How do I cope if I don't want to be a woman or a man I just want to be a cute boy
This is me.Simply looksmaxx.I'm doing all soft procedures, and have 1 surgery scheduled for september, and likely will be doing 4 more, have a consultation january.
>>42118495are you neotenymaxxing? what surgerys is good for this?
>>42118414im the same and unfortunately there is no way to get that because you WILL age and you WILL stop looking like a boy and the only way you can cope when you hit your thirties is to try to age into a woman instead of a man. but you have to start it now. id do anything to look young forever but god hates me and ive been able to see the marks of age for years already. i dont even get carded when buying alcohol anymore
>>42118414If you can afford top surgery then get on E and don't bind for a year to preserve skin elasticity for keyhole (no scarring). You now get to preserve your youth.
>>42118823you still age on e. you just age to a woman instead of a man but you age all the same. i would know
>>42118414The sensible thing to do is to accept aging and finding a therapist to work through that if necessary.If you wanna do what most people like you do, then look for a sheltered discord community like boycord and keep idolizing guys and youth while ripping apart each other’s looks or glazing each other and being horrifically sexist and anti-trans and HRT to the point of crashing out whenever it is mentioned. Then, as you approach your 30s and start losing hair or going through "second puberty", basically more masculinization, you crash out even more and mourn that you never got on HRT and turn that into vicious hatred towards anything cis or trans female. TLDR accept aging or transition
>>42118640>neotenymaxxingBy reversing aging, doing things like skincare and makeup you already get some of this. Unfortunately you need to work with what you have. It's already super hard being very good looking, imagine if you also need to fit into a specific archetype your facial features (or age) are not suited for.For me this feeling of "cute boy" was actually more about feeling pretty, and it's already super hard.And I'll be doing hair transplant (already confirmed) and likely, genioplasty, lip lift, rhinoplasty and fat grafting. The three last ones may help with neoteny, but it's not my focus. I'm late 20s.Work with what you have anon, be realistic.
>>42118414sounds like a fetishEveryone ages. It is just the order of life. You should see a therapist about this because this is not healthy since you will age
>>42118887I want someone who'll love me for who I am.
>>42118414This is called Peter Pan syndrome.Unfortunately Neverland is not open to immigrants so you'll have to grow up.
>>42118414Nobody would rather be a "cute boy" than a woman. That's just a cope. Or mental illness.
>>42118414START SHOTAMAXXING!!!!!!!!Its just a full dose of estrogen for female levels and voice training so you sound like a 12-14 year old boy!
>>42118414estrogen + Dutasteride and then a mastectomy
>>42121860Not OP, but I get where they're coming from. Part of it probably is, but it's also a product of dysphoria + male internal identity.
>>42119579So?Yes you should find someone who you have the most in common ("for who I am") but looks are still important.
>>42118414Take estrogen but wear a binder so you don't grow tits. Don't socially transition and you'll basically stay a twink forever
>>42122007Estrogen pushes you away from the "boy" look just as fast as testosterone, just in the other direction. Youth fades with time, it's inevitable
>>42124511I think if you've already gone through T puberty, E keeps you looking more boyish than secondary androgenization
>>42124093This except you don't even need the binder.Don't buy into the hype. Estradiol does extremely little to the adult male body.It's not like it is for ftms where testosterone will actually turn them into men more or less. Masculinization is basically a one-way street and there isn't a magic drug that reverses all that.You can induce some very mild breast growth as a natal male but in most cases it's going to be minor enough to play off as the kind of gyno many guys get without trying if anyone questions you about it.tl;dr don't let delusionmaxxers trick you into believing you should be afraid of hrt. It will almost certainly do less than you're imagining it will.
>>42124569but estrogen won't keep me looking like a cute boy even when I turn 25+ so what's the point? I don't want to become a woman or a man. If I take estrogen I'll just age into an androgynous man or a woman. "stay a twink forever" is a lie I've seen the results of hrtwinks and femboys and none of them kept the look as they aged
>>42124569damn these mfs mustve been on a CRAZY hondose bc almost every non-ba tranny i see from this board got better results (including me)
