Boyfriend
Men don't shit test you
Men don't start drama for no reason
Men don't say one thing and mean another

>>41925819
Boyfriends are better

>>41925836
>>41925839

counterpoint: autistic girl

that being said I would prefer a boyfriend too

>>41925973
I can basically force my bf to do stuff by whining (I'm probably super toxic sorry) and his protective instincts will force him to do it but I can't imagine a girl ever doing that

Just seeing Maka in pyjamas makes me spasm and almost cum in my pants. I'm cooked. I am legitimate fucking garbage.

>>41925836

This

>>41925819
idk but i felt more comfortable and free when i had a boyfriend compared to when i had a girlfriend

>>41925819
my boyfriend has only ever made me feel secure while wamen were very fucking chaotic and scary

>>41925819
100% a boyfriend

>>41925819
"women will tell you what you want to hear, while men will tell you what you need to hear"
theres a shit ton of awful guys but the way male socialization works they typically make that their entire personality and dont hide shit. the only women ive met who were confident and stood by their beliefs and values typically just had awful values (moocow republicans, radfem terms, etc.) with the rest doing some of the most heinous shit possible and then unironically trying to pull the "im just a girl" shit to get off the hook

unfortunately I am only really attracted to femininity

>>41925973
if theyre too autistic they will barely have a real personality and will likely cheat on you and try to claim it didnt count

source: happened to me. and watched it happen to someone else.

you want an ADHD girl.

>>41926487
damn I'm sorry that happened to you anon, but my bias was that I'm an autistic girl T_T
>no personality, will cheat
People love me for my sweet personality and always feel comforted by my presence. I'm honestly dying for a real connection, I just want a cute boy to spill my love onto forever and ever. I almost had that once but he had previous relationship trauma and was emotionally unavailable, so he gently cut me off
My luck is just really bad but I still have hope

>ADHD girl
I have no fucking clue if I have comorbid adhd, but I do have tendencies that may come off that way

>>41926487
>doing some of the most heinous shit possible and then unironically trying to pull the "im just a girl" shit to get off the hook
Oh look, it's every fucking fujo ftm who keeps harassing men

>>41926592
>People love me for my sweet personality and always feel comforted by my presence.
not aiming to accuse you here but that is a really easy thing to fake. the girl who cheated on me was like that. I've interacted with more autists that I would like and a very common trend is being essentially a sociopath due to not grasping how their actions affect others negatively. someone I knows mom is very successful and relatively smart but has to have it slowly explained to her that being angry or sad is a normal response to a lot of the shit she does because she's autistic and old enough that there wasn't much in the way of addressing it when she was younger.

>I have no fucking clue if I have comorbid adhd, but I do have tendencies that may come off that way
comorbidity is pretty high but from experience theres certain tells that tip off that someone leans more towards one or the other and by extension what kinda person they are. too many to list and I would sound schio if I didnt fully explain it all though

>>41926601
ive only met one gayden who harassed men and it was one of my ex's. from what ive seen theyre more likely to just sexually assault someone, particularly other LGBT people cause they know they can get away with it. my exposure to them makes me confident that people dont really grasp how much of an effect testosterone has one someone cause so many of them are sex pests from never having to learn restraint the way any guy with an even remotely acceptable upbringing does.

>>41926788
so you're saying people shouldn't trust me to be genuine because of a couple bad eggs? am I just supposed to yearn forever? :(
I know you aren't accusing me of anything, but it still feels personal; I'm always genuine as hell and cherish everything I have, but I never had much in life to begin with

Maybe I'm not the "too autistic" type you're speaking of? I have super high empathy to the point of it being detrimental at times where I feel everyone has a reason for things even if it's negative towards me
like now, you're just associating autistic girls with past trauma and I get it but like.. I would never do all that shit :/

>>41926877
there isnt a real way to quantify the stuff im talking about so I can only speak anecdotally but the main thing is the separation of intent and reasonability. the things im talking about, the person might not have ANY intention of upsetting others, and feels moderately upset when they find out theyve hurt someone, but in their mind the actions 'made sense' and so its unreasonable for the other person to be mad at them. now, most of my exposure has been to autistic people who nearly qualified for having caretakers because of how much it impacted their intellectual development, or much older people who never got diagnosed or had anything done about it. if you're diagnosed, have done a good deal of learning to work around those kinds of issues/somehow just dont have them, and are reasonably smart, maybe none of those things apply. but ultimately it doesnt really matter what COULD be, what matters is what IS, and I wouldnt be able to say one way or another without seeing someone follow through with their shit.

basically, you could be everything you describe, or you couldnt, and I will never know and you shouldnt worry about that. as long as you're actually putting in effort to stick to your beliefs and be the kind of person you say you are to the people around you, that's all that matters.