I am a cis man. I am dating a cis man. He identifies as straight despite our romantic involvement. I keep trying to explain to him that you can't call yourself purely heterosexual and also actively maintain a homosexual relationship, but this conversation always ends with him getting angry at me for telling him how to label himself.He won't even explain his logic, he just keeps telling me I'm "just never going to get it" and reasserts that being open to dating a member of the same sex doesn't inherently make you queer. When I explain to him that that's exactly what that means, he goes away and doesn't talk to me for the rest of the day.
>>42027434why does it matter
>>42027434This is only an issue because you keep making it one. He’s never going to agree with you and you’re never going to agree with him and it’s relatively harmless. Literally just don’t bring it up and it’ll be fine.
>>42027434It's just words who cares
>>42027434is he the top?
>>42027434Why is it so important? I don’t even know my boyfriend’s orientation nor do i care.
>>42027450>>42027458>>42027463>>42027469I guess it doesn't really matter, I'm just trying to understand and failing. I can drop it but it's just weird to not fully comprehend it. Or maybe it does matter a little bit, couldn't this be a result of internalized homophobia?>>42027467Yes.
>>42027469>I don’t even know my boyfriend’s orientationhow? you've never talked about it even once?
>>42027853I'm not even a little feminine.
>>42027434i hate to break it to you, but he's just retarded. been there. it's brainrot
>>42027434are you a feminine faggot or something because depending on your presentation I might lowkenuinely agree with your boyfriend
>>42027434are you his first and only bf?
>>42027434my problem is i have no patience for stupid people if i were you and this were my bf i'd be like okay lets break up then idgaf. people need to be fucking fr
