Ridiculous people inside the community do stupid shit and act in ridiculous ways, and all of that ends up falling on our shoulders. Trans men who act, look physically, and socialize like women while demanding male pronouns are disgusting“Some cis men also wear feminine clothes.” Yeah—and you’re not cis. You’re trans, and you’ll get stoned and mocked for it, and you’ll drag the whole community down with you even moreYes, you’re trans. If you have colored hair, you’ll also be seen as a woman. It’ll never be the same as being cis unless you go on hormone therapy and actually put in the effort to build muscleIt feels like people pretend that being a man is some open, vague concept. It’s tied to masculinity in one way or another. You’ll never be seen as a man while acting like a womanPersonally, I wouldn’t care whether the person looks like a man or not (that’s their problem), but this makes the community look worse, because that’s reality and gender roles are pretty well definedThe world is already difficult enough for us
sounds like you got dabbed on by a hecking cute and valid ayden and now seethe impotently
>>42052902It would be less bad if that were really the case, but it's not
Stop worrying about transgenders as a collective, groupthink is only gonna make you miserable by comparing yourself with the actions of random theyfabs. Just focus on what makes you comfortable and alright with your transition, if you dont want to be overly associated with the lgbt community then you dont have to be.
>>42052919Thanks for the advice, I’ll try to think about it that way
>>42052891I feel like this regularly. usually people aren't ok with transfem not putting in any effort into presenting feminine---why should this be any different
>>42052891>homophobicWow rudeAnyway optics is unwinnable just be the best you that you can be, and the people in your life will respect you for that if they themselves are also good people
>>42052891>Yeah—and you’re not cis. You’re trans, and you’ll get stoned and mocked for it, and you’ll drag the whole community down with you even moreYou are really transphobic and and gender essentialist. Your kind gets hard from shitty gender roles.Honestly a cute piv gayden who does not give a fuck is way more tru trans than you.
>>42052891You are a pick me trans man! I bet you glaze trans fems all the time. Go back to 4tran red dit
>>42053064My God, do you really think you live in a world with rainbows? It's reality, for fuck's sake, wake up.
>>42053074Blaaa you are a pick me cuck, nothing more
>>42053426women really are like children covering their ears and going lalalalala when you say something they don't like
>>42053064>Honestly a cute piv gayden who does not give a fuck is way more tru trans than you.Gaydens stay winning because we don't make posts like OP
>>42053645You have nothing worth of listening>Im so different, Im not like the other girls, pls choose me!Go back to 4tran4>>42053679True
>>42053778i dont use reddit, srry lolipoon
None of this matters if you're a normal person who happens to be trans
>>42054457I know you do
