I don't know what the kink scenes around you are like but where I live they're marred by a prevalence of morbid obesityI guess it follows that sensualists of this nature probably gorge themselves in their daily livesAnd I'd obviously end up canceled if I said something like "hey this would probably be more fun if we all looked good"I feel kind of cheated being lured into this by porn where everyone is attractive-human-shaped and then getting there and not being huge is an elite traitMaybe I'm just not hot enough to get invited into the secret bdsm scene made of hot, tight bodiesWho can say
>>42076244your fault for getting into kink in the first placejust erp on niche online forums like the rest of us
>>42076244Most kinky people don't go to kink clubs or whatever. The kink "scene" is morbidly obese because those are the people who need a "scene" to find partners.Just meet your partners like normal, out and about or online, and see if they're into kinky sex.
