>>42048684
Pic is aforementioned theyfab mother

>>42048684
>>42048693
I mean you probably pass but are too psychologically set on "muh forever nopass" to see it but your dad looks p damn good, but the shit he pulled seems fucked. Honestly entirely your call, if you want to reconnect, just catch up, talk things out and then proceed wirh no contact or maybe keep in contact.
Noone on this board can help you there, it's entirely up to you.

>>42048760
I mean considering what my sister looks like I pass (look just like her minus the glasses and with my dad's hair) but I'm still fugly compared to any woman I know.

Also I'm moving halfway across the country if I don't 41% so the odds of me seeing my mother are slim.

>>42048786
Attractiveness and passing ain't the same
The chances are irrelevant, do you want to reconnect with him?

>>42048793
I don't know. She wouldn't like who I am now and I'm sure she only apologized to get rid of whatever guilt she had. If she was really sorry she wouldn't have gotten rid of me when I was inconvenient and she definitely just wants some gross nonpassoid to virtuepost about on facebook. I don't know if I could see her again.

>>42048684
tranny genes are real
interesting it's your mom though, usually it's dads trooning out

>>42048854
Dad got shot back in our home country before we moved to the states. Knowing him he's a degenerate enough to be a tranny.

>>42048845
Reconnecting doesn't mean you have to see him, you could just simply tell him how you feel about his treatment of you and how fucked up he was to you if you think it helps.
My dad was similar tho not as bad, took years for me to accept that he'll never apologize for the shit he pulled but I am glad we are able to talk to each other again and to see that he is changed.
Didn't want to reconnect initially and made it clear that I want to talk about stuff first and we went from there.
Worked for me, doesn't mean it is what you need tho, just that there are options between total cutting out and "forgive and forget"

>>42048684
>>42048693
If this isn't a larp--and desu being mogged by your lateshit parent is objectively hilarious--I'd say this.
Not reconnecting with them because of them some trans bs is petty (even though I totally understand it as a repper who is currently hearing about a family member troon out, it is the most frustrating thing).
Not reconnecting with them because they're unforgivable is not petty.
I'd be more on the side of trying to reconnect tho, partly cos their perspective might be more accepting now, but also cos you might not have another chance to patch things up, especially if you're moving.
We only have a limited amount of time, but that includes the time we have with other people. So you have to decide how unforgivable they are and how much you might want even a casual relationship moving forward. If you try and it works, it was worth it. If you try and it doesn't work, you never have to see them again.

>>42048887
Yeah :/ I don't know I shouldn't make these decisions when I've been drinking but needed something to help. Glad things worked out between you and your old man but I don't know if we could ever be close again. Whenever I'm inconvenient she got rid of me, either having me sleep in the porch or locking me in my room or driving me somewhere and leaving me for a few hours. I know she doesn't really want to reconnect and there's always some reason she wants to be associated with me again.

>>42048894
I dont know how much of it is me just hating theyfabs for wanting to be irredeemably disgusting moids v me trying to avoid my mother because I don't want to have to deal with her bullshit again. I'm still a fucking wreck from the last time she got rid of me and this time didn't even hurt but I know I can't be around her.

>>42048931
Yeah you should think this through sober, maybe no contact is the best for you, but maybe it isn't, explore your own feelings, sober

i agree with the others that you should wait to sober up and think things through then. they're your parent and you shouldn't have to forgive them for kicking you out just because it's been a long time.
>I dont know how much of it is me just hating theyfabs for wanting to be irredeemably disgusting moids
but i think this is your dysphoria talking

>>42048959
That's fair. A reconnection will be harder the farther you get, but if you really see no reason to reconnect, then it is just time spent on something that would just hurt you.
Either way, I'm with everyone who says to make the decision sober. No shame in a little Dutch courage to get yourself thinking about it tho, but arrive at your conclusion sober.