I prefer being a man by a longshot, and I feel pretty crazy for doing so.Wanting to be a woman seems like a very obvious thing to do, but whenever I imagine being one I immediately realize that I'd hate it.Women are generally seen as smaller, softer and weaker. I'd hate to be any of these, but I find it genuinely weird that I prefer to be stronger and more rugged.Being a man makes me feel like I'm perpetually masochist and that I desire for existence itself to be painful, yet it's what I genuinely want for myself.
>>42032558why u keep making thesecool picrel tho
>>42032687At this point I don't even know anymore. There are mornings where I look in the mirror and feel genuinely insane that I willingly choose to be a man
maybe you don't want to be a woman cause youre cis. ever given that a thought?
>>42032558never stop making theseim always waiting to see your next thread
>>42032558OP, have you considered that you actually want to be a woman but are desperate to not admit it to yourself because being trans and transitioning is scary?
>>42032922I just am cis. There isn't much point in giving much thought to the obvious>>42033023I have considered that, but the it's basically the inverse that is true. Just thinking about being a woman makes me immediately realize that I'd hate. I'm just baffled by the fact
>>42032990It shouldn't really surprise me that people recognize my threads at this point, but it still feels weird to know that they do
I can't even tell with what you're trying to cope at this point. You're mental gymnastics make no sense
>>42033776Me neither to be honest. I shouldn't even have anything to cope about, and to be frank, I don't. Guess I just love making up issues to torture myself
>>42032558Have you thought about being forcefemmed against your will?
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>>42034570Word of advice OP, you don't need to want to be a woman or have dysphoria or be valid to be trans. I started out just hating my male persona and the endless indecision about myself so I decided to blow it up. It turned out I was happier presenting female and being on hormones and without my balls, so i consider it a success. You don't need "permission" to do it. You don't even need to be sure you want it, technically speaking.
>>42035715I guess I could do that, but it would be genuinely insane. I don't want to be a woman, I don't have dysphoria, nor do I even necessarily hate my male persona. I just don't understand why I don't want to be a woman. A gigantic facet of the human experience will always be out of reach, not even because I couldn't experience it at all, but because I don't even want to. It just feels unfortunate
>>42035540That would be a waste on me. Neither participant would enjoy it
Why would you ever want to be a woman? It really sucks in many ways
>>42032558im a confused self hating cis male too wanna be frens
>>42032558Brother you haven't even told us why you would want to be a woman if you could.
>>42037988I really haven't, but I don't know how I'd even answer this question. I've mentioned in the op that it just seems like an obvious thing to want to me, but I just don't want it.There's nothing in specific which makes me feel this way, but there's just a persistent wistfulness about it all
>>42032558thank you for explaining what many men cant explain
>>42037982Yeah, why not. I'd like to be frens.Just add me on discord, my nick is .reeddeer. (with the periods)
>>42032558You can be jealous of the massive amount of privilege women get in all societies without wanting to be one.Like the things women complain about are "being attractive", "being desired", and "being treated like pets in a society built by men".We could only wish for such problems.Being born male usually feels like getting the short straw, but we live with it.
>>42038524Everything you listed is definitely not what is making me feel this way. It is solely "being a woman" that I can't understand why I don't want it, and nothing external or societal
>>42037898Why would I ever want to be a man? It sucks in many ways as well, yet it's still what I prefer, and I've no clear reason for doing so
>>42038249I don't think many men couldn't explain this. It feels like it's so obvious that most men don't ever feel the need to bring it up
>>42038524>doing care work 24/7 as the groundwork for any society>doing hermeneutic labor for emotionally stunted men>being treated as lesser by people that are supposedly sure that women have it good>consistently treated like objects by many religions and social structures, many which deny them education>having periods if youre a vulva haver >being subject to predatory sexual practices if you grew up afabi really wish every chud would hang themselves in front of their family during christmas dinner
>>42037982bumping once
