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>QotT
Who's your waifu/husbando?

Tagmap: https://tagmap.io/tag/%2Fbigen%2F

FAQ:
>Am I bi if I like women and femboys/traps?
>Am I bi if there's this one member of the same-sex I'm desiring, but normally I like the opposite sex?
>Am I bi if I sexually like both sexes, but only interested in romance with one of them?
Yes, sexual attraction to both sexes is bisexuality.
>Do you have presents ready for me Santa?
Santa isn't real. I'm sorry.
>What's the difference between bisexual and pansexual?
Only difference is that our flag is prettier.
>Am I bi if i have periods where I feel only attracted to women and others where I feel only attracted to men?
This is known as the bi-cycle and many bisexuals experience it.
>Am I bi or am I 'prison gay' or porn addicted?
'Prison gay' is not a real thing and porn addiction does not alter your sexual orientation. You are bi.
>Am I bi or pan if I like trans people?
Both are able to be attracted to trans people.
>I think I might be bi but I can't tell. How can I be certain?
Just make a point to check out members of the sex you think you might be attracted to and see if anyone grabs your attention.
>Should I be harsh on myself?
You should be kind on yourself. Few people will do it for you

Resource for Bisexuals:
https://biresource.org/
The Bisexual Manifesto:
https://bimanifesto.carrd.co/#manifesto
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I thought of myself as undateable for so long that when I realized I might really enjoy dating another man, I thought I might be gay for a while.
But no, I just feel like dating a woman again is an impossibility for some reason (not really relevant to the thread, only half clear to myself). Hope that'll blow over again soon.
Sounds havy but I've been having a lot of fun doing my emotional housekeeping.
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>>42092689
Thoughts on the new formula 1 world drivers champion?
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2026 is gonna be an awful fucking year i can feel it already
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https://e-hentai.org/g/2412363/fc0dd44197
Revisited an old bi doujin that was pretty good
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I hope that Dutch kid can get things sorted
I didn't know there were that many of us here
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Lowkey wish I was just either straight or gay, hate being a half-fag.
Want everyone, no one wants me.
So it goes.

(I hate the new captcha so muchhhhhh)
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>>42095524
Your chances are better though since you can date both guys and girls
Not being bi = missing out on half of the amazing people out there
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WHO has heard— of Konayama Kata
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>>42092689
>Santa isn't real. I'm sorry.
Shut your filthy mouth, heretic!
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>>42095511
im 21 but thanks lol
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>>42094505
2027 will be the year anon don't worry
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Mad how you can feel straight 95% of the time and then become overwhelmed by the thought of having a nerdy bottom bf to do lots of gay things with
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>>42097497
>cod4 being 20 years old
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>>42097494
If you're young enough for vavo you're a kid in my book
Or maybe I'm just too old now
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>>42098305
now i gotta know how old you are
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>>42099128
I'm 32
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it's actually joever i'm undateable and i think i am finally coming to terms with it. it's okay to be a perpetual loner yearning for love. it is okay to just die alone. i'll just adopt a bunch of pets...
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>>42102105
Consider this: You can’t find love in others if you can’t find love for yourself.
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>>42102292
there's nothing to love about me. i'm a retarded slob of a human. i don't think i can ever see myself as anything human.
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>>42092689
I need to bulk more and get top surgery.
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>>42099584
oh thats not old silly. old would be like 33 at least
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>>42097497
the assumption that i'm going to make it to 2027 is a bolder one than i'm currently willing to make. but ty i hope it will be. for you as well
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>>42103528
I'll try to make the best of my last half year of youth. I was in vavo back when I was 17 so maybe that's why I'm feeling particularly old
What are you planning on studying afterwards btw?
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>>42092689
oh look, it's the "literally everything is bi" thread.
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>>42102395
yeah we've all been telling you that
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>>42104067
information science. doing vavo rn so i can get the requirements for that. if i fail this year ill probably just settle for studying philosophy since i alr got the requirements for that. im honestly screwed either way tho bc of the housing situation :(
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>>42105409
Don't you just need maths and english for that? Should be easy enough
Philosophy is quite a different direction but I guess especially these days you could find some overlap
Did you need to move out? Or was it just you wanted to come out to your parents and they might kick you out? Couldn't you get student housing next year?
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>>42105823
yea im bad at maths though so we'll see ig. as for the housing thing, even student housing has a 3 year waiting list atp :/ and no i wasnt planning on coming out to my parents bc even if i were to move out id still be financially reliant on them. i just wanna be able to be myself more and i need to move out for that unfortunately
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>>42092689
i miss homuraposter
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>>42107934
need a cute boytoy twink to distract me from work.
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I'm mostly straight but I like playing with cocks. I want to find a regular, also mostly straight guy with a huge cock who wants to be edged once a week or so but it's tough to find anyone who isn't a degenerate.
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>>42109707
Unironically, craigslist used to be the best place for this.
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>>42109707
i dont have a huge cock but need a bro like you fr. shit gets stressful need someone who helps me destress once in a while.
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>>42107036
Maths was always one of my strongest ares because I didn't have to do any studying for it lol. At least you don't have a full set of classes so you can just focus on what you need
I didn't know the housing situation was that bad, but I should've guessed. An old friend of mine told me he couldn't find anything new after finishing his study so he was still in student housing for another year. I guess minister de Jong was right and the best way is to just find a rich boyfriend
Back when my brother was still "in the closet" he would just stay over at friends or his boyfriend all the time. Not ideal but it works when dealing with Dutch waiting lists
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Why do you guys fetishise each other?
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>>42111111

>>42110161
Replied in your thread
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bumo
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>>42092689
Homura did literally nothing wrong and if you think Rebellion "ruined her character" or some other fag shit like that then you're wrong and also a faggot.
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>>42114684
I don't give a shit about Madoka, but where do you think you are?
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>QotT
Probably Revy from Black Lagoon.
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>>42109707
Used to do this with a close friend, still baffled by how like it just kinda happened one day.
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>>42118250
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vg8a7YpMa24
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Merry Christmas everyone
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>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

A reminder that at 22 GMT we will choose the next 2 movies for movie night!
You can give your recommendation now by replying to this post

>what the hell is "movie night"
its a special night where bigen comes together to watch on Discord two movies chosen by the community

>when will movie night take place?
its FRIDAY at 23 gmt

>where do we watch the movies?
on the Bigen Movie and Game Night Discord server:
https://discord.gg/mJa5rcJd

>i don't usually post on bigen/never took part in movie night, can i join?
Of course, movie night is open to anyone, just remember to mute yourself during the movies, be civil and have fun!

