>FTM repper>Went to 'therapy' to get rid of the trans urges>Completely "cis" now>At my parents house for Christmas eve>Bf is here with me>Have had a few drinks>Dad started a MAGA rant>Told him I'm going to be a man by next year>Nuclear meltdown>Bf looks like Jesse Pinkman from the water drinking gif>Got in the car to leave and go home after the fighting was done>Bf: "hey so about all that stuff, are you really gonna transition?"Y'all I know this is a lot to ask but I've been drinking and had more than I can handle of my family. I meant to tell my bf this privately and with more care. Can y'all give me something to tell him so he's chill until I'm more sober to really talk about this? Tysm ilu
He's literally thinking soley of:- convincing you out of it- an escape planHe's going to take your words and throw them straight into the trash and try his best to stop you from growing hair, sounding like a frog, and zippering the titters.
dump him right now he wants you to stay a cis girl for him. every other guy you meet until you pass is gonna do that too so wait a few years before getting with men again.
>>42113265You are a female attracted to men, just be a woman. Your boyfriend clearly isn't too keen on you taking testosterone and trying to live as a "man". Life as a gayden isn't worth it- the truth is it's impossible for a cis man to view you as truly a man if you've done PiV, literally just repress and continue on with your life
>>42113318>getting with men after pooningohBROTHER
>>42113322This.
>>42113333if he's a gayden now he probably still will be after t. he can get with other gaydens for randrophilic bi chasers.
>>42113345oh, you meant transmenlolI think you mean, "hefab lesbians", lmaaooooo
>>42113322I've never understood this point of view, repression hardly ever works u less ypu can guarantee you'll be in an extremely unsupportive situation for the rest of your life and you can keep your mind off of it. I know my transition will be a failure and I'll end up as an embarrassment to all, but it still feels better to chase my dreams now instead of forcing myself to live a life I hate when I know I'll still wish I was male when I have 2.5 kids and a much worse body.
>>42113364?
>>42113385Why do you think taking testosterone and trying to pass yourself off as a man will cause you to not hate your life anymore?You're still not going to be male regardless of whether you take T and get a double mastectomy. Transitioning doesn't actually solve the dysphoria, and again you're a straight woman so it makes a lot of sense to just stay that way. This idea that "repression" is impossible is false. At the end of the day nothing you do can change your sex, it's better to just lean into how you were designed than try to be something you're not
>>42113448I take testosterone and try to pass myself off as a woman, I'm trying to balance the scales between completely pooning out and killing myself at 30.
>>42113265op, family is bogus and people who dont support you 100% are literally just dragging you down. if your bf isnt out as bi, you should tell him that you're a man now and he should either love you as a man or find someone else to put his dick in>>42113333cope incel not everyone is like you
>>42113496Ah yes, the old "must take the hormones or I'm gonna kms". Pls just go to therapy or crack open a Bible. the hormones are a major maladaptive coping mechanism for whatever issues you have going on and is going to bring you nothing but trouble
>>42113523>c-cope incel not everyone is like youTrue! Some "people" are AFaBs who transition from woman into weird woman and still get lots of hot cunny plaps
>>42113523>love a female as a man>put his dick in heryou realize these are mutually exclusive? it's impossible to see someone as a man once you've put your dick in their vagina please bffr. actual gay men aren't interested in PiV
>>42113553>pretends i didnt say bisexual>>42113537you wanna say that like a human being?>>42113536if you had your hormones stopped you'd kill yourself too, retard
>>42113579no, I did stop the hormones and I'm fine. the trans stuff is a delusion basically and/or a maladaptive coping mechanism, that's the truth. get out while you still can
>>42113536>go to therapyThey just tell you to transition lmao>crack open a BibleI've tried converting to Catholicism and it didn't take
>>42113609if your endogenous hormones stopped your bones would disintegrate, moron
>>42113265how does it seem like every androphilic frepper has a boyfriend
>>42113676I never got bottom surgery so I produce my own hormones>>42113653Just pray the rosary more, the whole thing is true actually.
>>42113322>You are a female attracted to men, just be a womanAnd even if she was attracted to women she would still just be a woman. Gay men who are attracted to men are still just men, straight men who are attracted to women are still just men, lesbians who are attracted to women are still just women..and straight women who are attracted to men are still just women.Bisexual men and women also remain what they are. Sexuality can't change your gender.Even if it's more "affirming".>T. Lesbian repper
>>42113536"people" like this are a different species from me, im sure of it.
>>42113715Because dating is easier for straight girls than for lesbians. Straight men are everywhere in every single part of the world you can't say same for lesbians.
>>42113448>Transitioning doesn't actually solve the dysphoriaSpeak for yourself... Transitioning solved my dysphoria
>>42113265Quite honestly, whatever he's not chill about, it affects you way more because you have to live with yourself for the rest of your life, 24/7. Tell him you need time to yourself to calm down. Then just tell him the truth.You are not responsible for whatever his feelings are about your gender. However, it is your responsibility as a partner to not lie to him and to discuss things when they come up. He needs to move on as soon as possible if he isn't willing to deal with that.
