Basically I'm torn between dating two men. Both are cis. One is my current bf, one is my best friend who confessed to me a couple days ago. "but anon you have a bf why date your friend" well my bf is like the anti-chaser and won't fuck me til srs which is forever away. But my best friend is a chaser and would actually fulfill me sexually. (a top chaser thank fuck) also me and my current bf fight a lot but my best friend and i are close as hell. I feel like i can be myself more with my friend but i also still love my current bf, but also i see the incompatibilites. And I don't wanna miss out on dating my friend should the opportunity pass and i lose it. My current bf is more attractive to me but with no possibility of sex that's kinda not the most important. What would y'all do in my situation?
>>42114874How is he your bf if he won't have sex with you?
Oh also the no sex thing has led me to already cheating once. He's forgiven me but idk how long i can keep away the temptation again
are you still in high school what the fuck is this dilemma grow up
>>42114894Fair point but there is more to relationships than just sex
>>42114929No i just have dependent personality disorder and can't make decisions for myself so i relegate it to others.
>>42114894Yeah sounds like they're just friends
>>42114909Just kill yourself
>>42114932Ok then describe how he's your bf retard. Do you-live together see each other every daysleep together?If not he's probably not your bf
Definitely go for the guy you actually want. "I am with this person already but cheated" already tells you everything you need to know. Get someone you actually vibe with. Also dont cheat, its disgusting and wrong.
>>42114975We live together but not for long cause i gotta move back to my hometown where my best friend lives cause of school reasons
>>42114982It sounds like there's something wrong with the bf like he's a virgin and doesn't understand what he's doing yet. An srs vagina is disgusting and not a real vagina, and no guy is 'saving himself' for a rot hole.
Blow up your relationship it’s so worth trust trust
>>42115008:(
>>42114909>>42115005it sounds like if u dont break up youll just end up cheating anyway esp after moving. i would still talk to ur friend about how serious he is and talk about ur options and obv bring it up to ur current bf but like whatever idk
>>42114874It isn't worth years of your life for something this uncertain. I was also torn between two guys but decided to try to make things work with one who probably has more red flags and stuff because he's actually willing to commit and will result in less of me being a tortured soul because of it. I still think about the one I had to give up on, so I know it's not easy, but it was the right choice for me.
>>42114909>loyal hsts queen
oh my god dont be a retard just dump your shitty fake boyfriend
>>42114909>He's forgiven mepoor cuck, praying for him to man up and find a decent woman
>>42114909This is why 30% of male attracted trannies have hiv
>>42114944ooohhh that's why you present your boyhole to every penis that asks for itbichuds gonna be EATIN GOOD
>>42114874i wish i could understand what it's like to be desired by someone
>>42114874>my bf is like the anti-chaser and won't fuck me til srs which is forever awayNormally you should stick with your current partner but he's either stupid, a sadist or some other kind of sick freak. Either way, get the fuck away from him asap and go for the chaser
