so i ghosted my parents and have essentially been hiding from them since i got FFS and transitioned. Tonight they showed up outside my apartment saying they want to see me im so fucking scared. I unironically had a nightmare last night that they were looking around my neighboorhood for me. i was closeted to them, and its a recurring nightmare of mine, them seeing me fully transitioned.
>>42093272this happened to me too when they found out i had my penis snipped off..they were really mad
>>42093272i want to do the same but thankfully i doubt my parents would bother contacting me
>>42093272it's a matter of time before you have to confront the problem in some way or form.
>>42093272Call the cops maybe?
>>42094090nope. i mean ideally never, but i don’t wanna deal with it now. i’ll keep kicking the can down the road. it’d genuinely be seriously psychologically damaging for me to be out to them.>>42094118they agreed to leave. also i kinda don’t wanna escalate things
>>42093272would they recognize you if they saw you?
Come home we love you son
>>42093272are they transphobic? do they know you're trans?
>>42094703yes, no>>42094634i mean i do look very different after ffs. probably but it’d be really shocking to them.
>>42093272Is it really that bad to come out?Would it be better to come out by the phone?
>>42094717>i mean i do look very different after ffs. probably but it’d be really shocking to them.would they recognize you in makeup and a dress? you could even dye your hair
>>42093272Why didnt you take part in Project Coming Out? Destruction of the nuclear family requires you do this.
>>42093272Unironically your faultYou should have gotten them involved during your transition. If they were hurling bibble verses and Tucker Carlson quotes at you fine ghost them. But this sounds like you just ran away for no reason other than shame
>>42094864>But this sounds like you just ran away for no reason other than shameyeah kinda. but coming out to them would have only really been an obstacle in my way.
>>42093272anon, you did move address and take steps to make sure they dont know where you live, right?>>42094864>harassment is your faultlol fuck off. heterosexual entitlement has no justification.
>>42095400i did, but i wasn’t thorough enough and didn’t change my name. they found out where i live via publicly available information on the internet
>>42095672always always always be thorough, anon. youre gonna have to move again now, and change every single detail about you at the exact same time to make sure theres no path of discovery.
