ive got three bpdemons in my dms daily on suicide watch and if i try to set any kind of boundaries with them they get pissed off or threaten meso i guess im writing this as a psa keep the fuck away from discord worst mistake of my fucking life
>>42013301im one of them
>>42013301why arent you responding to my messages nona
always talk to discord tranniesive got five friends in my dms daily wishing me well and if i try to talk to them them they get happy to see me or share in my strugglesso i guess im writing this as a psa keep discord close to your heart best decision in my life
>>42013301just block and ignore them, what'll they do?
>>42013301Only befriend avoidant-type trannies. They will only hurt you by ghosting, if that.
>>42014203what is your secret for getting people to like you?
>>42013301Thank you for this advice, I know someone with bpd and they mean the world to me but idk how id be able to be with a partner who threatens or themselves.
>>42013301where do I meet people that threaten me if I dont speak to them
Throw em to the fucking wolves. They'll get their attention elsewhere stop wasting your time on those crazies
>>42013301But if not discord, then where do you meet people?
>>42013301I wish i was a clingy bpdemon on suicide watch instead of an avoidant bpdemon on suicide watch
>>42014512grass is always greener nona :(
>>42014546i feel like im unable to genuinely connect with people because im so scared of them and i get too overwhelmed and have to pull away and its fucking rotting my soul
>>42013301Nah I get the opposite, I attach really really hard and so do they and we make all sorts of plans that apparently were only real to me and then one day they just disappear forever without explanation Can't do that shit again
>>42014225>>42014416not an option, theyve got info on me so id have to ghost my entire online circledealing with this on top of my job is destroying me, i have no energy i just drink and lurk the catalog
>>42013301i was stuck in this too.it was hell.i got depressed and slowed down my replies.they survived and now we don't talk (thank god)
>>42014225only haunt you for the rest of your life
>>42014312yay, i’m friend material <3
>>42013301if you beat the bpds time to advance to the narcissists now
>>42014688>i got depressed and slowed down my replies.oh yeah I fell down a major hole and basically never got into a functional state for long enough to have time for replying, since I'd use any moment of energy and motivation to work on fixing my own life (1-2 decades behind the curve, old as shit). I hope they're well. Gotta fix my shit though, since there's no help coming for my broken brain
>>42014512Fuck I feel that. You can never ever ever directly ask for what you want otherwise it's not real and they are only doing it out of obligation and you are a burden forever.
>>42014546can you stop saying nona? its really gross when a man does it.
>>42015065 nona nona nona nona nonaim a big fat greasy hon and you cant stop me
>>42013301Is this just a universal experience? Its either this or trying irl… where hons keep trying to touch on me, im, im so tired
>>42013301I have discord yet I've never dealt with any of this shit lol, why put yourself in this situation ya bastard?
>>42013301Just block them lmao what?
>>42013301omg picrel, I love 920london!! I got the necklace pair for earrings
>>42013301honestly would want... so lonely there are 0 in my dms to talk to :(
>>42016962use /frengen/ you'll find someone bpd pretty easily ^_^
>>42013301I'm a discord tranny and not like that at all. In fact if you knew about my relationship with my best friend you would tell me I deserve better, and I do, but that's okay. I cherish them anyway.
>>42016992im scared of using frengen i feel to lame and boring
>>42017047Its probably the easiest way to make friends if you don't go to events irl, some people are pretty nice
>>42013301are you able to slowly distance yourself? like respond slower over time until they give up to look elsewhere for attention?>>42014312absurdly rare avoidant wint. avpd>>42014512is that avoidant bpdemon as in avoidant personality disorder or quiet bpd?
>>42017111mhm okay thank you, i wish i was normal socially maybe one day
>>42013301sorry ill stop dming you
>>42017180>is that avoidant bpdemon as in avoidant personality disorder or quiet bpd?im honestly not sure but im more inclined to say quiet bpd considering i definitely get favourite persons i get extremely unhealthily attached to even if my avoidant tendancies make me unlikely to bother them
I would kill for a modicum of attention from her right now. Better luck tomorrow
Why is it impossible to get a clingy tranny without her being bpd and suicidal
>>42015030REALLLLLLAnd if they do it without being asked then you can't be too enthusiastic about it or else they might feel like it's enough and stop doing it so you just ignore it and that makes them not do more of it anyway!!!
>>42021280The temptation to just disappear to see if they'll chase after me is always there even if i know the outcome will make me feel worse
