being trans is such a lonely experience. the only communities you can be a part of are ones where trans people are the majority. you will get slowly pushed out of every single other community. it's really sad, and when you dare to complain about it, you are the kid grooming freak villain who needs to be genocided. i wish i weren't trans so bad
>>42061815divestment from the cissoids is paramount
>>42061815being trans sucks so much i feel the same way as you. there's literally zero upside in people knowing you're trans and so you end up in the closet most of the time. other trannies are impossible to get along with bc they're for some reason fine with being publicly trans (many can't help it), and you're perpetually alone bc of how absolutely unrelatable the trans experience is.
>>42061815Also cissoids follow us into our communities and plague us with trolls and bots and death threats
>>42061852i like spending time with other trannies especially if they're out, the only problem is that i cant find any trans friends because every second one is a drug junkie apparently
It is a lonely experience. I tend to have been lonely my whole life though. When I switched middle schools, there was a kid who was at my old school who switched after me. We played together at the old school and he just flat out said no we never met and told everybody he never knew me. Just cause I was a fucking weirdo. I didn’t have friends. I just hung out with the people who also didn’t have friends and then the one that I was best friends with parents got mad and told him they couldn’t hang out with me. Whatever I go to high school I try to make friends and they start doing LSD drugs and when I try and get them help, they kicked me out of the group.I found a few friends as an adult. It’s few and far between and extremely hard to find anybody who doesn’t see me as a sex object. I made three trans friends all three of them left Texas good for them too. I made one more trans friend and turns out she’s polyamorous and was dating somebody and didn’t tell me and didn’t want to continue being friends when I got confused. I just keep looking because eventually I’ll find my people.If I talk to 1000 people, I will find one good one
Oh and I tried to go to an LGBT meet up a year ago and when I showed up it was a conference room taken over by old ladies singing Christmas music. The LGBT group had another meeting this year and a bunch in between and so I thought OK I could go try again and I show up to find absolutely nobody there not even the lights on no event
>>42061815what kind of communities are you in? I don't think I've ever had any issues with the communities I'm in. are you going to irl community meetups or telling people about your pronouns, etc online? people generally associate online trans people with the bluesky/reddit mental ward types, and I find just acting like a random anon is a lot easier for people to accept
>>42062448>>42062459Good on you for trying.
>>42061852here's my mindsetstraight people don't shove being straight in our faces, so therefore I shouldn't do the same to themme being trans has no effect on 99% of my life outside of romantic relationships, and therefore it doesn't need to be brought up... just like how being straight has no effect on 99% of their life there's nothing good that comes from dragging your sexuality out to the public in situations where people didn't ask, and it's reasonable that people would be weirded out by someone that just goes around talking about sex
>>42061815the picture is so cute but sad ;-;
>>42062587I want to hug whoever drew the picture very tightly ;-; please feel better
This is going to sound awful but I don't even visit other LGBT spaces (tttt excluded) because it's always overtaken by white people, and they will be racist / socially exclude you because you make things uncomfy. So the cis people don't want you, and most of the online tranny population doesn't want you.
>>42062510Being trans isn't a sexuality. Get back to book learning.
>>42062510straight people shove it into everyone's faces just like a stereotypical gay person would, it's just completely normalizedalso what the fuck is this captcha it no joke took me 100+ tries to post this
>>42062448>Whatever I go to high school I try to make friends and they start doing LSD drugs and when I try and get them help, they kicked me out of the group.incredible that I've literally only heard your side of the story and you still sound like you were in the wrong
>>42062510Nice try fucktard but you gave yourself away calling trans a sexuality. Stupid cunt lmao. Get the fuck out of here.