fyi: this is the list of every movie we watched so far:
https://pastebin.com/Bc8pqK9h
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up
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>>42092689
Anyone else really into anal regardless of gender?
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>>42126505
I'd recognize that Mirandass anywhere
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>there are people who refuse to eat ass with very desirable partners
>i, who could happily eat ass for hours, go to bed alone every night
what a stack of dog shit.
>>42092689
iku kasahara is my waifu.
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>>42110161
Read the post in your picture for an explanation
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>>42110161
i feel this way towards white people.
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>>42109914
yea, kinda hypocritical of de jonge to say that since he himself made the housing situation a lot worse during his time as housing minister (see wet betaalbare huur). ur bro was lucky tho that he had a bf to stay with, i wish a rich little bottom twink would take me in :((
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>>42126505
Yes, but prep is kind of a drag.
>>42127487
>people who refuse to have their ass eaten
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>>42130308
>>42127487
My gf eats my ass but refuses to let me eat hers. Kind of a bummer, her ass is great.
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>>42131148
This is so rare, usually is the other way around
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>>42132120
She loves playing with my ass in all ways and I'm definitely not complaining about that, in fact I probably wouldn't be satisfied in a relationship without being penetrated every so often.
Just wish she was open to me eating her ass.
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>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

And we have the two winners!:

>Ishtar
>Grandma Got Run Over by A Reindeer

So see ya later at 23 GMT!
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>>42126505
the butthole is the hottest thing alive
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Every time I'm feeling straight it's because I'm horny almost exclusively for waifu
Every time I'm feeling gay though I'm a complete and utter slut
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>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

A reminder that in 1 hour Movie Night is gonna start! Here is tonight's selection:

>Ishtar
>Grandma Got Run Over by A Reindeer

>what the hell is "movie night"
Its a special night where bigen comes together to watch on Discord two movies chosen by the community

>where do we watch the movies?
On the official Bigen Movie and Game Night Discord server:
https://discord.gg/mJa5rcJd

>i don't usually post on bigen/never took part in movie night, can i join?
Of course, movie night is open to anyone, just remember to mute yourself during the movies, be civil and have fun!

fyi this is the list of every movie we watched so far:
https://pastebin.com/Bc8pqK9h
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oh boy!
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>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

Good evening !
Its finally time to start another Movie Night! Tonight selection is:

>Ishtar
>Grandma Got Run Over by A Reindeer

Here is the link of the stream, don't be shy and come join us! the film will start at 23:20 GMT

>https://discord.gg/tdtsXJ9w

>what the hell is "movie night"
its a special night where bigen comes together to watch on Discord two movies chosen by the community

>i don't usually post on bigen/never took part in movie night, can i join?
Of course, movie night is open to anyone, just remember to mute yourself during the movies, be civil and have fun!

fyi: this is the list of every movie we watched so far:
https://pastebin.com/Bc8pqK9h
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>instal a local AI to roleplay with
>I inevitably start rape-murdering women in front of their husbands again
why is that?
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>>42126505
Yes [spoiler]but only as the bottom[/spoiler]
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>>42136580
Ask the AI
>again
You may wanna ask it about that too.
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>ex who broke up with me 2 weeks ago (the homeless one, if yk yk) randomly added me last night
>literally just said merry xmas, said he was sad and i gave him a few crumbs of validation and said he's lovely and stuff
>he gave me a few heart reactions and that was it
>i go to take a piss
>tip is covered in precum
im still so in love with him and felt warm when i talked to him even though i know he probably doesn't like me and just wanted someone to talk to for a bit
im still not giving up hope
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>>42139301
I continue to pray that this is some schizo shit where he only exists in your mind, because that would be preferable to this being real
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I wish I could lose weight faster but at this rate I'll (still) be unfuckable for a whole ass year
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>>42139384
What’s your stats, target and training/dieting regime?
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>>42139384
you like me fr :(
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>>42092689
Bi, male, but broke it off with a girl I was briefly seeing. Currently seeing this dude, and he's sweet and everything, but does the difference between how you act with men and women get to anyone else? Both sexually and romantically? Like to use an example, the guy I'm dating, bought me pic related and asked me to start wearing these? Now, whatever, I'll do it, but like having another dude ask me to wear slutty underwear for him just seems like I'm going against what's expected of me if that makes sense? Can't tell if I'm being autistic or not here
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>>42141906
I'd laugh in their face if somebody told me to wear that.
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>>42142054
he's gay yeah, don't mind the jockstraps at all, any panties would be a hard no though
it's more so the idea of dressing up for a guy
it's just kind of something I would expect my ex girlfriend to do for me
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>>42142204
>it's just kind of something I would expect my ex girlfriend to do for me
Just to comment on this. Women generally have a bigger tolerance for this bc they have more clothing options, bigger wardrobes and a stronger habit of dressing up for occasions.
That makes it a smaller ask for a woman. I don't think gender roles are the crux of what you're talking about (besides maybe your gay friend imposing their ideas about gender roles between gay men on you, like the stud/bitch thing), more that you were asked with a lack of sensitivity and respect.
This is about as clear as I can make my PoV.
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>>42141906
idk other anons seem pretty harsh here
gay dude wants you to wear faggy revealing underwear it's not that deep
but yeah, know what you mean, it's just more averaged out in a gay relationship
a more sfw example would be a guy offering you his hoodie or jacket if it's cold outside
cute and all, but it's a change from a heterosexual relationship
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>>42092689
bumps
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>>42141906
I tried a romantic relationship with a guy once and this was one of my biggest problems, the dynamic where since I was the bottom, I was expected to take on the girl role in everything, and it was really difficult. It felt performative most of the time, instead of organic and comfortable. And like you said, some of it was me trying to fit into "something I would expect my girlfriend to do for me."

Like, it was exciting at first, I told myself I'd be sexually available whenever he wanted and such, really try to lean into it, but I remember the breaking point being him wanting me to give him head before we went into Costco and Walmart. I did, and the next few hours felt shameful as fuck, even if I wouldn't have thought anything of it if the roles were reversed with a girlfriend. Felt like everyone was staring and knew something had just gone on, even though it was just two guys shopping.

