>>42119072
thats not a woman
no not "even" a trans woman
idk

>>42119072
>Surprised? Yeah, me too
:/

Idk if there's any hope for her.
I do however think this common mistake should be committed a lot less.
Social transition should be the LAST step, not the first.

>>42119264
Old fucks still think RLE is mandatory to get hrt. They don't know about DIY and/or are scared of it. "Only doctors are qualified to make those decisions"

>>42119329
I don't think it's that. I think in most cases it's just that they're brain damaged from watching too much sissy porn, so the "social" (i.e. humiliation) aspect is most important to them.
Reppers are weird. I never understand how they can build an entire career, taking videos and photos of themselves, and not kill themselves. I would have killed myself if I hadn't started transitioning as soon as possible.

>>42119368
In the past we just sucked it up cuz that was the only apparent choice.
Never watched sissy porn or got off on humiliation. RLE was mandatory until very recently and reppers never got the memo.
Losing your whole life on a maybe is scary and it's not until getting older hits you that you take a leap of faith and hope for the best.
You're living tranny life on easy mode and wondering why people before you didn't do the same. The ez pz road you walk on is paved with their bodies. Gay bashing was a bigger risk until recently. Law looked the other way or cheered when you were getting beat to death or dragged behind a car

>>42119491
Okay, except I'm not some zoomer. Transitioning was already possible 10, 20, 30 years ago. Obviously it depends somewhat on your circumstances, but if you're not living in some islamic state where you'll get beheaded for being a tranny I have little sympathy for reppers. All reppers I have met had some sort of sissy fetish and/or were misogynistic pieces of shit.

>>42119206
gotta give it to her that's some good sense of humor

>>42119538
Possible? Sure, it's been possible for thousands of years now. Practical? Pffffffffft, noooooooo lol
You don't need to live in the middle east to be in danger. However it's more likely you will be ostracized if you transitioned young and lose any familial support or safety nets you have. Like do you not realize this shit is hard af?
Real zoomie check, were you born early enough to watch Mulan in theaters?
Any reppers you've met personally are n=1. Sissy stuff is often a cope, gross yes, but a cope that unfortunately warps the mind over time

>oh xe's a jolly good John 50

>>42119636
>Like do you not realize this shit is hard af?
I never said it was easy. Do you think I have an easy life? I've lost pretty much everything and am quite poor now. One benefit reppers have is that they can build an entire career without being discriminated against for being a tranny. But somehow reppers/late-transitioners always whine about how their life and transition was so much more difficult and how they had no other choice but to be a man. Being an older tranny who transitioned young sucks because most people can't relate at all and just assume you're some super-luckshit with supportive parents living in some magical country where trannies get free hrt and surgeries handed out like candy.

>>42120184
I'm glad you lost everything to make fun of old men, merry christmas bitch

>>42120233
making fun of old men is extremely based actually

>>42120237
stay poor stay based

>>42120233
>>42120246
Lmao why are you so upset at her for not liking sissies and reppers?

>>42120184
Both of you are right to a certain degree, but I doubt his reasons apply to this guy.
For me it wasn't even acceptance, everyone disliked me and eveyone knew I frequented lgbt spaces, the way I behaved, having long hair since I was 13, the music I liked, I mean I kept nothing from no one, still never transitioned until I was out of the city, I was not afraid of being rejected, I was scared of the process, I didn't know where to start or what to do so I just kept pushing it away. The first time I started I had absolutely nothing and even then I had to stop, I wouldn't call it reverse dysphoria, but the changes brought me a lot of abuse and I broke down, had to stop, it wasn't worth it, at least not from my perspective, I stupidly kept myself away from that trying to repress but it was too late, everyone already knew there was no reason to not do it but I honestly thought it wasn't for me, I didn't need it, it wasn't until a few years ago that the new life I created allowed me to continue, still suffer a lot of discrimination, from cis for being what I am and lgbt for taking too long but I no longer give a fuck.

>>42120443
I feel like that's a bit different from the average repper though. Being noticeably queer is a different experience from being a man until you're 40 and then deciding you are trans all of a sudden.

>>42120252
I just told her to stay poor and based like she wants?

>>42120541
Why do you moids always have anger issues?

>>42120559
>Why do you moids always have anger issues
lmao you should listen to yourself girl

>>42120184
I don't give a fuck if my view is completely abstracted from reality or totally delusional, if you started transitioning as a binary, heterosexual trans woman before 25 you're absolutely lucky beyond belief. Faketrans lateshits may always have social privilege over you but at least you'll always be morally free and protected from the horrors of transbianism. No matter what happens to you, you can always take comfort in the knowledge that you're HETEROSEXUAL and PURE.

>>42119072
I remember when I was 20 I shaved my head, got really muscly, and grew a little patch beard on my chin. I felt uglier and less like myself than I ever had. Trooned out the very next year (I would have panic attacks that HRT wouldn’t work for me because I didn’t look feminine enough, now I pass flawlessly)
Unironically how do you grow a full beard, age, and even go bald without feeling a twinge of gender dysphoria? Can any lateshits enlighten me?

>>42120606
They're not trans, they just want to be female.

>>42120680
...
um

>>42120606
I was in my early 20's and was on hormones for like a few months cuz I just wanted to be more feminine, hadn't accepted myself and didn't believe I was trans I just wanted to be more feminine, but I decided not to transition because of the fear of social ostracization and not being able to find a job while being trooned out.

Had a shitty relationship with a demon think that was racist and transphobic, he was toxic and abusive, we had a house and three dogs, I had a fairly successful sales career where I made a good amount of money, I had to walk away from it all to escape him and as soon as I felt safe I explored my thoughts and realized I always wanted to be a woman and that I was trans and just.... Took the leap of faith, and it's been amazing. Only been on for 10 months, the body changes are nice, but the mental changes and being able to feel like myself inside my own head and feel my emotions is just.... Me.

>>42120606

It fucking sucks because all the trans and queer friends I have are either supported by wealthy family, have 3 roommates and are barely surviving, or are.... Like me and built a career and found a job where they could transition before they did so.

Soo that fear I had of not finding a job being trooned out is 100% legit especially after meeting trans people who did transition in their 20's and were homeless off and on.

It.... Sucks to realize that. I'm pretty clocky and bricky, my goal is to look like a goth Midwest mom and I'll need FFS and contouring to have a shape I like, my jobs insurance will pay for it which is fucking NICE but still wasted 10 years.

Most queer people IRL are fucking awesome and accepting, some shitty cat fighting and cunty leftist moral purity spirals but that's rare IRL. The gatekeeping Blanchardite HussTuss faggots are all only online because everyone sees them as the pathetic cunts they are and they get ostracized instantly.

Anyway, so basically you just live with disphoria and think you're just depressed, and just feel that being depressed is normal until you can't take it anymore and decide to love yourself.

I was a transphobic rotten egg for a while though and had to work through some stuff so there may be some truth to the idea that reppers become shitty people.

>>42120778
What?