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the youtube algorithm put this on my homepage

they're announcing to their channel and thousands of strangers they're starting transitioning mtf with a full on beard, male voice and presentation/ wtf

how do people do this while i can't even tell my friends i've known for years
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>>42110854
Chad does what Chad wants.
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they're faketrans and want the attention. they feel good larping their AGP fetish to the public

you struggle because ur trutrans and experience genuine dysphoria
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>>42110877
trvke
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>>42110854
People like us just aren't as highly motivated or desire to come out as much as people who pull shit like this
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lol I got that in my algorithm too but I just exited off in 10 seconds and forgot about it existing until this thread. Oh well best of luck to her
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>>42110877
i'm faketrans but just a lot more self conscious than this person
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>>42110854
I'm a stud. I'm ballsy. I don't take no shit from anyone. I tell whoever I want that I'm trooning. I don't have to "boymode" like (YOU)

OHOHOHOHOHO
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>>42110854
we all gotta start somewhere. i think it is admirable to come out at a point when your transition has not yet been actualized, as long as you don't start acting like you're already a woman or anything. People outside of this website don't have the same unrealistic aspirations of magically jumping from boymode on estrogen to stealth passoid. It takes a lot of courage to affirm what you want your gender to be when it's so clearly different from where you are at the moment, but it can provide a much more solid baseline for your transition than staying in the closet and posting about how you want more on a Kamchatkan whaling forum.
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>>42111129
this comment is too reasonable for this site
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>>42111739
thanks anon i am immune to the psychogenic pain that this website causes but i hang out here cause i like talking calmly into the void hope you have a merry christmas eve :)
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>>42110854
because the dialogue around what being trans means is so garbage. it got co-opted by normies to mean "having the soul of a woman" (thanks, caitlyn). it's not about having dysphoria, it's not about altering your body, it's about "affirmation" and conformism and "euphoria" and identity (which happens to be the language of consumer capitalism).
i was also poisoned by this rhetoric early on and it really confused me and fucked me up. i desperately asserted that i was a woman while feeling more and more suffocated by that designation, which i knew i couldn't live up to. if i wasn't a woman, i was a man. that's what people tell you, basically. so since all that's the case, you have to assert 'i was always a woman' or 'some women have x personality trait like i do', 'some women have beards', etc. in a backward way it's conformism.
the national dialogue surrounding this shit can really dazzle you, when you're in a vulnerable position trying to come to terms with what dysphoria means. people can swoop in and tell you "you have a woman's soul, hon! you were always a woman!" and it does so much more damage than good, i think.
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>>42112092
God I feel this. That whole shit led me to repress even more for a decade because I didn't "feel like a girl" because that feeling ended as I began to masculinize. It started right after the peak of testosterone puberty too despite me having the "maybe I'm actually a girl" thoughts a few years prior.
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>>42110854
who's to say it's confidence and not delusion
(as in, delusion of peer acceptance, not identity)
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>>42112092
there was literally a comment in the video saying "some women have beards" in response to someone. i hate stuff like that. i am manmoding and the idea of someone sticking up for me with shit like that makes me cringe
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>>42112159
May also be like, not having someone to really tell?
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>>42110854
She is stunning and brave for doing this.
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>>42112170
vent anonymously online like the rest of us
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>>42112170
honestly i think it's just that they run a youtube channel and, considering the content, they'd have to explain sooner or later to their audience
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>2.85k subscribers
where do you guys even find this stuff
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>>42110854
>have cishet white privilege
>>i hope i dont lose any privilege!
many such cases
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>>42112231
the youtube algorithm works in mysterious ways
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>>42110854
these people arent trans they're just having a midlife crisis
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>>42112231
>the youtube algorithm put this on my homepage
anyways check out this fat nigga playing monster trucks with hotwheels i found earlier
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>>42112140
yeah, i think being trans is way more complicated than people make out. though it's not perfect, i think the model of 'symptom reduction' for transitioning is way more helpful than the 'gender affirmation' one.
i ended up being enby, and i know that's not the answer everyone is going to end up with, but i still think that if people stopped thinking of gender as something static and binary they'd find the trans thing a lot less stressful and scary to navigate. if they end up identifying as a man or a woman, that's fine.
>>42112167
well it's not as if i think you should be shamed but i do think it's reality denying. it denies your reality too.
it pretends as if your dysphoria is irrational and implies that your fate is the same as that of a bearded woman (when i'm sure you'd happily trade places with one). so yeah i wish normies would stfu.



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