That was the beginning of the end, I couldn't take being the little spoon all the time or prepping to bottom all the time, I just couldn't keep it up. We broke up, got back together, broke up again, and I don't think I'll ever try actually dating another guy again, if I'm not done entirely.
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>>42142204
>it's more so the idea of dressing up for a guy
Would you dress up for a girl though?
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>>42143461
Not that anon but of course. If you go to a nice restaurant and your girlfriend asks you to wear nice clothes, of course you're going to do it if you want the relationship to last. It's generally less provocative, but it's still for them when I might dress down if I were with friends or alone.
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>>42142487
>>42142383
Thanks both, I'll take it on board
And yeah, >>42142487 this is exactly right it's more so the shift in roles that is bothering me, more than anything else
>>42143397
I get this, I will say at least with my boyfriend, we both do take on the more masculine role every now and then, so it's a bit more egalitarian. But, still, even the little things that are sweet and good still feel a little out of place. Like him hugging me from behind. I have no idea how much of this is just societal conditioning or whatever, but I just wish I could get over it.
>>42143461
I would, but the vast majority of straight women at most just want you to dress up for dinner, like >>42143553 anon said. Wearing a jockstrap just feels like the equivalent of me getting a thong from Victoria's Secret for my ex-girlfriend you know? It's a pity, because I think some of the anons here have the wrong idea about him, I'm not being bullied into doing it or anything. He's actually very sweet and kind, but I just can't get over this nagging feeling.
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>>42143735
Maybe I'm wrong (I made 3 replies before this to be clear; I think I replied, and >>42142487, and >>42143397, so 3 anons replying total), maybe I'm right. You don't come off as a reliable narrator so I choose to err on the side of caution.
>>42143397
Yeah, I was trying to present a similar perspective. Gay people have no empathy for bisexuality because they are incapable of experiencing it, they're often even more square and dysfunctional than straight monogamists.
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>>42143735
>But, still, even the little things that are sweet and good still feel a little out of place. Like him hugging me from behind. I have no idea how much of this is just societal conditioning or whatever, but I just wish I could get over it.
Yeah, stuff like this is complicated. I'm not a particularly short person, but he was about 3 inches taller than me, stronger than me, and it just made it hard to swap roles. Not that I wanted to, when we tried to swap sexually, it wasn't particularly pleasurable.
>I'm not being bullied into doing it or anything.
I get it. But acting one way most of your life and then swapping roles or doing something like that when asked is a mindfuck, whether it's out of routine or societal conditioning. Best of luck, anon. Here to talk if you have more.
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>>42144067
>Yeah, I was trying to present a similar perspective. Gay people have no empathy for bisexuality because they are incapable of experiencing it, they're often even more square and dysfunctional than straight monogamists.
Interesting thought. That guy I was seeing was trying to "convince me I was gay" (more or less his words, ultimately he thought I was actually firmly gay and wanted me to try a relationship, telling me I was just caught up in being worried about society or whatever).

He assumed if I fully immersed myself in a gay relationship, I'd adjust and come to some kind of self-realization, when really it just kind of established that I prefer being with girls.
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>>42144152
Yeah. You're too nice, what they tried to do is pull you down to their level, a.k.a. also sexually dysfunctional in relation to women.
LGBT is a hoax, LGT or LGHeteroT are comparable, B encompasses the good and healthy parts of all of them and as such is superior.
Like a world where everyone straight jumps around on their right leg, gays on their left leg, and then the gays and straights agree that bipedals are "queer" just like the gays are "queer" for not only using their right leg. It's ridiculous.

Excuse my gruff writing, I'm still processing this so I'll have a sweeter and more nuanced response later. But fundamentally the "convert a bi guy to be gay" thing is grossly perverse and basically a fetish for corruption / causing clinical levels of sexual dysfunction, like actually evil and predatory. Mistake or not, worthy of a verbal lashing.

>ultimately he thought...
I call bullshit. He already told you he tried to groom you into excluding his competition - women. Big ick faggot. I'm all for men loving men, but not when it's to the exclusion of men loving women. This is why I DNI with "doms" or "exclusive tops", I'm a big softy but I won't be imposed on.
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>>42144354
>But fundamentally the "convert a bi guy to be gay" thing is grossly perverse and basically a fetish for corruption / causing clinical levels of sexual dysfunction, like actually evil and predatory. Mistake or not, worthy of a verbal lashing.
While I don't think it was entirely poorly intentioned, I did begin to realize his interest was at least a little fetishistic, as his friends commented he basically liked "converting straight guys."

To be fair, he was my first, and things escalated to the point where I was unsure and confused for a minute. I was (and am) very closeted, and we moved from what was planned to be a once-or-twice hookup to try it out, to me inviting him over multiple times, and extending it. I was questioning - "if I enjoy sex with him so much and we're buddies with common interests, could we be more? Is this something I want?"

>This is why I DNI with "doms" or "exclusive tops"
Realistically that's all I'd want, with maybe the exception of a very feminine trans girl. Like I mentioned, had no fun trying to top or getting a blowjob.
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>>42144604
I mostly enjoy the heavy petting and kissing and such... I've had blowjobs which didn't do much for me, topping was fun but that was with someone I had great chemistry with. Never bottomed though I did get pegged once which was fun.
I don't like weird power dynamics is all, but yes I've learned to enjoy a few different things which makes that easier circumstantially.
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>>42095735
trvke, when I was little I instantly knew I was bi when I learn abt it cuz, "why should there be the barrier of gender?" Shakespearen and based
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>>42092689
No longer a virgin, sex is pretty great
But why the hell can't I cum?
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is choosing to be gay a form of escapism?
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>>42147721
for me choosing to be "straight" was 100% avoiding confrontation
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>>42102395
you need to spread your legs for me, foid
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>>42147721
I'm the anon who was dating someone, but it's not "choosing to be gay," as much as it is seeing what you like more. Bottom gay sex for me is less exhausting than top straight sex, but it's more advance work, feels completely different, and I react differently.

