>>42123633
im 22
its cause i have horrific body dismorphia disorder and am also delusional (grindr sucks and the people who send only dick pics make me uninstall it instantly)

>>42123837
Well, what do you want from a partner that makes it so hard to find one?

>>42123633
19, i've never fallen in love with anyone ever and i don't want to fuck randos

im 20 and never had a bf or sex. Got rejected once. Never bothered hooking up. Felt disgusted by my skinnyfat body throughout my teenage years that made me hate the idea of having sex. Now I workout and look slightly better but still gotta cut to be lean

>>42124014
What about F+? You don't need to fall in love to have sex with someone but they also don't need to be randos. You can meet people on grindr to become friends with and if you find each other attractive you can have sex.

Did so last year with a friend, basically as long as we were single whenever one of us stayed the night by the other one we would have some form of sex (often just oral or Handjobs tho).

>>42124028
Same here, just that I did the rejection. Dated a guy who was quite cute just to realize I don't really like his personality. But all of this drained so much social energy that I never did this again.

21
Still a virgin
Dont care about “love” desu got rejected once and im done with that
Now i just want to dark triad maxx and emotionally manipulate someone into having sex with me

>>42124162
So I guess what you actually just want is to be wanted

>>42123969
i dont really feel confident in myself enough to find a partner? also im not exactly sure that i have the capacity to have one because uni and generally being retarded,
a part of me does feel like i could fuck randos but also it sort of feels gross when i'm so obsessed with like, interpersonal connection

>>42124783
Sadly being gay makes it much harder as it's not like with straight people where you just can get to know someone through circumstances and you get together, so it requires some effort, I get that.
But don't think so much about if you could have a relationship, if it works out he will support you and spending time with him will give you more energy rather than costing some. You can find someone and be happy :)

>>42123633
30 yo virgin here. "Wizard" I suppose is the term, though I really don't feel it. I like cute guys and all that jazz but I hate myself. If you don't like yourself you're probably never going to pull anyone. It'd be nice to devote myself to a cute bf and do a bunch of cute gay shit with them. But I don't think it's going to happen. I'm closeted and not very good looking. Merry Christmas, faggots.

>>42123633
Im not, but i might as well be because im an antisocial schitzoid with social anxiety. The part of my life where i was forced to be around people is long gone, so now i just isolate myself. Im 27

>>42125078
Wrong mindset. The easiest thing to get you out of that is someone else finding you attractive, and there are faggots out there who will be into you, even if you'll never understand that.
Get yourself out there and find someone to appreciate how you look

>>42123633
I'm 23 years old, and I've kissed a guy before, but it never went beyond this. I am mostly autistic, which is why I can't get a bf, but I fantasise about it a lot. I really don't get on well with most people; I hate them as much as they hate me. It would be nice to meet a like-minded guy who I can just cuddle all day with tbqh

>>42125134
Suggestions on where to go/how to get out there? I'm shy about being gay irl. I really don't want to come out unless I've got a bf.

>>42125161
Well this board is basically a zoo for autistic gay boys. Just look around and see if you find someone with whom you have chemistry

>>42125169
You can try to meet people through dating apps, even though especially on grindr you'll have to get through a lot of shit people (people who just want hookups, getting ghosted, getting scammed by pic sellers, etc).
Sadly because there aren't so many gays around, unless you are in a big city, it's all concentrated on a few apps. The people who just want anonymous sex and the ones looking for relationships, as well as people looking to find gay friends or f+ are all on grindr and you have to filter who you are not interested I

>>42125187
>meet someone on LGBT
Madness

>>42125291
Most boys here are young, hot, autistic and virgins... So while you won't find a lasting relationship here, you'll find at least something that gets you more comfortable with dating in general and more importantly, gets you laid

>>42125347
What you will find is someone hideous, incapable of normal socialization and/or a predator

>>42125216
Maybe 2026 is the year I finally try grindr. I hope 30 isn't considered too old.

>>42124550
In a way yes. But being wanted for just being a charismatic attractive guy is not possible. I need to secure a mate from other ways, such as financial manipulation, and I have a plan for that

>>42125813
I probably fall in the range of “predator” but I dont want to harm or abuse anyone I just want to find a twink who is willing to let me use them in exchange for financial rewards

>>42125857
You make it awfully complicated. I just cooked for a femboy once after I fucked him and this impressed him so much he fell immediately in love with me because quote
>you are the first person other than my mother who has cooked something for me

The bar is like REALLY low