I use apps for dating because I work and am also a full-time student who doesn't live on my university campus. Everytime I use a dating app, I usually get a bunch of matches and likes from people. Then I match with some really cool and interesting individuals who have cool careers or very unique personalities, different from sterotypical types. Everything goes fine and they seem interested and then it all just breaks off suddenly. I am in a perpetual loop of getting better and improving as a person but the people I want to be with are constantly just out of my reach, but I get just close enough to make me think I have some sort of chance with them. It's actually so demoralizingI've never been in a relationship before in my life (21) because I want to date interesting people (I've had a very non-typical upbringing, myself) and so I just blow past and ignore the people that start conversations with just "heyyy" or listen to boring sterotypical normie-ass music, or fall into categories of people (ex. someone who classifies themself as a femboy and makes it their entire persona in life), annoying people who are already partnered, degenerates that want sex on the first meet up. It's like looking for a needle in a haystack and then when I find the needle I accidentally drop it back into the hay and have to spend even more time looking again. It's so exhausting I just gave up and deleted my account. I'm so lonely, honestly. I make an effort, I do. I have so many things going for me but it just doesn't seem to work with the people I want to date. You only have one chance with truly special people and if you miss it all vanishes instantly. So annoying
Fuck are you me? I'm 26 and I'm still like this.
>>42019916>I've never been in a relationship before in my life (21) because I want to date interesting people (I've had a very non-typical upbringing, myself) and so I just blow past and ignore the people that start conversations with just "heyyy" or listen to boring sterotypical normie-ass musiceveryone who ends up saying shit like this is a tourist instead of some curator of good taste
>>42020001Dude, if you start a conversation with the most boring stereotypical gay starter in the world you're a loser. It's like- you have ALL this time to be someone unique and special in life and this is all you got? Really? Same goes if you listen to normie music that everyone else listens to, it just means you're a follower. People who do this may be successful, they may be attractive, they may have a lot of money, but they are wildly uninteresting and it's obvious that they just follow the crowd for tips on how they should structure their personality and life. They're like carbon copies of one another, which is so weird to me
