It's just not wise to get into a relationship or even a friendship with a "former" transphobe as a trans person
>>42027561But what if you are a trans person who is a former transphobe?
>>42027570Genuinely I think you should spend a lot of time working through that & think VERY carefully about all your actions, statements and beliefs and how they affect other trans people in the past, present and future.
>>42027611Why tho?Like, I can't undo my past. And if I've come to grips with my identity, how much more...supportive or whatever it is you're looking for can I become?
>>42027561What if you are the transperson, also the former transphobe, and you are attracted to yourself?
>>42027694Different anon, I have exactly the same thoughts about my former transphobia
>>42027561Transphobia is a symptom of gender dysphoria numbskull.
>>42027843sissy hypno porn
>>42027570I would avoid any trans person who used to be a chud. Period.
>>42028083This also functionally means you are saying you would avoid all black asian and middle eastern trans people. Concerning.
>>42027694It doesn’t matter imo. If it took being trans to get you over your transphobia, then you are someone who runs on very low empathy. You are unable to understand how your actions and words affect others, and only have a change of heart when you are personally affected. There are plenty of trans people who were NEVER transphobic prior to transitioning. The fact that you were points to other psychological deficiencies or issues that make you worth avoiding.
>>42028104Nah
>>42027694Also different anon but as long as you know now that it was wrong, you're doing great and I hope you're happier now. No need to do anything with your past mistakes other than not repeating them.
>>42028125So you lied about avoiding former chuds.
>>42028133I don’t assume people used to be chuds based on their race. Sounds like you do and that’s pretty weird dude. But if they tell me they used to be chuds, yeah I avoid them entirely. Why is it so important to you that I befriend people who spewed lies and hatred? Also pretty weird.
>>42028161Im going by country of origin, not everyone is american. Why do you refuse to let someone's cultural upbringing go, when they have? These people had no chance in meeting your standards given their birth location.
>>42027561i believe that people can change and so i'm not gonna hold the chuddy opinions of someone's 14 year old self against them. i had some chuddy opinions when i was 14 too. lots of us were raised in environments where this stuff was taught and we just didn't know better. that said, if someone displays any transphobia *currently* like as im knowing them, then yea im out lol. zero tolerance for that kind of stuff you're right
>>42027561so true. I used to know a racist transphobic incel who's now skinwalking me o-o>>42027570then ur faketrans
>>42028188Ok well I live in America, I don’t live in Turkmenistan, so I don’t really care. Your whole point is stupid.
>>42028221Okay bigot. Kys.
>>42028221Also you do realize this xenophobic way of thinking makes you yourself a chud right?
>>42028228Sorry, maybe try making a more intelligible and coherent point next time, and not some contrived fake moral outrage about tranny immigrants from Eritrea. Idiot.
>>42028247>i dont associate with chuds>"people from most countries in the world are raised with those views">well i dont associate with non-americans thenYou just want to have your fascist thinking while acting progressive.
>>42028104this is some noble savage bullshit indistinguishable from when people say "if you're antizionist then you hate 95% of jews" okay then i hate 95% of jews then maybe they shouldn't be zionists! i don't actually agree with op's point because i believe in change but this is just a terrible horrible critique of it. bottom of the barrel. minorities do not get a pass to be bigots, no one does.
>>42027561nearly every tranny i have ever met admits to being a former transphobe. in fact i'd say being a transphobe is probably the number one red flag that someone is a repper, it's extremely common. you're basically saying no T4T shouldnt exist
>>42028278> i dont associate with non-americansI did NOT say I don’t associate with non-Americans, you are now just lying. I don’t associate with anyone who used to be a chud, whether they are American or not. The one trying to racialize shit is you.>fascistYou don’t know what this word means. At all.
>>42028302This isnt noble savage bullshit, this is you being so fascist that you judge someone purely on their birth conditions no matter how much they changed as an adult. You refuse to give minorities a pass for attitudes they were raised with that they literally do not have anymore as thats what this thread is about. You are the very type that should be avoided by trans people.
>>42028228>chud admits to being a formerly transphobic chud>chud says racist thing and calls anon racist>anon says no, she isn't racist>KYS YOU RACIST BIGOT!!! YOU CHUD!!!wew I think "current" would be more accurate than "former".
