I posted earlier about how my coworkers were noticing my voice changing and what to do about it and the best advice I got was to start wearing a mask and explain it away by saying I had long covid but I really don’t like lying like that. I feel like I should just come out to them. the question then becomes when and how I should come out at work. I live in a blue state (California) so I should be fine. the only thing is I don’t know what will change if I come out, I honestly don’t expect them to start using the new name, or maybe only some of them will and it will cause confusion. I also don’t plan to cut my hair or otherwise suddenly change my presentation (the work uniforms are gender neutral anyways so it’s not like I’ve been wearing a woman’s uniform), I’ve just been letting testosterone do its thing, so it’d be more like I’m giving them a heads up that I’ll be masculinizing. or is that fucking stupid and I should wait until I’m asked directly to say anything? and do I just do this individually with every person who comments on my voice? there doesn’t seem to be a way to streamline the process (no coworker groupchat or anything like that) though tbhdesu once I tell one person the word’s bound to get around anyways.I’m only 2 months T and they’re already noticing voice changes and I know it’s only gonna get worse. I’ve had this job for a little over a year and I hopefully want to hang onto it probably until the summer, maybe longer.idk, what do I do?
>>42125402You should do exactly as you were advised in the picrel
Do nothing. It's none of their business anyway.When you femfail, you femfail. Then say something.Or, do as I did - say nothing until you file the paperwork for the name change.t. tranny
