Has anyone here been able to change your life around and go from someone who wasn't ever able to put effort into anything to someone who's life is worth living? I desperately want to improve my life but I can't convince myself to and it feels like I'll just function at too low of a level to ever get better. Existing otself takes so much energy, and I can't convince myself to go to the gym, eat better, or try to put actual effort into my transition when I just want to sleep for days on end.
>>42111441criteria for "turned life around" should specify maintenance of markedly positive change/s for at least 5, maybe even 10 yearsonly long term change matters
>>42111556I don't know man, even a bit of short-term improvement would be nice. Right now I just think I'm so flawed that it'd be impossible for me to even put in any effort in the first place.
>>42111441Im in the same situation and Im convinced that only drugs can help
>>42111441It'll hurt staying as you are the same as changing to be what you want. No one else is going to save you(or what I tell myself), so if you don't like how it is You have to change it. Clean something, put on music to do so. Remember something you hate and genereate spite to fuel your self-improvment. Do you really wanna be like that forever? The only way to change it is with the first step, no matter how small.
>>42111945I've been telling myself to do all this shit for years and years and years now and it hasn't motivated me one bit, which has just led me to think that I'm incapable of changing.
>>42111715yeah i get that, i'm just really fucked in the head that's allwhat does improvement look like to you?
>>42112127Losing weight, staying sober, keeping my personal space clean, moving out.
