I have this fear that someone is giving subtle signs they do not want to have sex and that afterwards I will be a rapist. No means no and I wouldn't ever try after the first no, wouldn't pressure somebody, wouldn't try to get with someone drunk etc. However I am socially stunted and don't read people like at all so I think it's inevitable someone's body language will say no even though they said yes and then afterwards I go to prison. During sex I feel like a cold blooded terminator, not in a cool way I'm just autistic One time I had a girlfriend and we were in bed watching stuff. I put her hand on my crotch and started groping her boob and she told me she didn't feel like it. I was like "oh my bad" and stopped and then she started apologizing like 5 times. My heart started racing and it felt like she was trying to convert me into a rapist pressuring her even though I was cool with not having sex and was trying to show I didn't mind.
>>42099833Trannies are men and like rape
>>42099833I mean, I lost my virginity after a guy kept repeatedly asking for sex while we were cuddling even though I told him I probably shouldn't do it. I don't think that was rape.
>>42100190some wouls consider it rape, you could have gotten him charged for it
>>42099833you know you can ask during sex as well right? just say sth like "you like it?" and if they say yes then everything is coolio
>>42100300the last time i tried this she said it ruined the mood and then ghosted me so now i just go for it
>>42100254It sounds really disingenuous to do that to him, though. This is the same thing people complain about with the whole "she decided she didn't like it after so she called it rape the next day"
>>42100680well then thats her problem. but also it depends on how you ask. mm actually no, i cant think of a way someone would ask my consent which would be unsexy. maybe only if youre really shy. but just asking "do you like it?" and getting a "yes" is fine. if she really thinks consent is unsexy then she has her own problems.
>>42099833Do you have obsessive compulsive disorder?
>>42101218I don't know, I guess if I told this thread to a psychiatrist I could see if they diagnose it
