I'm so lonely and sad. I'm in a relationship and not getting the affection I need. I've been drinking. When I try to talk about it my partner just goes quiet. I'm a total loser and ugly too. I cant really ask for more. But I really am lonely and sad. Is this just how life goes?
dump their ass and find someone better
How old are you? Also, what letters?>Is this just how life goes?Sometimes, yes. But if this has been going on for years, then clearly NO.How should I put it?Life isn't an endless stream of excitement and joy. There's ups and downs. And a lot of the downs aren't even your fault or the partner's fault.I've been with my husband for 12 years. We just finished a family dinner (his family and some of mine came for a visit; plus my brother's children). Sounds lovely, except it was really tiresome.I should be doing dishes now but I'm exhausted. I'd want to have sex too but he's exhausted too. And likely tomorrow we won't have time for ourselves too either.A few years ago, due to a hormonal imbalance, I felt i wasn't getting the affection i needed. Turns out I was, it's just that i wasn't perceiving it right.In 2020 my business collapsed and my husband got fired. It was really stressful. None of us got the affection we needed.Point being, it's not supposed to be all happiness. Real life doesn't quite work like that.By the same token, if your feeling of loneliness persists and you have ruled out objective causes, you may want to look for someone else. Especially if you're young.No relationship is sometimes better than a bad relationship.Proceed with caution. Hugs.t. tranny
>>42123588If your partner keeps you miserable you need to dump them. I know it's hard but that's the only way it can get better
i’m in the same boat, thinking of breaking up with him
