>absentee father coming into town for the first time since I trooned>am noticably weaker and won't be able to keep up on bike rides/workouts he asks me to do>can't hide tits without wearing a large sweater 24/7 which has never been normal attire for me>face is more feminine so know he will make comments about me looking too girly or needing to cut my hairI actually don't know what to do, I can't come out to him but idk how I'm gonna boymode around only him for the next at least 20 years he's alive, while being out to everyone else, fmstl
what if you just don't? if everybody else knows he can just suck it up and deal. if you haven't seen him it doesn't sound like you need him in your life, though i understand he may still be important to you. if he loves you he will come around eventually, though, no matter how he feels at first, especially if he sees everyone else believes you are doing a good thing for yourself.
