I wish I was a bottom so badly, but im not. Bottoming looks so painful and the thought of doing anything with my ass disgusts me. But im a femboy so I feel like im expected to be a bottom, and im a freak for not being one.
>>42092510if you bottom correctly it doesnt hurt at all and feels extremely nice <3
>>42092510Just practice dumb ass, you can go from small dildo to taking dicks in a month
>>42092510have you tried it? it doesn’t hurt if you ease into it and the sensation of being stretched and filled is heavenly. you get prostate stimmies while also feeling vulnerable to someone else. i love having my sanctity defiled, it puts me in my happy place where finally everything feels right
>>42092510>I wish I was a bottomnobody says this
>>42092510Femboy top is actually a nice niche if you like other femboys.And plenty of guys aren't into the top/bottom stuff and just like to frot/trade bjs.
>>42092510Don't get SRS cuz it'll really hurt after they make your canal smaller
>>42092539>>42092550I mean, i fingered myself once but i didnt find it pleasurable at all. Not painful either but still. And from what ive heard from other bottoms it doesnt seem like its pleasurable for them either and that they only do it for the other mans pleasure>>42092575Id love to trade bjs with someone but gay culture is so dominated by top/bottom dynamics that i didnt even know if people were into that anymore
>>42092657My fwb is a tongue wizard and when he tops me it is heaven. If I haven't bottomed in a while it's a little uncomfortable at first, but a few minutes in I hit this indescribable nirvana where my brain turns off and I feel nothing but goodness. I will grant that it takes the right partner and a bit of practice, if you're interested in trying look up a guide, warm up with fingers, remember the 1, 2, 3 rule with lube, and explore yourself.>Id love to trade bjs with someone but gay culture is so dominated by top/bottom dynamics that i didnt even know if people were into that anymoreIf you're up front and firm about what you're into most guys will respect and roll with it
>>42092657you have to rub in the right spot, feels stupid good if you hit it right
>>42092510if you get srs you can have sex without using your poop hole
The trick to bottoms is priming them. You tease them, play with their nipples, slap their balls around, then you lube up your fingers and their hole and start playing with it. You don't stop that until they're dizzy and by the time you're done they're so loose and lubed up they take your cock like their hole was built for it. By the time you start fucking your bottom you won't them to already be on the border of cumming.
>>42093327Yes please sir
>>42093327sounds like op needs a man to do this to her
>>42092539>>42092550nta but personally it doesnt even hurt it just doesnt feel good. it just feels like needing to poop really bad>>42092601true>>42093264i guess but it hurts more and doesnt feel any different anyway
>>42093421vaginal sex actually feels really good?
>I wish I was a bottomBe the change you want to see, buddy.And besides, if you look for long enough, you'll find a service top (like me) who isn't afraid of easing into things or changing roles once in a while.
>>42093357im a boy actually lol but i still do need someone to do this to me
>>42093356>>42093357OP doesn't really get that 90% of bottoming is about psychological enjoyment. Bottoms don't bottom because of how having a cock in your ass feels, they do it because they want to feel men's weight on top of them, arms around their throat, they want to be walked on a collar and leash, humiliated, teased, degraded, they wanted to be used, played with like a toy, they want to activate breeding instinct within men. >>42093524All bottoms are girls.
>>42093438for you maybefor people like me where the prostate already doesnt make anal feel good why would vaginal feel any better
>>42093524a FEMboy..ie a type of girl>>42093569yeah that stuff is good but i promise vaginal sex produces physical enjoyment>>42093606because it's a part designed for sex and not where you poop from?
>>42093569I do want to be dominated by a man, its part of why i wish i was a bottom, but i want to experience some physical pleasure too.>All bottoms are girls.eh, i dont really care what people call me either way. Say im a girl all you want aslong as i get fucked
>>42092510I can’t speak for the top committee but I wouldn’t really want to stick it in someone who wasn’t into it so, I think for the most part most guys wouldn’t impose it on you. Maybe I’m being too naive about that assumption though
>>42093618i mean maybe if i were cis that'd be the case but they dont magically add pleasure nerves during the surgery so its the same for me
>>42093618>>42093695I am not trans and i love having a cock. I absolutely wouldnt get surgery to get rid of it
>>42093695but ask any trans girl they all say vaginal is better
>>42093658I'm not saying it's not physically enjoyable, I'm saying that no bottom would choose a fuck machine with a vibrating monster dildo over a guy with an average cock, sweaty chest and thick hairy arms.
>>42093773so no guy would want a femboy like me to top them? that kinda sucks
>>42093805There are plenty of bottom chasers out there. I personally think top femboys need to be caged and corrected.
>>42093569>every word you just typedhnnnnggggBUT in addition to all that being based and true, bottoming feels physically good when he hits that special spot just right, make no mistake
>>42093978but do tops ever actually hit that spot though? from what ive seen online, it seems like most tops are assholes who only care about their own pleasure
>>42093805Top femboys are hot, at least they can put all their weight on me without hurting me.>>42092510FWIW, bottoming is primarily defined by taking pleasure in causing your partner to feel pleasure. That's why it's associated with all the goofy (and gross) dominance / submission stuff, because that lets the bottom / submissive "offer pleasure" by letting themselves be used (by gross retards who don't see a real difference between masurbation and sex).And if you want to enjoy anal physically you basically just have to practice at it and get over / learn the hygiene aspects. Aneros sells toys specifically for that purpose but there's more than one way to do it.
>>42093978I'm not saying it doesn't feel good. My point is that if you think about sex only from the top perspective then you only think "does it mechanically feel good" and you doom yourself because 90% of what you can do to a bottom to make them squirm has nothing to do with their pussy. >>42094028Bottoms are bad at communication and perpetuate the problem by shaming tops. It's a story as old as time, bottoms don't feel satisfied but then never communicate and expect tops to inherently know what they want, then they passive aggressively shame tops for not reading their mind, in turn tops become disconnected and self-conscious and protect their egos by getting theirs and not worrying about bottoms, and since tops get their own pleasure easily they accept mediocre sex and then the cycle continues.
>>42094028Yes.>>42094056As a bottom, I can say you are wise and based. The way my fwb treats me, I am putty in his hands. I can't explain it.
>>42093765i (not op) literally am a trans girl and vaginal isnt better for me thats what im saying
>>42094131oh..i am sorry
>>42092539I did it in like 2 days.