That said, I'm probably just lazy.
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>>42092689
Drove home from my fwb's house this morning, took a nap, and when I woke up I burped and tasted pussy
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>>42147133
Anxiety?
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I'm bisexual and polyamorous.
But "the poly community" is supremely cringe, and a swamp full of degeneracy, corpses and toxic fumes. Feels like I have to "live in the future" - relative to general society - to live at all.
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>>42092689
Is Homura bisexual?
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>>42150049
That's what I thought the first time but I was a lot more relaxed the second time we met up, and same issue
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>>42153335
I had this even when dating a girl for months. Couldn't eat much either or poop at all every weekend we met up
Anxiety goes deep
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>>42147133
Same issue. It takes a lot for me to cum. My partners love it, but I end up exhausted with no orgasm to show for it. I blame latent catholic fear and my inability to put my guard down.
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>>42153335
What >>42154050 said. Anxiety can go deep. But it can also be a myriad of other things. Some personal favorites of mine:
>trying not to cum too soon, then can’t cum at all
>too exhausted
>too tired
>too many distracting thoughts
>not enough/too much stimulation
>thinking she’s not into it
>bi-cycle hitting (mid-thrust)
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Trve bisexuals (as in, NOT merely perverted heterosexuals), do you appreciate the beauty of male and female feet differently? I've been contemplating this a lot recently. Like beyond just the physical differences, there is something spiritually different which I find difficult to articulate, but you feel it too don't you?
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>>42092689
bumps
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>>42153049
Either that or full lesbian
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>>42126505
Me yes, as the dom
but they still have to be cuter than me
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>>42160540
it's cold outside
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straight male seeking gay male wife for discreet marriage
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I was so horny and I wanted to have sex so much but my bf ruined everything. As a bisexual woman how do I cope with men being so bad at sex?
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>>42162044
I am reliably informed that I'm great at sex, sounds like your bf has a skill issue or you're just a bitch and incorrect about the situation
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>>42162044
What specifically was he bad at?
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>>42162184
His cock goes limp and he's a lazy fuck who complains about having to use his finger/tongue
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>>42162274
nta but wtf i'm sorry nona that sounds terrible. i can sympathize with ed stuff but not wanting to put in any effort with oral or anything else is wack.
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>>42162284
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>>42162274
Sorry to hear that. Set aside the ED issue, there’s really no excuse for being a lazy lover, in my book. As with most things in life: you get out what you’re willing to put in. Goes for both partners though.
>complains about having to use finger or tongue
Could be that he feels inadequate for having to resort to this to satisfy you? Might be worth doing some work on that.

As for ED, might be head issues but also might just be fitness. If the latter, put him on a cardio regime. It’ll be good for him.
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>>42162044
>>42162274
Unironically break up. ED is one thing but if he can't even help you get off, he won't get any better in bed. You have to find a partner who gives a shit.
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>>42162044
I want a wife who's bisexual and will have girlfriend, ideally the wife of a friend.
An arrangement like this should help, no? Like I'll never a 100% female cameradery while male so it'd be cruel to block my wife off from that on an intimate level.
>>42162274
Oh it's a more basic issue, he's demoralized (/ depressed) and/or stuck on some overly constrained narrow idea like "I have to act like this to be manly in bed", like thinking there could be a ritual or a method to intimacy. Like actual very much "him" issues that you may exacerbate here and there, but that he has to solve and be aware of for there to be hope of a solution. He probably needs male friends to become aware of it, I don't think a woman can explain how to be a more functional man to a man.
Sorry to hear that, they compound though. Also it is unnatural for the majority of men to only ever be intimate with 1 person, that messes them up. I've been like your guy and it brought that relationship to its end.
It's all so brutal lol.
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>>42163893
>An arrangement like this should help, no?
Not her, but no. I'm bi, gf is bi, we've discussed having same-sex partners on the side for fun. But we absolutely wouldn't do that if our base relationship was not sexually satisfying. Having a partner who cares about getting her off would only grow the resentment that she has towards her boyfriend.
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>>42164128
>That's the point I disagree with, I think there's a real qualitative difference and the potential benefit is more than just "more fun" or "enjoyment".
I mean we both have close friends of both genders and a strong relationship with each other, so for us it would just be for fun. But regardless of reason, adding others when your fundamental relationship is unsatisfying will only make your fundamental relationship worse.
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My partner is a pan enby and I'm a mostly gay bisexual man
Basically Im attracted to their masculinity but can appreciate their fem side
They called me this morning and basically said they really wanted to go to a sapphic night at a local gay bar alone and that's kinda troubling news to me. It sounds to me like that event is basically a singles night so everyone there is going in with the idea that everyone else is looking to hook up and that makes me pretty uncomfortable
They told me they want more female friends and he wants to explore his feminine side more but it still bothers me that they want to go alone and they want to go to an event like that to find friends
I should have that conversation with them but them telling me all that has put a damper on my morning
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>Finally download grindr
>Meet up with my first femboy
>He dressed up for me.
>Feel a deep need to treat him right.
>He whispers the name of one of my fave fictional characters when I bottom out inside him
>Lean into it despite it being a bottom character.
I think it fixed me. Keep fighting, frens. You can win.
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>>42110161
my wife and i are weird sex perverts, that's all. we're seeing an inexperienced 20 year old femboy. my wife gets wet when i'm fucking him, and i get rock hard when he's fucking her.
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I wonder if my date is standing me up or if he's genuinely a bit disorganized. It'd be a shame to lose him because he was really fun to be with and a great kisser *and* fun to cuddle with. I could even get a bit of real rest in his bed after.
His house was pretty neat? idk. I just don't want to self-sabotage.
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I kinda hate being queer sometimes
I'm in a very loving relationship with my current bf and have been for about 2.5 years now but our sexual interests are just way different and I'm just finding it out
He wants tag teamed, used in a group setting, sex parties, etc.
I think he was hiding it for my sake but recently he's talked more and more about it
I just want a loving monogamous relationship where if we try anything kinky, it's together and just us. I just really have no interest in the really promiscuous side of the gay community
The issue is I still love him more than anything in my life. He's my everything and I'd hate to lose him over not being able to stand a 3sum
But I've been having thoughts lately like maybe it would be better for both of us if I just broke things off and let him go have that fun that he seems to really want to have while I try to find a partner who's not just willing to have that simple life, but actually wants it
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>friend tells me about how cool this guy is
>decide to message the guy and try being friends with him
>week later I'm checking my phone each time it vibrates to see if they messaged me back
The hells wrong with me
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>>42167023
crush outpacing body awareness & homosexualism
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>>42166013
Reading back our texts I think he thinks it's a different day of the week than it actually is.
I sextuple texted so it may be over for me, man... why did I have to crush so hard, I just want more kisses.
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>gaycels hate bi men
>lesbcels hate bi women
>straight women hate bi men
We are the niggers of the queer world, aren't we?
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>>42168620
Most powerful sexuality, most responsibility to be kind and compassionate to those who can't do as much as we can.
Noblesse oblige!
(We're the Jews of sexuality, and a persecution complex isn't befitting of us. Neither is explaining hate for bisexuals away as though we'd have no part in it and our own very much related responsibilities.)
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>>42168620
Straight women are actually just homophobic but are only confronted with it when they deal with bi men because they can't compartmentalize us as amusing eunuchs.
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>>42165931
incredibly hot. can you describe the 3 of you so i can picture this better?
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>>42168620
Nah we're more like what people think of the freemasons of the world, we operate secretly amongst everyone.
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>>42092689
>bi woman = will 99% end up with a guy
>bi man = 99% will end up with a guy
Why is this 100% the truth?
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>>42174670
First is true, second is false. Vast majority of bi people end up with opposite sex partners.
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>>42174670
why are you just doing low quality bait?
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>>42174670
why would i waste my life on a some (fellow) faggot when the women are more beautiful, sensual, sensible, responsible, loyal and overall much better? i'm bi as hell but i want a real family with someone who can bear children and live like a normal man, with a guy i will always be a social pariah in a suboptimal relationship. it's easier to date women and most gays are not date-worthy material, neither they are available emotionally. so no, most bisexuals end up in a heterosexual relationship for reasons above because they know in the end of the day heterosexuality is easier and better and can produce more at least for the fact that society is cishet and will be that way.
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>>42175051
>reading comprehension award.jxl
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>>42175051
I can understand this viewpoint
I'm in a gay relationship and I sometimes have the thought of maybe it would be easier for me to not have to deal with faggotry
I love my bf dearly though so I make it work despite knowing that a hetero relationship would be overall easier for me socially
Also women kinda scare me
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>>42168620
Yes.
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Dead general.
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I slept with a gay guy, had the best sex in 7 years if not my life, ended up crushing on him hard, planned a date and he stood me up. He was a great kisser too.
I don't even know how to feel, I felt so nourished by the intimacy with him I can hardly be mad? But who's going to eat the snacks and drink the wine I got for the date now? (Me.)
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There's no bi bar is there?
Rather than go the app route once more, is there a "BiDar"? Or how do I find love among my equals?
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>>42180701
Just go to a regular straight bar.
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Is it true that most women lose interest in a guy if he has had a gay experience? I kinda want to experiment but it feels like a steep price lol
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>>42182847
A lot do unfortunately
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>>42182887
Rip. I didn’t realize it was that big a deal. I have only been in one lone term straight relationship before, but they were somewhat asexual so I feel kinda repressed lol. I know I want to marry a women one day so it might not be worth the risk for me then…
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>>42183009
bi4bi, friendo
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>>42183092
I haven’t heard about that one before. I would much prefer to end up with someone who matches my freak. I am just a little wary to cull my dating prospects haha. I guess I will probably wait a few days since my desire to try a hookup seems to come and go. I just want to try butt stuff lol
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>>42183217
If you're not in a relationship with someone who's also bi, your SO doesn't understand your sexuality. Relationships are ideally founded on mutual trust and understanding, so bi4bi is the obvious sensible choice.
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>>42183217
you only live once. go experience the butt stuff you want to anon!
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>>42183283
I see your point, but I am okay being with someone 100% straight. I do think it is important to be sexually compatible though. Having mismatched libidos can create some resentment in my experience. Although, that wasn’t the reason the relationship I had ended

