My trans gf doesn't wear deodorant everyday, and only showers once every 2 or 3 days. Because of this, she doesn't always smell good, and sometimes her BO is pretty strong. What can I do about this, as her boyfriend? I don't want to hurt her feelings. As someone who's really meticulous about his grooming and hygiene, this is difficult for me to endure.Yes, she's on the spectrum.
simply show her the post you made
>>42061628just tell her what you wrote and say you don't mean it to hurt her feelings. she probably just doesn't realize.
>>42061628I'm an autist who admittedly does similar shit and this is very easy to explain unless shes like SEVERELY autistic or takes things way to seriously. Like everyone smells bad at some point just tell her in a chill way and it's an easy fix.
>>42061636>>42061646I don't want to hurt her feelings, though. She's really sensitive. Also, I don't like the idea of trying to change someone's habits and lifestyle.>>42061657I have already tried to approach the BO/deodorant topic, and she teared up about "disappointing me." I felt horrible. I was as gentle and reassuring as possible, too.
>>42061628Ughh I wish she were my girlfriend.
>>42061681I mean not trying to shit on your whole relationship because I don't know the details but if she can't handle criticism without getting too upset to finish the conversation and the issue persists anyway thats seems like a pretty big problem. I don't care about my bad habits because I'm usually alone but she should fix that if she's with someone, it's not something that's unreasonable for you to have a big of a say in if you're gonna spend your life with her. You should approach the issue again, maybe you can spin it in a different way just to comfort her feelings and help her out with it because she is still autistic. But like she should hopefully be trying on that front
>>42061628>only showers once every 2 or 3 daysThat's literally within normal range. Just make her wear perfume and/or deodorant. Done.
>>42061628One day try to initiate shower sex with her and get her addicted to it so that she begins to associate showers with positive feelings. now she will want to shower every day.
>>42061786Freaky CAPTCHA
>>42061628I’ve never understood the whole “not showering when depressed” bullshit. When I’m depressed, I wish I could live in the hot shower.
>>42062133She's not depressed
I'm extremely depressed, socially anxious and I'm autistic. I shower twice a day. She's just gross
>>42061628also if the small of deodorant or perfume are an issue for her she could opt for antiperspirant instead, it has no fragrance and just stops her from sweating.
>>42061628you're not compatible with her. if you were compatible with her, 2-3 days without wouldn't be a problem and you'd like her smells.chemistry is off, sorry anon. it wont work out or last.
>>42061628Is she submissive? Just make it a play thing like "Alright, get up. *drag her to the bathroom* "Clothes off---in the shower---" *hand her deoderant after she dries off*t. Would get turned on by that
>>42061772are you brown?
my ex would tell me i smelled good when it was just me dripping in sweat no perfume nothing
>>42061628are you saying she smells bad? thats weird, she shouldn't smell bad if she is on estrogen.
>>42062361Breaking up with someone over something so trivial and easily correctable seems extreme. Besides, she's crazy about me. I could never break her heart.>>42062387She is submissive. This isn't a bad idea.>>42062480She's been on E for 2 years. She doesn't smell "bad," but she doesn't smell great, either. Sometimes, like when she sweats, her BO is very strong.
>>42062387this>>42062480whoremoans are one layerMHC or whatever is anotherdiet and lifestyle-related shit is another toocumin-smelling unwashed butthole is a stench that can pavlov your boner to kill itself when the memory passes your mind, for example
>>42062606You can even get in with her and personally make sure shes scrubbed properly
>>42061628steak too juicy aaaahhhhhhhh> trans gfhrt makes you sweat so much less and your body odor becomes womanly>once every 2 or 3 daysand YOU ARE MAD????? HOW. unless its a really rare case where her smell is fucked up or something idk why you would be like thispersonally, as someone that loves their partners smell and is body smell addicted I would dump youloving your partners smell even when they are stinky is one of the most beautiful signs of love you can do. if you cant tolerate it be happy being a schizoid that showers everyday and cleans their hands 10 times a day ig
>>42062606okay well dont say i didnt warn you see you next year anon when you're single.
>>42061628>My trans gf doesn't wear deodorant everyday, and only showers once every 2 or 3 dayssame but i dont smell that bad or at least i dont think i do
