>be me when I was 14>identify as nonbinary>come out to parents, they reject me, say "nb isn't real, you can only be a boy or a girl">after a year or two of basically isolating in my room decide to rep>tell parents I'm not nb anymore>get stealth pooner bf>parents don't know he's trans>they find out after we broke up>they seem to accept him as a man>"I'd prefer if your future partners aren't trans cuz there's a lot of mental illness in the trans community">be me now>trooned out, boymoding>parents seem to have no idea i'm a trannyI genuinely can't tell if my parents would accept me if I tell them. I'm not enbycoping anymore so they can't use the "nb isn't real" line but like idk what they would think of me if I told them. Should I?
no? why would you tell them when there's literally no upside?
>>42116461its genuinely wearing on me to have to be so secretive cuz I still live with them. I can't afford to move out for at least another six months and I'm like high-key tired of having to make up bs excuses for the tranny shit that they do pick up on cuz my mom is a helicopter parent.
>>42116412I'm so sorry that happened to you, you can still be nb if you want to be. My parents didn't accept I was trans for 15 years and a lot of that time I was repping.
What even does trooned out and boymoding mean how do you do both
>>42116509I'm not nb its just my parents' opinions on trans people are confusing and I have no idea how they would react if I came out as a tranny
>>42116412I think it’s pretty obvious they won’t accept you for being trans and you should move out on your own and grow distant from them or when you move out tell them later when you’re farther along and tell them that if they can’t accept you for the way you are then you won’t have them in your life
>>42116533I only really boymode at home and work. at uni and with friends I more-or-less am in girlmode, but don't pass.
I mean I dont know what your parents are like ig idfk what you should do without knowing them
