>one of my guy friends admitted to me that he and the rest of my guy friends have a group chat where they talk about me behind my back and say very sexual and inappropriate things about me>ask him if its hateful things and they all secrely dislike me>he said no and they mainly talk about how i look and how they want to rail me>mfwis it bad that im not upset about this at all and im completely fine with it?
>>41961952why would you be upset about being hot?
>>41961952Have sex with all of them.
its not bad per se but it is a red flag that one of them will try something and probably ruin the vibe
So your friends basically see you as a sex object
>>41961952don't have sex with them but gradually start dressing sluttier around them
>>41961975you can be friends with someone and also think they're fuckable, not really a big deal unless you lose your cool and make it weird
>>41961952Yes, it's very bad that you're bragging about your objectification. Lol.Lucky girl.
>>41961982It's made weird when there's an entire secret group chat about sexualizing you lol
>>41961952you should absolutely fall asleep or get drunk around them. This is your one chance
>>41961952im sure this almost definitely didn't happen but i think this thread achieved the presumably desired goal of making me feel conflicted and embarrassed over how i think this is super gross and bad of course and how i also sort of wish it would happen to me, so congrats op
>>41961952All guys do this to their female friend btw.
>>41962000as long as it's kept secret it's not really weirddudes talking about a girl being hot doesn't mean they're demonic misogynists who think women should be slaves
>>41962016It's not just any chick they're saying is hot its someone they're supposedly close friends with how is this not irking anybody even a little bit you guys are attention starved holy fuck
>>41962026You act as if saying that someone is hot is a bad thing
>>41962026>you guys are attention starved holy fuckyeah
>>41962026It’s female privilege
>>41962035YOYRE LEAVING OUT THE PART WITH THE AEXUALIZATION GC WITHOUT THE KNOWLEDGE OF THE PARTY IN QUESTION AAAAAAAthis isn't like, looking at a pic of Jennifer Lawrence and going "heh nice" this is someone these people all know and are supposedly friends with while for who knows how long they've been gathering and flapping together over her thata what's fucking weird about this this is not normal aesthetic appreciation or even flirting it's just plain perverse and weird
>>41962026Yes. t. shoulderhon well past her prime
>>41962069Ok. Sexualization is not inherently bad in and of itself. Why would it be? Sexualization is only bad if the person being sexualized is uncomfortable with being sexualized.OP has stated she’s completely fine with ittherefore it’s a total nonissue. >b-but society told me i should hate thiscattle.
>>41962069I doubt the one and only topic of that GC is OPs hot body anonit probably just gets brought up occasionally,a dn they all go "yeah I'd fuck her" and move on to something else
>>41962069>AEXUALIZATION GC WITHOUT THE KNOWLEDGE OF THE PARTY IN QUESTIONHate you tell you but this is 99% of sexualization.
fine whatever go get gangbanged or something that would he sooooo hot there you heard what you wanted to hear
>>41961952It's sadly how it is having male friends. Like I just take the compliment
>>41962159you have some weird male friends
>>41962175All men do this.
>>41962026it's a little weird but then, girls talk about men like this quite a bit too, even like about their bfs dicks and shit
