Manmoder\Boymoders, do you seem weird to others regardless of never passing?>Be manmoder>Still get carded and mistaken for under 18 despite being 31.>Apparently, I creep out people when I reveal it.
>>42010213I am 23 and still get called a "boy". Never get treated like a proper adult man and more like a teenager. Kind of sucks.
cyber six was so good.
>>42010238Better to be treated that way than a man
>>42010213I've noticed old women staring at me a certain way the longer I've been on hrt. A very specific way, almost malicious, that they never used to do before I started laser and growing my hair out. Probably just think I'm a fag. I used to be completely invisible, now I'm just 95% invisible
>>42010213smth similar happened when i was talking to this older woman and man and they asked my age, it was shock but like a wtf that’s not right kind of way.
>>42010579I don’t know what’s wrong with being 31 and mistaken for a 16 year old? I don’t even try looking anything GNC related
>>42010550Is it? It feels humiliating to me.
>>42010213(s)he is so goals
>>42010238I prefer being treated like this>>42013013I don't want the harsh expectations or the violence or any of it, I just kinda want to be treated with empathy and kindness and people tend to do that more when you look like a fucked up androgynous late teenager.
>>42015198Pipe dream
>>42010213No, people thought I was weirder before I started boymoding because I was a cispoon
>>42010213yes but ive always weirded people out so its all the samet. manmoder
>>42010213Well I do look freakily androgynous and people stare so I think I do freak some people out, probably.>>42010554Yeah same. I kind of thought it was me malefailing and them really hating lesbians or something.
>>42020572Oh except my hair is still shorter so that's why I partly assume they think I'm a lesbian
>>42010213In boymode, men treat me like I'm a teenager again and i get "young man" a lot. women give me polarized reactions ranging from overt kindness to this look in their eyes where I swear they are debating whether I'm just androgynous or a tranny. I was helping a woman at work the other day and she was friendly but then just started looking me up and down, at my chest, my hips, while I was talking and it took me out of it desu.
>>42020572I never pass to any degree, I just look like someone half my age and it bothers people for a reason I don’t understand l.
>>42010554>>42020572>t. bi cis manI used to work with an extremely pretty boy who just moved a while back. He was a pretty cool dude but he did get a lot of looks from people. Guys aren't usually that pretty and/or feminine so naturally people are gonna stare. It'd be like being a 6'5" Body builder. You don't see that everyday.
>start transition, no one notices me, no one talks to me>6m in, young girls are weirdly interested, girls come up to me to compliment my bangs, get stares>4y hrt not attention anymore, everyone ignores me. Guys give me glances but just oncefeels like i turned from uninteresting, to cute twink to passing but ugly hag. At least i got a bf during that process