>>42028278>you HAVE to tolerate chuds because some of them are black! So if you don’t tolerate chuds you are RACIST!retarded
>>42028319>>42028326>>42028336fine, have your white ethnostate filled with woke rich white freaks that were bred to have the right views and exclude the very people the bad views harm.
>>42028351Meds, now.
>>42028351you're quite racist if you think only white trans ppl are capable of overcoming an ignorant upbringing.
>>42028373nta but the guy said "i dont hang out with former chuds" that means people who were raised to be chuds
>>42028373This thread is about "former" chuds, i am fucking talking about nonwhite trans people that overcame their ignorant upbringing and you just say no colored people allowed in response while calling me racist.
>>42028388And there’s nothing wrong with avoiding people based on their past views and actions.>>42028389>you just say no colored people allowedThat’s not what was said. You are just desperately needing to be offended.
>>42028430i agree with ya numbnuts i just think you're extremely bad at articulating your point because you're autistic and aloof like most redditors are
>>42028388>>42028389you can be "raised to be a chud" without actually becoming a chud, though. it has nothing to do with race, literally everyone is raised to be ignorant of trans people. except maybe babies of crazy woke lesbians circa 2015
Literally Hitlerian thread
>>42028430you are consciously choosing to exclude brown people that became understanding and trans friendly. there is something deeply wrong with that.>>42028454the raising is much more extreme in some countries than others. it takes a few years in adulthood to get out of it. and other trans people apparently think i should be forever excluded for it.
>>42028441I wasn’t disagreeing with you. I was “yes anding” you. Calm down and stop itching for an argument, dumbass.>>42028501>you are consciously choosing to exclude brown people that became understanding and trans friendly. there is something deeply wrong with that.No, there isn’t.
>>42028475Realizing now its just OP and maybe one other poster actually pushing that now. Good place for me to leave. Just 2 performative woke racist americans.
>>42028573said the racist chud pretending to be a woman
>>42028573>announcing you are leaving the thread in disgustYou are the performative one here.
>>42028609you are right, i havent left yet.>>42028603so now youre just being transphobic. the one thing you expected others to not do ever that youre doing while trans.
>>42028648> i havent left yet.What a shame. So you lied again too? Wow. Well I may be racist but at least I’m not a liar!
>>42028648no I'm being cisphobic
>>42028685I changed my mind, you remained racist.>>42028709why are you being transphobic and exclusionary towards me for being raised in the wrong culture then? is it because OP asked about former transphobes and youre an active transphobe so its different?
>>42028724no but what culture are you from exactly? maybe your culture has a thing for being stupid
I was alt right and homophobic but I never once veered anywhere near transphobia because I inherently sympathised with trans people
>>42028724>>42028724You are conflating multiple anons with the one you’ve been arguing with (me). You don’t get a special pass for being brown. I am not interested in anyone’s backstory for how they became a chud or supposedly unlearned their hatred. Do you understand? I don’t care. You being a racial minority or immigrant doesnt make me care any more or any less.
>>42028796They all have the same Hitlerian american views as you so it's hard to distinguish. You deserve a life of isolation. But I bet you give a pass to bigots irl, you are just acting like this here to make trans people with bad backgrounds feel bad.
>>42027914Nope, but keep coping. There's no excuse for bigotry and if you would be better excluded because of this rule then we're all better off without you desu
>>42028112Literally yes, those types are always still assholes anyway so there's so many reasons to never interact with them
>>42028323Why would I, a minority, ever give a pass to people who gleefully engaged in my oppression?
>>42028846The hypersensitive sheltered types are the biggest assholes as they actually hurt people for real while claiming moral high ground.
>>42028867Being raised to think being gay and trans will send you to hell and believing for a while it is not the same as being gleeful in oppression.
>>42028833you are racist and transphobe, friend. I'm not american either. it doesn't surprise me you're telling people to kill themselves and deserve to suffer since you're a self admitted former (current) chud
>>42028889Okay this thread has to be a psyop at this point. Racist americans expecting everyone to be born trans friendly while being transphobic themselves. This cant be real.
>>42028889yes you claim you are not american, but the original poster i argued with was.