>>42183292
Yeah, it is on my bucket list. Honestly, I would be fine finding a women who was into it and settling down but I think those are rare. It seems much easier to find a guy willing to try it and get it over with lol.
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>>42182847
I get where you’re coming from. You don’t have to share everything with a potential partner upfront though. You can if you want and mutual trust and openness is a necessary and healthy thing in a relationship. but it’s not like they have a right to know every little detail about your life.
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>>42183410
Yeah, that is a good point. I just know that I would share it with the person I am with in the future and I worried about it hurting the relationship. I probably would share it on the first date though haha
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>>42183456
It’s certainly the healthy thing to do long term. Keeping it a secret… it can eat you up inside. Maybe I’m too much of a boomer, but I could never share something like that on a first date. Like, I can barely contain enough crazy as is
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>>42183999
Oh I meant to say wouldn’t… yeah no I would not share it on the first date
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>>42183009
>lone term relationship
kek, Freudian slip.
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>>42184242
Kek.
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>>42183092
Bi women also think it's gross when men take penis up the butt
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>>42185925
Aren’t there women into pegging? Or is that a myth
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>>42185925
They don't in my experience
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/tv/ here any other bisexual kino i should be aware of?
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>>42188861
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Reminder.
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>>42189147
i said /tv/, not /a/
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>>42189167
cis hetero women really showing their asses
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>>42189158
damn, bisexuals are BASED
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>>42189295
meanwhile i'm "transphobic" because i think 100 gecs sucks
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>>42188861
Cabaret
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>>42189158
I have come to learn that I basically only like trans men or very masculine women, which is a bit of a weird spot to be in as a cis guy
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Happy New Year biGODS!!!!!!
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I'm tired of seeing cisgender bisexual women slander.
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>>42192560
me too honestly
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>>42194549
Me (on the right) and who?
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>>42195693
Uhm, me if you're nice.
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>>42195707
I am always very nice after I finish, and cuddly
I've been told it's almost like I'm a different person
Wanna take this to the hornygen?
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>>42195771
Oh hell no. You'll have to find someone of your own kind.
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>>42196138
my own kind? what's that supposed to mean I thought I was among my own kind
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>>42196218
I'm bisexual, I don't have time for cringe BDSM queer stuff.
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>>42196330
ok, I just thought it'd be bad taste to flirt in front of the rest of this gen
wanna take this to discord?
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>>42196357
No, obviously.
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>have to lose all the fat I gained over the holidays
It's always like this
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>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

The poll is now open, no further recommendations will be accepted.
The voting will stop tomorrow at around 5 PM GMT, so be sure to vote before then!

Here is the link to the server:
https://discord.gg/R2NNBsv3
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>>42092689
>QotT
Who's your waifu/husbando?

Wako....
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I think it's cute how many bisexual otaku have bisexual waifus/husbandos.
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page 10 bump
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>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

Kpop demon hunters wins the first round, vote NOW in the 1h30 minutes FLASH ROUND to decide the second movie of the night!

>https://discord.gg/R2NNBsv3
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>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

And after a FLASH ROUND we have the two winners!

