choice they made by not supporting you.
>>41913481Fair enough. I'm going to do it either way because its whats best for me, but I know it'll feel like a weight on my chest
bumping this one more time for any last minute answers before I need to go to work
great opportunity to cultivate your deception skillyour parents love you i'm sure, but it also sounds like you'd support your hypothetical kid if they were trans, so ????????sounds like you know what you're doing. good luck nona.
>>41912981I was in this situation (but ftm) and it IS right, ethical and doable.You'll regret not starting sooner. If I can break my voice and grow a shit-stache under my parents' roof without them twigging I've pooned out then you can cover up your budding boymoder tits. Believe in yourself.
>>41914213Thanks. I guess I'll just need to push past the guilt
>>41914286Thank you. It's all daunting to me but I think it'll all be worth it
>>41912981You will not be able to hide the changes, move out or come out
