I want to propose to my boyfriend of 2 years, but I am unsure of this gesture's implications. He hates himself and I fear it might ruin our relationship if I propose to him when we're both depressed and retarded. Should I wait or just fucking do it?We spoke a few times about marriage and he seemed enthusiastic about the thought, but I could feel a doubt about the future in his tone. Picrel is an idea for the ring. That's also a problem.
>>42023332Why don't you have some conversations about the future first? Just be honest desu
He's still mulling over trooning himself... makes him feel guilty...don't ask
>>42023346Did this now. Moving in with me seems scary to him, he said that's the main reason why he seems afraid. He does love me.I did ask him 4 times (just to be sure) if he'd marry me. He said yes all 4. I am still unsure.
>>42023425Absolutely move in together first before even considering marriage. Living together will expose both of you to new habbits and is a true test of how well you actually get along
>>42023432We semi-live-in-together. I stay at his house most of the time. We cook together, sleep together, our days include us being around over 14h per day. It's main of the reason I feel unsure, but also would consider it. Should I wait? We aren't getting married on paper yet (gay marriage is prohibited here). It's for us
>>42023449What country if I may?