>Kpop Demon Hunter
>Trainspotting

So see ya later at 23 GMT!
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Kpop Demon Hunter & Kingdom of Heaven actually I misread
rip trainspotting
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>>42092689
I need him I need him I need him
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whoops forgot pic but I am claiming him as my husbando now
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>>42208910
I miss her...
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>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

A reminder that in 1 hour Movie Night is gonna start! Here is tonight's selection:

>Kpop Demon Hunter
>Kingom of Heaven

>what the hell is "movie night"
Its a special night where bigen comes together to watch on Discord two movies chosen by the community

>where do we watch the movies?
On the official Bigen Movie and Game Night Discord server:
https://discord.gg/R2NNBsv3

>i don't usually post on bigen/never took part in movie night, can i join?
Of course, movie night is open to anyone, just remember to mute yourself during the movies, be civil and have fun!

fyi this is the list of every movie we watched so far:
https://pastebin.com/Bc8pqK9h
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the typos don't talk about the typos
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>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

Good evening !
Its finally time to start another Movie Night! Tonight selection is:

>Kpop Demon Hunters
>Kingdom of Heaven

Here is the link of the stream, don't be shy and come join us! the film will start at 23:10 GMT

>https://discord.gg/R2NNBsv3

>what the hell is "movie night"
its a special night where bigen comes together to watch on Discord two movies chosen by the community

>i don't usually post on bigen/never took part in movie night, can i join?
Of course, movie night is open to anyone, just remember to mute yourself during the movies, be civil and have fun!

fyi: this is the list of every movie we watched so far:
https://pastebin.com/Bc8pqK9h
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bump for femboys
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For me, it's twunk link
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>>42212094
Ngl vidya twinks hit right when I had my bisexual awakening and ruined me
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Morocco is now in the public domain.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=es5yyczpamg
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>>42213519
cute
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>>42212151
Same. Also, the femboy, twink, twunk pipeline is real.
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>>42214091
Discovering trannies and twinks right when I really started getting into lifting was like the second plane hitting my sexuality.
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>>42214122
>getting into lifting
I partially blame >>>/fit/ That board is like tossing kerosene on a bonfire if you’re bi and haven’t figured yourself out yet.
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>>42214321
I don't even browse fit. Lifting just gave me a mighty lust for bottoms.
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>>42214472
If only it were just bottoms *sigh*
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>>42215033
Haaaaa I wasn't gonna post itt but that's where things start to REALLY get good, and atp I wouldn't bottom for someone I wouldn't top and vice versa.
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Damn, this general has really changed since I was last here. It used to be a bunch of virgins chatting about random shit mostly unrelated to bisexuality. Now it's a bunch of sex-havers asking for dating advice (and getting no replies). Are any of the old namefags even still about?
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Want a girl to rub mine and another guys cocks together until we both cum
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>>42216404
Ngl, I think it's still mostly virgins chatting here, the topics have just become hornier.
The people that do need to fuck off are the ones that do the whole "woe is me" thing but then refuse to change literally anything about themselves.
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nobody else in here wants to fuck 2hollis? hard to find other guys with my tastes. I also want to fucked younger marilyn manson, and gerard way,
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>>42216866
>The people that do need to fuck off are the ones that do the whole "woe is me" thing but then refuse to change literally anything about themselves.
4chan as a whole would be better without this type
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Online it seems like people cluster into two extremes in their attraction: Desire for flawless unrealistically attractive people, and "body positive" people who basically have no standards whatsoever.
I guess it makes sense that people with normal attractions wouldn't really have much to say about it online, but I think both positions are weird.
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>>42216961
2Hollis is my type in men and it's actually pretty fucking awful because I can't find a guy who comes even close
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>>42216404
I'm still around but I barely post because I'm off being a sex-haver
Plus, the new captcha sucks
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>>42193598
Hihi that's me
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>>42222222
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up
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>>42219472
I just want to fuck and cuddle someone cuter than me
Doesn't have to be flawless
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Vampires are bi-coded
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>>42226809
I mean that makes sense, assuming that you offer something back for them.
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>>42227016
Indeed.
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>>42227016
Lame cope.
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How true is it that straight girls don’t see bi men as real dating prospects? I love bussy but I love pussy way more and don’t wanna give that up because girls think I’m a bitch.
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>>42231596
Also I fuck bussy but wouldn’t in a million years take dick. Just totally not my thing even after forcing myself to try and like it. Does that make a difference?
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What options are there for (safe) discreet hookups these days? I can't put my face on Grindr or any dating apps without outing myself. I don't want to date though, would just be interested in either a one-off or semi-regular situation.

Cruising the gay bars also isn't an option. I live in a pretty big city but it's "small" in the sense that everyone seems to know someone. I have a pretty wide social net.

I'm also not picky really, I'd happily hook up with an older guy who was out of shape as long as they were clean and wouldn't murder me.
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>>42231596
Basically never tell a cis woman you're bi
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>>42231596
>>42231632
Honestly you'd slightly be better off with the idea that you're a top, but it's still a problem for most women I know. Just a bad double standard. I'm sure you'd be able to find someone who finds it really hot, but they're probably a stinky fujo.

There's a real bi stigma either way... with people assuming you can't be monogamous and bisexual. Which honestly has a bit of a truth to the stereotype. I've dated four bi women, and two of them I had to have a semi-open relationship with because they needed to scratch that itch of being with a girl from time to time.
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>>42168620
Bigods literally built and ruled empires and civilizations throughout all of history. We are the ultimate high IQ chads.
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>>42147721
I think of gay sex as a side quest before marrying a woman. I like guys but there really is nothing like pussy imo
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>>42231740
>>42231741
Damn that kinda sucks that I sorta have to be in the closet with that stuff. I’ve always been really open about my sexuality to everyone, my family, friends, etc. Feel like if fully gay people were treated that way it’d be considered homophobia.
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>>42231683
You don't have to put your face on grindr. I'm openly bi and I don't put my face on it because there's too many pushy stalker-types. Just do a shirtless pic from the neck down from whatever angles are relevant. Exchange face pics sparingly or maybe even meet people who don't wanna swap face pics (it's possible!)

You could also try doublelist or sniffies with a similar approach.
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>>42092689

I'm going to die alone, something about me is deeply unlikable, but no one tells me what it is, no one tells me what I'm missing, they just don't care, no one fucking cares.

If I die no one will remember, if I die no one will be sad.

Why was I so naive as to think everything would go alright?
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>>42094493
An absolute cutie pie and my husbando. Also gives off bi vibes himself, which makes him even hotter.
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>>42227885
above average dick
I can cook pretty well
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>>42221743
you finally found a twink to pound you?
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page 9 bump
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>>42233901
Same. I am only wanted online so...
Better to just avert eyes from reality.
>>42216404
I use other parts of the site more. Plus I'm still trying to bring my weight down and I've been spending more time working out in my apartment.
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>>42240279
>>42216404
I think 4chan is dead-er in general. I only go on this thread and some threads on >>>/vg/ and they're all slower than a year or two ago.
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>>42240355
I need an internet cleanser for my nental health and beef brain.
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>>42231749
>Achilles and Alexander the Great checking in
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page 9 bump
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>>42245327
No one knows this but I not so secretly hate lee and levi pants. They are paper.
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Hello, Homura is a dyke and not a bislut. Please don't appropriate her when making your threads
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>>42092689
How do you think Kyubey's dick feels like?
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>>42216404
most of the most active members have moved over to discord, which has also been happening to 4chan in general. People are sick of this archaic site and its issues

>>42247427
im sure the most mass produced brands have the biggest quality issues
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>>42248410
Aside from movie night, what can one do to become more active in the discord?
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>>42237219
Twink bf acquired, but we need to work up to the pounding part
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>>42249707
great job, bigen is proud of you
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>>42092689
>Yes, sexual attraction to both sexes is bisexuality.

