>>42079641
are u a cis male or a tranny

>>42079641
>he genuinely stood there like a dummy
>he did nothing, he was useless
>he doesn't even know how to drive
Sounds like me and I'm also ftm. Trying to get better, though. I get pretty embarrassed when I don't know how to fix something.
>why is it always females that are like that ?
It's easier and "we" get away with it. Since I'm stealth, I no longer do. So I've started putting effort into it. Since he knows he can always rely on you, he might not change. Some people are just like that, especially females.

>>42079641
no one's making you stay with him nona, just break up with him and kick him out and see how long he lasts alone

>>42079641
did your thread about your boyfriend not having a dick not get enough attention

>>42079641
Sounds like an average dood but I know what you mean, couldnt date someone that incompetent either I’d have to break up or start abusing him

Women are coddled and protected from any real responsibilities or problems by society so they are completely incapable of many basic things

Men are forced into manhood and to be the one taking action during puberty but ftms are never taught this

>>42079641
transmen are incompetent
cis men are stupid assholes
theres 0 good options when dating men

>>42079663

Cis

>>42079678

It just makes me feel overqualified and just used honestly, how can they not even think about this ?

>>42079680

Well, he's the only one that ever cared for me and isn't a lying whore, he feels authentic and i guess that's the only reason i don't feel like leaving him

I just wish he would put in more effort, be more "like a man"

Although he's now taking self-defense lessons so that's already something

>>42079780
>honestly, how can they not even think about this ?
Female entitlement
I wrote that I identify more with your pooner bf in that scenario because I'm also useless 80% of the time, but when I'm around my mom for example, I also have to do everything for her because she doesn't want to learn or do anything. And any girl who ever had romantic interest in me expected the same. So, I get you. It's rough.

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>>42079806

How do lesbians even get along if they're all like that, then ?

>>42079780
>cis
And just like that this post is irrelevant

>>42079798
tell him that and if he gets upset and breaks up with you for it he was too fembrained to ever make it anyway

>>42079875
They oftentimes don't, but there are women who are pretty practical. They're just rare

>>42079894

I already talked to him about it tonight, he just cried, said that he doesn't want to be better, and feels like he's not good enough at the same time, i guess he's not sure about whether he's okay with it or not

>>42079641
Honestly anon, a man is going to have his strengths and weaknesses. I can cut down a tree and work in the sun for hours, but I can't do pipe work.
Maybe you should get a sexier, manlier pooner boyfriend?

>>42079944
show him this thread lol

>>42079641
>Like, he's just incapable of doing a single thing, he cries often, he's always finding excuses, he's not just lazy but straight up uninterested into getting better
im a tranny and this describes me in a sentence. does this make me fembrained or just a loser?

>>42079966

That's what i used to believe in

But when i look back at things between us, he never really helped me outside or like, doing the dishes

I don't think he has any skills at all, no culture, no knowledge, no nothing, he's really a loser

He was virgin before he met me, really it's like he's still discovering life at his age and he's older than me holy shit

why are you even with this dood?

>>42080010
You should break up with him and get with a Chad poon. He sounds lame.

>>42080028

Because he's authentic, curious about me, always listens to me and tries to understand me, he makes me feel loved

>>42080073
And yet you hate him
Tragic

>>42080073
So basically he provides you the bare minimum

>>42079966
dude this isnt a weakness, its flat out laziness. i completely understand what op means when they "stood there like a dummy, not even trying to get a feel for it".

sorry to say it so harsh, but that is exclusively a 1st world woman thing to do. not asking any questions, not testing things out, not even curious

people like that should just die literally. i hate it so much

>>42080092

Kinda, yeah

But it's rare nowadays

>>42079641
If you're a woman: inspiring diva, your boyfriend isn't a woman, but he's useless. A sweet lady shouldn't have the guts of a relationship; it's impractical, and besides, women need to be pampered and loved. The fact that your boyfriend is a NEET prototype should remind you that he might be in danger watching less-than-noble pornography and sees you as a hot piece of meat, which could be bad, but remember that he's just a lazy and useless man, regardless of being trans, and that will help ease your heart. He's using you; make him work and study.

If you're a man: it's your fault, solely and exclusively. I hope he takes your money and spends it on eroge games or a high-end computer to run GTA VI on ultra.

>>42080160
he will probably spend it on makeup and knitted packers

>>42080160

I already bought him a computer able to run most games on Ultra, for no reason other than i love him

For my birthday he bought me chocolates and a pair of socks

I feel like i'm gonna cry

>>42080175
if you want him to be better you need to make him do things himself, struggle and failure are very important for growth

>>42080192

I don't know how to do it honestly

I try to make him learn things, but most of the time he doesn't give a shit about it

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>>42080175
>letting girlfriend get away with being a bitch because love
Many such cases.
Have you considered getting with a real man? It'd be much easier, loving, and more entertaining in the long run. Regardless, breaking up sounds like the best option.
It's now or never, Anon. She'll just drag you down further if you keep validating and enabling her (not even half-assed) LARP.

>>42080175
Damn I'm sorry anon

>>42080255

I used to be with a cis dude but he wasn't communicating well, was a bit of a weirdo and just in general toxic in many ways

>>42080320
Doesn't seem like this one is doing any better for you either. Plenty of fish in the sea.

>>42079641
You are dating a mentally ill subby bottom, what do you expect?

>>42080418
>mentally ill subby bottom
Cluster B woman with extra steps?

