be me, lateshit twinkhon. finally get a cisM boyfriend. he's cute, nice dick, taller than me, and actually seems to like me and not be embarrassed to be in public with me. he just moved here from across the country with nothing and it feels like a romance movie, we have a fucking wine picnic in the park. he even tells me he loves me.3 months into relationship he stops putting in any effort. we live together and he would bitch and moan about me asking him to do basic things (lets go vote together, can you clean the litter box, can you cook dinner, etc). i pay the rent and for basically everything btw.he is obsessed with magic the gathering, picrel. his eyes light up whenever he talks about it. i've never even played MTG but i could probably build a charbelcher deck now just because of how much he talked about it. he asks me for money to help him go to magic the gathering tournaments. i give him an early birthday present of paying for his hotel room for an MTG tournament. he asks me for loans to go to more tournaments, he constantly talks about decks he wants to play but can't because he doesn't have the money for cards.one day he asks me for money for a tournament, i told him i'd give him money if he helped me sell some shit on fb marketplace. it spirals into a multi-day argument because he feels like i'm nagging him like i'm his mom. i literally cook this man an egg sandwich for breakfast every morning before he goes to work.tttt did i fuck up or is this just what its like to date men?
Coldsnap was based as a one-off throwback set with lots of experimental cards and flavor. After Throne of Eldraine they did the pony cards and everything went downhill until after 2022 or so it's like AI generated crossover shit. These days I just cube and play custom formats
>>42107027Based. I've been thinking about a virtual sealed league
>>42106042this is what its like to date nerdy men, yes. its this or date normal men who are capable of doing things but also find it easier to strangle you than express basic emotions
there's rare exceptions but yeah this is what most men are like. There's a reason girls date older men. They're usually still babies too but if you're looking for a cis man that ain't a baby you're gonna struggle.
>>42106042>lateshitWhat does that even mean? I started at 25 and I'm now a married middle-aged passoid lol.Sounds like you got yourself a codependent, nona. If you're fine with that, then okay.But if you're not, dump his nerdy ass yesterday. He's fleecing you for money and for no particular end. Playing some stupid game (that you also don't enjoy/know) is not a worthy use of your money.>is this just what its like to date men?Well, you're not dating him. You're living with him. It's a next level.And no, this is not what it's like to date men in general. It's what it's like to date nerdy NEETs.I do most of the cooking because I'm simply better at it. But everything else is roughly equal. He makes slightly more than me but not by much.I dated with the explicit goal of marriage and building a functional home.I'm not saying our marriage is perfect, but goodness me some of you nonas tolerate shit that's objectively intolerable.You don't owe this man financing for his vice. MTG doesn't sound significantly different than poker tournaments. Just because it's not legally gambling (yet), it doesn't make it any less of a vice.
>>42106042Zomg, playable in Modern neobrandMtG is fun as fuck, you should at least try it to see if its your thing. Download Arena and do the tuto.Your bf sounds like a dick though
Yeah ditch his ass. Dude could at least take care of the house and not blow money on stupid shit if you're so good to provide for him. He should be your full time chef, maid, and consort but you're taking care of everything for the both of you.
>>42106042This doesn’t comport to my experience dating men at all. My current boyfriend is definitely nothing like this. Mine pays for almost everything and we each do our respective chores without complaint or issue. I like cooking so I do most of that but he takes initiative in doing plenty of other stuff. He also doesn’t have any obsessions like your guy seems to