The fact that my sexual desire is directed primarily at one specific person doesn’t prove shit about me.

Bisexuality is a contingent social category invented in Western modernity, there’s nothing innate or universal about it. There is no “bisexual metaphysical essence.”

This is just a socially conditioned aberration that has sexually damaged me. This is the result of being raised online during the 2010s when LGBT visibility was aggressively astroturfed by bourgeois Angloid Zionist degenerates. I took the bait.

In reality I feel absolute disgust for it, just like just like how a straight man feels when he sees two men kissing. My body is telling me this is wrong. The arousal is mental illness induced via the internet to demoralize me, not authentic desire (yes I unironically believe this).

in real life, the idea of actual sex with anyone terrifies me, disgusts me, and shuts me down completely. If I’m not aroused by genitalia and I always back out when it gets real, I’m functionally asexual.

So I’m not a promiscuous degenerate, which is a prerequisite for a true homosexual male.

>>42155725

Oh look you found the most androgynous picture you could find. Nice fucking try. There is nothing “spiritually different” about male and female feet.
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>>42251602
my brother, you have psychosis
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>>42248608
the discord has a text board, just post there
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>>42231749
This is called anachronism
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>>42251616
I am correct
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>>42251602
This is either a genuine schizopost or you are at the bottom of the Mariana Trench level deep in denial. Either way, entertaining read.
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>>42251750
I’m correct. A schizophrenic out for a walk is a better model than a neurotic lying on the analyst's couch.
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>>42252138
A regular, sane person easily beats both of those lmao
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Is it weird if i'm top only? I'd never wanna bottom but I find it really hot to dom any gender. Didn't think I was bi for a long time cause I never wanted to get fucked but I love TO FUCK
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>>42252542
That's fine. And much appreciated by bi bottoms!
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>>42252542
Anecdotally it seems there are more gay/bi males who are bottoms than tops. As a certified penis owner myself I don't understand how one can not want to use said penis to fuck with, but I'm not complaining
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Honestly if my discord DMs are anything to go by I'm forced to top forever. Why so many picked to send me messages about needing cock on newyears around the same time is different though. Still they made that meme of someone checking their phone and just one person wants to fight me in the streets.
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>>42254876
Discord is full of bottoms so it makes sense.
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hey am i porn roted if i like to be really rough with my partner? (ass slapping, pining, pulling hair biting...) NO CHOKING. I thought I was just a normal dom dude but i've been reading more and more about how porn rots the brain and ruins people like me and i'm worried i'm fucked up. I don't wanna be abusive ever, I just like being rough and being with partners who like that too
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>>42255178
No. It's possible to get addicted to porn (or much of anything, chocolate, TV, 4chan, facebook, etc.) but people overreact and anything beyond the most vanilla-est vanilla suddenly gets called porn addicted.

Some examples you may actually be porn addicted:
>needing to watch porn to be aroused
>not being able to stop thinking about porn when you fuck
>being upset that women in your life don't look like pornstars
>missing out on obligations in your life due to porn
Note that most of these could apply to instagram or twitch or whatever as well
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>>42255311
ok, none of these are me at all (i'm working on cutting down screen time in general and have been very sucsessfull) I just didn't even think it was that weird or shameful till I looked o reddit. Somehow reddit is more toxic than 4chan? Weird timeline. Whenever someone flirts with me I get rock hard (every morning too) I guess i'm just super horny? It can be audio or text stuff that gets me off too so according to you i'm fine? I just haven't fucked in a long time and I gues i'm nervous lol
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>>42255429
Reddit and 4chan can both be toxic in many ways and lots of people are ashamed of sex for whatever reason. Seems like you're taking a healthy path.
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>>42255178
I don't think so
I assume your partners were into this as well, maybe the encouraged you to be kinda rough with them, were obviously more affectionate with you when you were rough with them?
That's not porn brain that's just you and your lovers discovering a little more about yourselves
Just try not to get in over your head and stop worrying so much about the porn brainrot thing, a bit of slapping and hair pulling is by no means the worst thing in the world today
Try choking, most subs who like getting slapped will probably like it, the trick is to put the pressure on the sides of the neck and not directly on the windpipe, hard enough for them to feel it but not hard enough to hurt them
do it right and you'll slightly restrict their blood flow, giving them a nice lightheaded feeling while you do whatever else it is you're doing
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>>42255464
NO CHOKING. Not worth the risks. That's a hard no from me. You're right that everything has been consensual and loving but choking is a hard never go there for me
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>>42254910
And all of the ones that want me aren't even close.
I am forever single, it's whatever.
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Hi straight(?) (who am I kidding i'm probably bi) dom late 20s dude here. I checked reddit to find women who like rough sex too (I find it cute and it makes me horny) and then I found this post saying they'd dump their partner if they were called names, some even threaten to call the cops, and then claiming that people who like it are working through trauma. I didn't even think I was fucked up till they told me I was. Am I really so corrupted for wanting to slap my partners ass and call them a slut? (I mean it in a good way!) My past partners I've had a great time with and we just read the room and it was all great but now i'm mid panic attack thinking i'm some kinda monster and I feel disgusting!

