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How can I make myself be more attracted to men? The problem is that I find most men rly bad looking. If I spend time with them, will I develop an attraction towards them because of their personality? i could date women, but idk. Meta-attraction makes me want to have a bf more.

t. bi trans woman 19
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>>42033541
I don't think this is something you need to do
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>>42033541
The secret is that most men aren't really attractive and it's moreso the platonic ideal of a man that's attractive.

But you will find men who you find attractive. Like it's the same for cis women too.
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>>42033541
>I find most men rly bad looking. If I spend time with them, will I develop an attraction towards them because of their personality?
pretty normal situation for women, especially nowadays unlike the past where a lot more men actually masculinized properly
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>>42033541

First off, yes if you spend time with men your fear and diagust responses will go down and you will generally become more physically attracted to them.

To elevate your attraction to men, you need to be conscious of the ways being male socialized and having dysphoria encouraged you to not like men. You have to overcome latent fear and disgust about being seen as gay or un passing.

How you do this depends on your situation. Adopting more feminine behaviors/appearance can help, ND exposure therapy to situations that make you feel "gay" or emasculated can help.

If you're ready for it, hooking up with guys can definitely help. It's okay to force it in the name of experimenting. Worst case scenario you find out you don't like men.

Having sex with a gender you don't prefer or aren't attracted to isn't that bad usually. Gays and lesbians do it all the time before they accept themselves. So don't be too afraid.
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>>42033541
by overcoming ur misandry maybe?
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>>42036007
Holy fuck
You might actually be cooking something
Right now I look like a twink and still have my dick
However, when I imagine myself as a woman post-op, it becomes much more easier to myself with men. wow



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