How do I find guys willing to date fat gay men who are nota) weird and want to constantly give me diet or exercise advice or say shit like "aw honey you will lost weight soon" or otherwise hard-pressure me over itb) fetishize me for being fat and want to feed me to so I stay fat?I just want a normal guy (fem tho, tho not trans) who is ok with me being fat because I'm smart, funny, and have an interesting personality.
>>42028653I guess look for other fat guys
>>42028653would you date a desperate pooner
>>42028662even then you still run into the problem of guys who want to hard-sell you on various diets or exercise, or feederbros>>42028666I would be polite to you in person, but um, absolutely not, no, I'm only into fem amabs.
>>42028666ditto
how fat we talkin chief?
>>42028710quitei try to keep active
>>42028653You’ve excluded people who like fat people and people who dont like fat people from your dating pool. There is no one left to date you.
>>42028653Would you date a fat repper who has a chance--albeit low--of manmoding at some point?
>>42028653>nooo they want to help me improve my healthdo americans really?
>>42028752no, and even if i wasn't not into trans people pre-manmoders are never feminine in the gay guy way, always in the quiet shy nerd way which just does nothing for me emotionallyi want someone who doesn't have tranny on the brain at all
>>42028653>a) weird and want to constantly give me diet or exercise advice or say shit like "aw honey you will lost weight soon" or otherwise hard-pressure me over itHow do I find people like this?
>>42028774this seems like the most common kind, just like any normal person who isn't fat is gonna be like this unless they specifically have a feeder fetish, it's the defaultenjoy getting nagged by people who don't even care about your feelings they just see you as some side quest to resolve for the glory of successful competition
>>42028769>feminine in a quiet shy nerd wayI feel called out, but that's fair.Good luck anon.
>>42028653>I'm smart, funny, and have an interesting personality>posts on 4chanPick one
>>42028798I want someone who is expressive and can hold a conversation. Every relationship I've had it felt like I had to do more of the work verbally and emotionally and I want someone who is interesting in their own right and not just sort of leeching off of how verbal and conversant I am. I want a give and take.
>>42028795That's not been my experience. Either people don't care or they don't want to date me in the first place
>>42028817I can appreciate that. I imagine most people under the mtf umbrella--trans or repper or whatnot--might be doing the whole "tell me more about you!" before having their own personality.Who are you into? Arts? Research? Business?
>>42028862I like going outdoors and exploring but I sprained my ankle so I've been stuck inside recovering for almost two weeks now. Hopefully in another week and some change I will be ready to go again. I hope to write about my experiences. I like seeing art and I wish I could create it but my hands are unsteady. I am built for verbalization, not manifestation physically with my hands. I do like taking nature photos. I feel like if I had someone else to go outside with and to help me with basic tasks it would be easier to lose weight and cook and just be in general. I don't really care much about sex.
>>42028898I'm not very outdoorsy, so you've got me there.I am the artier side of being a repper. I am very much the "X is art, Y isn't art and here's why" type. I do engage with a few mediums, including writing.I like cooking, but I'm also not as concerned about sex. Either way, I'm sorry about your ankle. That sounds like it sucks, especially for someone who like going outdoors.
>>42028653you lose weightobviously anyone who wants to date a fatass is a fat fetishist