>>42080407

Not really, no

>>42079718
>Men are forced into manhood
Most men cannot even wash their ass or wash their clothes. Men are more coddled.

>>42080121
Do you love him?

>>42079875
they dont

>>42080442
>Men are more coddled
Women being so confidently wrong would be almost impressive if it weren't for the delusion.

>>42080175
Are you a man or a woman?

>>42080255
>It'd be much easier, loving, and more entertaining in the long run
Lol, fuck no

>>42080442
men are only coddled on domestic duties, but every single other responsibility? making money, protecting their partner, fixing everything, being an emotional anchor while their gfs cry, taking care of finances, their partners personal resposability, networking, etc. all is expected of men

>>42080481
Why is that men refuse to do so little housework then? Are they just lazy?

>>42080056
>You should got rid of your horse and get a unicorn instead

>>42080510
>making money, protecting their partner, fixing everything, being an emotional anchor while their gfs cry, taking care of finances, their partners personal resposability, networking, etc. all is expected of men
Nope, men are not doing those anymore. Maybe older men are but gen z is useless

>>42080205
Is the sex good?

>>42080526
yea kinda true. gen z woman want a man who is basically their dad and gen z men want a woman who is basically their mom. op is clearly dating a woman who just wants him to be her dad, but competent women are either lesbians or currently stuck being another mans mom, so he only has her. its fucked

>>42080166
Tragic, but a little funny. He comes up behind OP and says, "I bought Virginia's body splash, celebrity makeup, and a kilo of 20cm packers..."

>>42080175
You realize that buying such an expensive gift for your USELESS boyfriend is idiotic, right? Can you be so gullible as to buy a gift that must cost around $1,000-$2,000? You gave a computer to a freeloading unemployed guy, and thought he'd sell the graphics card to buy you expensive perfume or take you somewhere expensive? You're more of a woman than him, the kind of woman who gives money to her irresponsible boyfriend and gets cheated on by a woman online. Have some guts and be a man for once in your life and break up with him if you don't want to be used as a bank by a loser. You're not being any better than the guys who trade skins with girlfriends/boyfriends in League of Legends just to get attention from the desired gender.

Crying won't get your money back.

>>42080583
>You realize that buying such an expensive gift for your USELESS boyfriend is idiotic, right?
He is a moid and doing things for pussy

>>42080521
I'm suggesting op upgrade from a pony to a stallion, but aiming for a unicorn doesn't sound bad

>>42080483

Man as started above

>>42080469

I guess yeah

>>42080539

It's alright, not the best but not the worst either

>>42080583

It actually costed me a little over 300$, it was second hand

He's not unemployed actually, i'm the one unemployed

I'm not being used as a bank, i actually was going forward with the present, it was a suggestion of mine, not a demand of him

I just wanted us to be able to play video games together

Do you even know what love is ?

>>42080763
>Do you even know what love is ?
NTA but considering you're still in this "relationship" there's not much room for you to talk.

>>42080763
Damn bro. I was on your side at first, but it's starting to look like you're just as big of a loser as he is. You kind of fit together.

>>42080792

I'm just saying, retard says it's a stupid expense, as if buying presents period ever was a wise financial decision

Looking through that lens, yeah you shouldn't even be in a relationship to begin with

It's just pointless to have such a reasoning, it's not like i bought him a car or something

>>42080793

Why is that though ?

Because i'm generous to the ones i love ?

I don't get it

>>42080824
No because you're a jobless bum

>>42080830

Bruh so that's all that it takes

>>42080763
You are unemployed? He pays the bills? If so you should be more grateful.

>>42080861

I pay the bill, we don't live together

I get disability

>>42080890
Imagine when you'll live together lmao

>>42080890
You pay the bills with disability aid?? Damn dude he sounds more competent than you, just dosent seem to like manual labor.

>>42080923

Well i'm paying my own bills and he pays his own bills

He works as a social worker

>>42080890
Ye.. i think you two are a good fit. Two different types of losers. Be happy

>>42080619
It really has to be, and that pussy that oozes delicious honey or is made of fine chocolate, because nobody would humiliate themselves for so little in return.

>>42080763
Even worse, you don't have a job and you spent $300 on a PC? Think more about yourself, man. That pussy has to be made of gold, even if you're unemployed, what are you supporting yourself with? It can be second-hand, but it's still money and money is precious. If he doesn't even give you a nice gift, do you have to give him a whole gaming setup? It's immoral, it doesn't make sense. Because in a relationship, both people have to contribute emotionally, and you're the only one contributing.

You received a pair of socks and chocolate, if you think that's normal, you're part of the problem in this relationship, you have a mouth and you don't shout. Stop being so nice to someone who doesn't even want you properly, man.

Yes, and that's why I'm telling you, your relationship isn't worth it. He doesn't even fuck you spectacularly, he's mediocre, he treats you badly, and you still want to give your heart to a guy like that? It's not even a question of him being trans, but rather how you deal with all of this.

>>42079875
Savage beatings?

>spend 8 hours in wagecage
>bf invites me over
>think we're going to spend time together
>turns he actually just called me over to fix his plumbing
>no clue how it works
>literally just wanted to lay down
>whatever i can at least hold the lamp and pretend to be intereste-
>he gets the ick calls me useless and a woman behind my back

>>42081241
the boyfriend needs to kick op to the curb asap

>>42079798
well the reality is she is a woman and you signed up for this, so