my dad wants me to go to my GP with him because of my boobswhat should i do im scared
>>42005733just say no. tf is he gonna do
>>42005746hes physically very abusive and scaryi cant just say no its going to make things worse
>>42005760call cops
>>42005733Wear a cute bra, kek.
>>42005760Act completely ashamed by it. Mortified. Like you aren't a real man. Beg him to let you deal with this yourself. Look distressed. Like you know you're disappointing him by simply existing.Then go to the GP and get blood work done and come home and say, "They said I have some kind of hormone disorder and I need to take hormones for the rest of my life, but that with their help I can live a perfectly normal life."Then just lie about the kind of meds you're taking.
Make a backup escape plan and research queer shelters in your area
>>42005835i agree w this, op do this
>>42005835i feel like its way too late for this nowalso i cant look distressed in front of my dad somehowi dont feel able to talk to him in a normal way, everytime i talk to him i can only nod and agree and thats 99% of all interactions with him
>>42006185you have to realise what you signed yourself up for with this. confrontation is going to happen, you need to deal with it and stand up for yourself or give up.
>>42006219oh fmstl im going to lose my fuckass family
>>42005760Start crying and wailing and don't stop until he feels bad.
>>42005733if you are an adult your doctor cannot force himself into your private doctors' appointments it is illegal for him to do so, so just tell him no. if you are a child then you shouldn't be posting here, but also just tell him no.
>>42006232this is brain activation time. think of the best, safest place you can live for a worst case scenario. i had an abusive father and I understand the fear you are going through. your work needs to be on getting yourself as independent as possible if you wish you live your life how you want. the worst case scenario probably wont happen but you should be prepared. good luck.
>>42005819This.
>>42005733what do you mean? does he want you tested to see if you're using estrogen secretly or does he have no idea and is worried you have a hormone disease you just don't want to deal with?
>>42005733have sex with him
>>42005733Don't worry, he can think you have gynecomastia, but the surgery to correct it is expensive and most insurance companies won't cover it. So tell your dad to fuck off. Or have him grab your titties. I know I would.
>>42006248in the past he used to beat me up when he saw me crying >>42006269i’m an adult but he is that kind of person that gets aggressive and is like “why you want to go alone this bad what the fuck are you hiding??”>>42006276thanks, yeah i’m lucky to have amazing irl friends who will always catch me when things go wrong. >>42006370idk what his internal thought is but so far he wants me to talk with the doc about my boobs and i’m worried that the standard procedure of gyno is hormone blood tests>>42006612as long as they don’t test me that’s rightbut figured, they are legally not allowed to give any details exclusively to my dad so i’m just gonna tell the doc to not do the blood tests and i’m gonna take a previous test and fake the date and stuff and show him that instead
>>42006753>in the past he used to beat me up when he saw me crying>i’m an adult but he is that kind of person that gets aggressive and is like “why you want to go alone this bad what the fuck are you hiding??”ah ok. he's caught you. it's over. figure out your next steps.
>>42006753i suggest you read this book and the art of war as wellyou must engage in a masterclass of deception
>>42007884“step one, don’t get caught”
>>42005733do GPs let parents follow their adult children into the examining room with them? as soon as i turned 18 my doctor started having my parents fuck off first
>>42010156my parents are too close with the GP for that
Have sex with your dad OP
>>42010173its cool how laws don't apply when there is an opprotunity to make tranners suffer
