>bf admitted he was thinking of trooning out before dating me>now hes convinced it would be better for him to stay as a man bc he doesnt want to become a hon or lose me (im straight)fucking kill me
Haha. Evan i was smart enough to not admit that to my partner
>>42116235Cis or trans girl? In any case you should support her transition since she clearly id's as female. Having a repper bf will just be more awkward
>>42116235Okay but would he be a total hon, a twinkhon, or a possible passoid (after FFS)?
>>42116235You should forcefem him
>>42116235just break up, it's going to happen eventually and you know it
>>42116235>im straightYou're in a gay relationship. Trannies and reppers are the only men willing to date a tranny.
>>42116235I'd help answer your question but you posted glegle coal. Gwnbam
>>42116289i expect him to try and play it off like it never happened or i misheard him when he sobers up>>42116294it will be awkward yesi really dont see a way to come back from this>>42116296linebacker build so even with ffs itll be a tough sell>>42116302yeah but its hard to just walk away, weve been together for 6 yearsi shouldve known years ago when the cracks began to form but i kept ignoring the signs
>>42116235Tranny x repper is one of the most holy of pairings
Having a bitterhon bf is based.Cant wait until the sabotage from jealousy starts
>>42116381Awww that's unfortunate. I mean I had a linebacker build to but I am better than I thought I would be. Fucking sucks for them though.
>>42116381*ahem*You're now transbianYour partner is a girl
>>421163816 years???gosh that sucksSorry for both of you
>>42116294Not if he can rep hard enough. I think once you're past a certain point it's your duty to rep.
>>42116483Wrong, i repped to 32, eventually its becomes too much TOO MUCH and you transition, i dont care im a turbo hon, it was this or DEATH
>>42116610I think that's a YMMV thing. Some of us don't feel too dysphoric about our bodies so we can ignore it.Plus, if you're in a relationship, won't trooning out hurt at least one other person? It feels more utilitarian to rep.
>>42116610Fr thisGender dyshoria doesn't go sway
>>42116636>>42116633I was sone handsome chad, id go to a club, see tons of women dressed up.No no no no its better to be a man, its better to be a man, its better to be a man, as a man i can see multiple women thats much better, being a woman would be so shit so shit, so shit, being a woman would be terrible. Id tell myself this over and over. I asked my friends how they coped with wanting to be a woman. Turns out wanting to be a woman is not somethibg 99% of cis men have to cope with and that only a faggot bitch would want to be pinned down and fucked by a strong man with nice arms and shoulders. Anyways i have a pussy now.OP is fucked, i feel really had for her. She has a choice, encourage it and date a hon, or end it on good terms. Those are the only valid choices otherwise it will be constant PAIN for everyone involved
>>42116671Okay but like, if you really wanted to, couldn't you have repped? Unless you hate your body, wanting to be a girl could just be treated as a childish fantasy like wanting to be a billionaire. I know that I can't be like all the hot normie cisfoids so I just push it back.Obviously OP's bf is kinda fucked because he's already let the cat out of the bag instead of pushing it down as well. But I don't think it's impossible to rep forever. Being a man is objectively better for your life.
>>42116698You'll crack hahaha. I thought that too. And heres thing. Maybe you're right. Maybe it IS better to be a man.So what.Gender dysphroia feels no emotion, it cant be bribed, or reasoned with, it absolutely will not stop. GD takes no prisoners. You talk like a child holding dynamite, i have been where you have been. I gave it all up. You will too. Maybe not at 30, but 100% at 50.Look at what repping does to terfs. Do you want to end up like that?
>>42116671>Turns out wanting to be a woman is not somethibg 99% of cis men have to cope with and that only a faggotWould you press the button get a million but turn into a women discussion confused me and my friends hard>bitch would want to be pinned down and fucked by a strong man with nice arms and shoulders.Omg yeees>Anyways i have a pussy now.My bf said he might leave me if I got bottom surgery. Do you achive anything in the sex region or is SRS mostly to combat dysphoria?