I'd never use those words outside of a consensual sexy way or flirting either, I've loved and respected all my partners and they knew that! I just thought I was a normal horny dominant guy who was able to separate his love and respect of the people he was with from the act itself. I really didn't think I had a problem till they said I did. I feel gross
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I mean to make iyt it's own thread but whatever i'm being a dumbass. Sorry for spamming the thread just really in a shit headpsace rn
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>>42255839
Are you the same as >>42255178
Why would you listen to crazies on reddit? Or crazies on 4chan for that matter? Just do what you like with other people who like it too.
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>>42255892
yeah, same guy. And it's just anxiety acting up idk. Panic attacks just happen
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>>42255839
don't give your dick to crazy women on reddit
problem solved
in the spirit of bigen, don't dick down anyone who browses too much reddit, no matter how cute and subby they are
redditors don't deserve it
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>got the femboy I've been talking to on discord to give me thigh pics
he's actually perfect /bigen/, he has the cutest, sexiest, most fuckable thighs I've ever seen in my dms
As long as things keep going will with this qt I'm gonna keep coming back to brag about it
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>>42255178
Idk about porn but that stuff is tasteless to me.
KFC date tier. Gross.
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>>42254876
My friend who was supposedly just a bottom suddenly got real interested in pegging me as soon as my toys came up in conversation, so don't jump to conclusions
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>>42257791
lets see
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>am straight
>match with Argentinian femboy on tinder
>fuck it
>he’s tiny and pretty
>he wears high heels and make up when I fuck him
>regret it
>fuck him again and regret it for
>repeat for weeks
>start dating
>addicted to jerking off together
I want kids and a wife wtf am I doing
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>>42261150
Its ok one day you'll wake up with with enough post-nut clarity to drop that bitch and marry a uglier cis woman, many such cases.
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>>42255839
Thanks, mane, I mean that

>>42255839
>some people have opinions, this means that those opinions are actually facts!

Did you go to a random subreddit or to a reddit that was about rough sex or BDSM? If you went to a "normie" subreddit, no shit a bunch of pearlclutchers are going to voice their opinion because they always do when sex is the topic.

Also, if you were already finding partners to do this with consensually before, what's the problem? And sure, some subs into degradation are working through trauma, that's why you have to talk to your sub and not just jump into these kinds of things all willy nilly. Any serious person into BDSM will tell you that.

Note that I'm one of those people who hates rough sex and wouldn't date anyone who needed to call me a whore or slut or whatever, and I get pretty frustrated with how many people seem to act as if rough/degrading kinks are the only ones that exist. Like, I just want to get bred, have group sex and maybe have sex outdoors, sheesh.

But yeah, just go to a subreddit for rough sex or BDSM, and you'll get your mojo back.
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>>42261150
>am straight
>describe the gayest shit ever

Boooo, get new material!
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Anxiety anon back. Holy shit I guess I really am Bi. I was just out in town and I saw the buff dude and without even being concious about it I thought to myself “he’s really cute”

Idk what tf I’m gonna do. I can never come out, I’m straight passsing 100% and guess I’ll just stick to bi women. My grandma is incredibly queerphobic but she loves me to death and I have an inheritance of millions coming my way if I don’t fuck that up. Coming out will 100% fuck that up. I’m just gonna have to bury this deep inside till she dies. Gonna get a stiff drink
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>>42261557
Thanks anon <3
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I’ll keep getting ripped and drinking at queer bars and maybe my problems will magically go away
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>>42155725
Yes, and I greatly prefer female feet even if I'm basically a 50/50 bisexual. I think it's a spiritual thing too, if you put a women's feet on a man I'd probably not enjoy it as much as those same feet on a woman. I don't know why that is.

Though, androgynous women's feet > everything else
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I'm about to get into a relationship with a woman but I'm very much in the gay phase of the bi-cycle. I feel an urge to present more openly homosexual and more of a desire to sleep with men than women right now. What do? Just wait these feelings out?
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>>42263756
It's a queer idea to me that a relationship with one sex should close you off from love from the other.
Smells of straightoid or gay normie thinking.

Idk about your exact bipolarity issue, personally I'm getting away from ideas like "I have two buckets of love to give, one for each sex / gender", objectifying and then reinforcing those a not da wae to deal with notions of dysfunction (imbalance, bipolarity, being stuck in a cycle is not proper function; "I am this dysfunction"). You have to clean that stuff up, recategorize etc. and work through it emotionally, not just externalize it to keep yourself from thinking about it.
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>>42259770
I wish. Usually when I talk to them and they aren't drinking or down they are still bottoms even in more normal situations.
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>>42263756
I'm in a multi-year relationship with a woman and will likely get married this year. I've been in a gayer mood lately. It will happen eventually and it's not like you're going to break up. So go for it now if it's an important relationship to you, since you'll have to deal with it anyway.
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>>42092689
i want to stroke a pretty girls hair while being a pretty girl too and dress up in matching cute outfits and be tenderly loved and kissed by her and just be cute together, but im worried about licking smelly pussy.... :( it will definitely be smelly at some point...
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He’s taken but God damn
I love the gym
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>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

A reminder that tomorrow at 22 GMT we will vote for the next two movies for Movie Night! If you want you can also give your recommendation by replying to this post

>what the hell is "movie night"
its a special night where bigen comes together to watch on Discord two movies chosen by the community

>when will movie night take place?
its FRIDAY at 23 gmt

>where do we watch the movies?
on the Bigen Movie and Game Night Discord server:
https://discord.gg/R2NNBsv3

>i don't usually post on bigen/never took part in movie night, can i join?
Of course, movie night is open to anyone, just remember to mute yourself during the movies, be civil and have fun!

fyi: this is the list of every movie we watched so far:
https://pastebin.com/Bc8pqK9h
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>>42259881
I don't post publicly the lewds that are sent to me
I prefer to keep them stashed away, like trophies you only show off to the friends you invite over to drink and play cards with
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Looking for some advice. Ive been in a gay relationship for a while, but i think we are both wanting to try a girl. We have been together for a while so we never tried a girl when we were in our teens. I never really like the idea of being poly, but i dont really think i would want sex with someone i didnt care for. We have space in our house that we could say we are renting out to a girl if anyone asked. Am i being retarded?
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>>42270856
You can be polyam and reject "the poly community" just fine.
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>>42271114
Idk how i would even find a girl that fits the vibe though. Its such a weird thing to me
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page 10 bump
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>>42273314
Page 6 7
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>>42274299
Uma
Musuma but instead horse boys
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>>42270856
>>42271225
Some arguments in favor of you doing this:
1. Would be awesome for any girl who wants two boyfriends
2. Would be awesome for you two
3. I think the biggest logistical and relationship problem with throuples is an M+F couple adding a new M or F, there's always a conflict between the roles of the new M/F vs old M/F, but you've already resolved this by being an M+M couple, so you already know your roles. The woman will be in a different position and that's fine (the same would be fine for an F+F couple adding an M)
4. The poly community is full of dramatic people who hate closed throuples, so you're basically not poly.
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>>42274764
These are good points, however currently my bf kinda takes the role of the women in most things. Might be hard to explain to family but i could probably get away without telling them. Its also kinda weird to me because im typically a possessive person and dont know if i could handle something like that.
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One Piece & Jojo are both made by bisexual men
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>>42275849
and i wanna fuck all characters in them (minus the minors)



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