When I post about trans related stuff I’ll invariably get comments calling me a man, but I never understood why this was supposed to bother me. I dont care if my essence or chromosomes or spirit is male because none of that shit matters. When I go outside nobody looks at my chromosome or spirit, they just see me and call me a woman. What difference does it make if I’m a man in a dress? People still treat me like a woman, I still see myself as one, I still live my life as one, I’m legally one, what difference does it make if I’m a “real woman” or a “man”? It doesn’t affect me at all either way so why am I supposed to care?The right seems to care a lot about this question. It seems very important to them but I don’t really understand why. It feels like trying to argue about if my soul is green or blue, like who gives a shit? I’m just me, why do you need to know my essence? They’re just gonna assume my essence based on how I look anyway so isn’t my presentation the only thing that really matters here?
i dont pass
there is no rational answer to this question. people who go around saying "ywnbaw" are just desperate to maintain their idea of a status quo and prevent anyone who goes against their narrow worldview from living comfortable lives.of course it doesn't make a fucking lick of difference whether you're a ""real"" woman by anyone's definition, what matters is perception. if you're perceived as a woman and you think of yourself that way, then that's the only thing that matters. I don't pass as well as you (probably) and I've learned to make peace with the fact that I won't always be perceived the way I want. none of this essence or chromosome or "real" woman shit matters at all. I don't think it should bother you, but rightoids, christcucks, other assorted braindead groups, etc., WISH it bothered you.
hi anonette, the real reason is because they want to legislate your existence away by categorizing your body as one thing or another and denying you care or criminalizing that care on the basis of that categorythey are also trying to hurt you through the extremely limited lens they have, they think to themselves "if someone doubts im a man then that would hurt me" so they apply the same to youits all either a political or psychological attack to stop you from doing what you're doing and it's all also because they resent your freedom and power to decide over your own body and your own destiny, the same way they resent women having bodily autonomy