>>42116746No I won't. I can rep forever. I don't have actual dysphoria. Besides, even if I did troon, I won't pass now and I won't pass at 50. I'd rope either way.I think the idea that TERFS are reppers in denial just pushes the blame back onto us. TERFS are women who can't accept new things. They do what they do because they're small-minded, curtain-twitching, hateful selfish retards. Not out of some deep, tragic backstory.
>>42116796>They do what they do because they're small-minded, curtain-twitching, hateful selfish retards. Not out of some deep, tragic backstory.Literally like the same logic people use to defend bullies here
>>42116775>Do you achive anything in the sex region or is SRS mostly to combat dysphoria?Srs is amazing. But. But. BUT. You gotta be 100% mentally there. But if its life long dilation. The first year is dilation in the morning, the evening and overnight for 8 hours. Then twice a week, and sex counts as dilation.I havent had sex yet because im still healing so hopefully another srs girlie can answer this, but it definitely is something id do again, just be ready for the surgery as it is no joke
>>42116796I spend time listening to terfs. They often describe gender dysphoria unknowingly, talk about how much better it would be to be a man, how they HATE every part of being a woman, and alter their appearance to become masculine. Not all terfs buglt a significant majority are reppers
>>42116235was he a transmaxxing incel pipeline type, or did he detail why he felt this way and was more normal transition motivations and persistent? i know many guys that absolutely would not transition that have imagined transitioning.
>>42116847Thanks for the inputI've realized I'm trans and GD won't go away. I'm going to do SRS, I'm mentally there. I'm mentally there for everything. I can't keep living like I've been living
>>42116891The only regret you'll have is not doing it sooner
>>42116866In every TERF there is a sad pooner?
>>42116904I'm already constantly regretting not trooning out sooner. If I wasn't so damn tall I'd probably. But at the same time in my country you get no or extremly bad help. My parents would brain wash me into thinking I'm not trans. I might've been repping till this day, idkI'm 23 rn, idk how bad I fucked up...2 years hrt currently. It's 50/50 honestly
>>42116289who's evan
>>42116847>and overnight for 8 hoursYou sleep with a metal rod inserted in your owie hole? Jesus Christ that sounds bleak.
>>42116921Not every, some have been hurt by cis men and want to lash out, some are legitimate psycopathic bullies, some are just stupid and want to belong to something. But the majority are ftms in denial. >none of this trans stuff existed when i was a kid, you just get on with it! You just accept things as they are! You dont be selfish and transition even if you want to! What will the neighbours think?!?!
>>42117000its a smoochie hole, only meant to be owie for a few months
>>42117000Its rubber. I have two types, glass and rubber.Glass you cant move, rubber i can walk around. Its ok, i have it inside right now, can sleep comfortably. If you can invent better srs technology that would be great, nanomachines that keep the hole open. They'll have that type of technology in the future, so can you invent it now
>>42116847dilation is usually only 30 minutes 2-3 times a day early on after sent home. not 8 hours wtf
>>421171738 hours overnight anon, whilst i sleep. Im gonna follow my surgeons instructions to the letter. Morning and evening with the glass, overnight with the rubber.
>>42117202isnt that just first few weeks, who tf has the whole year as that
>>42117213Thats what he told me. I can only follow his instructions. He invented a specific ppt technique, so maybe it heals differently
Your boyfriend is literally me.Thanks for reminding me that no woman would want to deal with me.
>>42116867he seemed normie enough when i met him! thats the really frustrating part i thought i met someone i could build a life with and now its all shattered like a bull in the china shophe definitely has dysphoria (in hindsight i shouldve seen this coming a mile away) and he really should transition but it fucking burns knowing how much time i wasted on someone who i didnt really know/didnt want to truly know
>>42116866>>42116921No, noThey're not actually poonersLow value people have been given a "way out" via transition but it's just greener grass. The sex war is strong.For women, they're taught men run the world. And, yeah, a miniscule proportion of lucky men definitely do. But most just exist as a low SMV slave. This doesn't change the "patriarchy" slop/"self-empowerment" narrative they assume is 150% true and that life as a man is fun, careless, and empowering.For men, they're taught women are valuable and once they realize that women aren't raised and forever treated like criminals, they become envious of that life.This isn't dysphoriaIt's just common themes and critiques against the sexism cage we can't escape